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I feel so disillusioned. My DH said that he's sorry for giving me the wrong impression yesterday, but he doesn't want anymore children. He wishes he did, because he knows how badly I long for another child. Since we are at an impasse, we've decided to stop TTCing- we don't want to ruin our marriage. I wish that I didn't feel like there is someone else I haven't met yet. It's so palpable.

To complicate matters, my best friend is going to give birth to her 4th baby and moment now. While I'm over the moon for her, it's going to be very much in my face what I long for but cannot have.

Sadly, I won't be in here much, if at all. I'm going to be moving into our new house and trying to get our house sold. Since I long to know the outcome of your journeys, please PM me! I want to know what happens with all of you and want to keep in touch! PMing, will be much easier for me.

Please keep me in your prayers, and will do the same for all of you! Thank you all for everything. Your support has meant SO much to me!

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[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2 [emoji602], & DS3 [emoji577][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]
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Originally Posted by XXforhubby

I feel so disillusioned. My DH said that he's sorry for giving me the wrong impression yesterday, but he doesn't want anymore children. He wishes he did, because he knows how badly I long for another child. Since we are at an impasse, we've decided to stop TTCing- we don't want to ruin our marriage. I wish that I didn't feel like there is someone else I haven't met yet. It's so palpable.

To complicate matters, my best friend is going to give birth to her 4th baby and moment now. While I'm over the moon for her, it's going to be very much in my face what I long for but cannot have.

Sadly, I won't be in here much, if at all. I'm going to be moving into our new house and trying to get our house sold. Since I long to know the outcome of your journeys, please PM me! I want to know what happens with all of you and want to keep in touch! PMing, will be much easier for me.

Please keep me in your prayers, and will do the same for all of you! Thank you all for everything. Your support has meant SO much to me!

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[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2 [emoji602], & DS3 [emoji577][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]
My Ovulation Chart

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Sorry to hear this, XX. The TTC process is so agonizing, there's always time to back out or change your mind and that makes people keep evaluating and reevaluating their choices. Generally I think it's easier to be decisive so long TTCing seems destined to make people confused and upset. I hope you and your family come to the best decision for you all. Good luck with the move, maybe we'll see you back when things settle down!

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Originally Posted by XXforhubby

I feel so disillusioned. My DH said that he's sorry for giving me the wrong impression yesterday, but he doesn't want anymore children. He wishes he did, because he knows how badly I long for another child. Since we are at an impasse, we've decided to stop TTCing- we don't want to ruin our marriage. I wish that I didn't feel like there is someone else I haven't met yet. It's so palpable.

To complicate matters, my best friend is going to give birth to her 4th baby and moment now. While I'm over the moon for her, it's going to be very much in my face what I long for but cannot have.

Sadly, I won't be in here much, if at all. I'm going to be moving into our new house and trying to get our house sold. Since I long to know the outcome of your journeys, please PM me! I want to know what happens with all of you and want to keep in touch! PMing, will be much easier for me.

Please keep me in your prayers, and will do the same for all of you! Thank you all for everything. Your support has meant SO much to me!

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[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2 [emoji602], & DS3 [emoji577][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]
My Ovulation Chart

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Oh no xxforhubby, so sorry to read this. I will miss you so much, you have been so supportive. I think it is mad how attached I have become to people I don't even know. I wish you and your boys well, I hope you find peace and I hope you have a wonderful happy life. If you do decide to return I will probably still be in this board saying look at my cycle, why can't I get pregnant! Sending hugs, x

I don't know how to pm people? But if I find out how to I certainly will xxforhubby x

Xx I'm so sorry to hear this. Wishing you all the best.xx
I will certainly pm you to find out how you are getting on in the future. Take care of yourself and your family.xxx (((hugs)))

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Xx I know exactly how you feel. DH has continued giving me mixed signals too. He makes little comments all the time like "I'm happy with our family how it is" & if the kids are playing up or are sick he says "and you want another one". I have tried to get him to talk & he always just says well I am happy with how things are but you want another one so we'll keep trying until November. Last night I finally got him to open up more & he admitted he would be gutted if we had another girl & would feel like a failure. If we could guarantee a boy he would be happy but we cannot afford to travel overseas to do that & morally I couldnt anyway (no judgement against those who take this path). He says we don't need anymore girls in the family & I said then I can't continue to ttc knowing that he wouldn't cope with another girl, it just doesn't seem right & I feel that he would resent me for it as I'm the one that wants another one & I would love a boy but would be happy with another girl too. I just wish he had been honest about his true feelings earlier. I never would have started ttc if I knew he wouldn't cope with another girl. Why do men find it so hard to communicate. I feel like the last 18 months of my life have been a waste. I came off the pill in November 2014 & we put off ttc a couple of times last year due to other commitments & I was just tracking my cycle until December last year when we started ttc. I have gained weight & feel horrible about myself as well which isn't helping. We are going away tomorrow as dd3 has an appointment in a city 5 hours away on Monday so DH has said we will talk more in the car. So it looks like I may no longer be ttcing either. I am currently 7dpo & would be really surprised if I was pregnant. Temps aren't doing much & I feel normal & we only got 2 attempts in.


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Originally Posted by Burakoam

Lissa I say that has to be your choice I know two times at positive OPK is more of a boy tactic but you also can't get pregnant at all if you miss the window... Maybe have DH release before hand to lower his sperm count and then Get in another attempt? But I think for a pink sway others will chime in and say one attempt once the OPK is positive is good for pink however you are more likely to get pregnant, period, with one more attempt I believe

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I think this is great advice Lissa, especially if you want to get pregnant quickly. I too was debating having one or two attempts this month (third cycle on Clomid, had a chemical last month).

I ultimately decided to do two attempts. I did a J&D first attempt and we will do our second attempt tomorrow but I will likely lay down for 5-10 minutes.

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Originally Posted by XXforhubby

I feel so disillusioned. My DH said that he's sorry for giving me the wrong impression yesterday, but he doesn't want anymore children. He wishes he did, because he knows how badly I long for another child. Since we are at an impasse, we've decided to stop TTCing- we don't want to ruin our marriage. I wish that I didn't feel like there is someone else I haven't met yet. It's so palpable.

To complicate matters, my best friend is going to give birth to her 4th baby and moment now. While I'm over the moon for her, it's going to be very much in my face what I long for but cannot have.

Sadly, I won't be in here much, if at all. I'm going to be moving into our new house and trying to get our house sold. Since I long to know the outcome of your journeys, please PM me! I want to know what happens with all of you and want to keep in touch! PMing, will be much easier for me.

Please keep me in your prayers, and will do the same for all of you! Thank you all for everything. Your support has meant SO much to me!

[emoji8][emoji92][emoji93][emoji94]




[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2 [emoji602], & DS3 [emoji577][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]
My Ovulation Chart

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Huge hugs to you! Hopefully after things calm down in a few months your DH might be more open to the idea again. In the meantime, hang in there and we will be thinking of you!

Oh my goodness, what a day of awful news! !!

XX you have been such a cheerleader for so many. Sending you huge hugs. I understand the bf baby thing, my DHS sister is pregnant and he wonders why I don't want to look at her cure pregnant belly. Did I mention she got pregnant the month I lost Lily? Yeah...kick in the gut even tho I am SUPER happy for her and excited to be an auntie. It's just been a tough road. I'm sure you will find your equilibrium again...but...and this is for BOTH you ladies... If a baby means so much to you, you might begin to resent your husbands and marriages. I think it can be damaging to
a marriage from experiences with other people. It's one if those things that for some ppl makes them reevaluate the whole marriage. I know ppl who have gotten divorced over this! Not being a herbinger of relationship death but it's something you both need to really do some soul searching over and decide what's right for you.

Hang in there girls, huge hugs and so unbelievably sorry.

I feel like I'm so out, I tested today at 10 dpo and got a bfn. But if I get one more high temp my chart is triphasic...so I'm hoping...

I wanted to post my chart but I can't get the link to work :/