I wish I could give you a big hug!!! Almost felt sick reading that, no mother should have to go through that. Hope you are doing ok and that your other little babe grows healthy!
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I wish I could give you a big hug!!! Almost felt sick reading that, no mother should have to go through that. Hope you are doing ok and that your other little babe grows healthy!
I'm so sorry you have to go through this! We're paying for you and your family I hope everything is good from here on out.
Doctors can be so mean it's like they forget were actual people not just a job! One of my patients was having a stroke and we needed to get her drs okay to administer some medication. So I called him at 1 am and he flipped out at me saying never to call again he doesn't care what the emergency. It was horrible. Sometimes doctors make me so mad. They need to care more!
Tons of hugs to you!
Thinking of you xx
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Bless you and your little baby, praying the rest of your pregnancy goes so much better
Thinking of you today :happy: :heart:
I know a lady who had the same terrible decision as you to make, the surviving baby was absolutely perfect when he was born, he's now 3! Although I know you must be going through hell at the moment, you too will have a perfect baby I'm sure. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this tough time - if you have the strength, maybe you could put in a formal complaint about how you were treated by the dr, it might stop them treating others in this terrible way xxx
What a dreadful thing to go through! Thinking of you and hope you are your baby are doing well xx
Thinking of you sweet mama and your precious little one :heart:
Update!
Tomorrow I am one week since procedure and feeling better (physically) emotionally well that's another story!
Today it saw baby A :-) and baby was active and heart rate at 154 :-) the baby's placenta did have 3 hematomas but otherwise looked fine. We still are not put of the woods and I still don't breathe easy but it's nice getting positive news when everything seems so grim. I got new pics on baby and what she thinks is a nub shot... Not sure but wanted to update thread since my last visit, I see the MFM on the 21st! Just praying everyday for my little one! Attachment 18633
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Nub view :-)
Glad to hear Bub A is doing well, and that you're recovering physically. I have been hoping for an update. 😊 Fingers crossed that all goes well for you from here on in. Sending you my thoughts & love. 💜
Thanks mumofsix :)
I've been holding my breath for your update :) That is great news! Sending positive vibes your way...
So glad you and bub are ok. Praying its a much smoother journey from here for you xx
Thank you Anchor and Pinkdreamz! I have been holding my breathe too :) I'm just happy to get some positive news today and feel a little relieved. I know I'm not completely out of the woods yet but hope has been renewed that's for sure :)
Oh jewelle!! Sending you positive vibes your baby A sounds like a survivor....hoping and praying you are holding him.or her in your arms in six months time happy and healthy xxx
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So glad you have better news. Wishing yourself and bub A all the health xx
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Yay for a positive update!! So pleased. Be kind to yourself and take it as easy as you can xx
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Thank you mamas! I appreciate it :) I'll keep everyone posted!
Thanks for the update!! So glad baby A is doing well. Will continue to think about you and please continue to update!!
Good news honey, been checking daily for an update...What a beautiful sight those u/s pics are, baby is beautiful!!
Thank you Babapink! Hubby and I plan to put a formal complaint but with our referring Dr. so that he doesn't send other patients to that Dr. Thankfully I hear many positive stories after this procedure and I hope my baby will have the same outcome :)
How are you feeling now? Are you past the danger zone after the procedure? Xx
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Oh Jewelle I'm just reading your updates and Im in tears for you. I can feel your pain thru your words. What a brave decision, I'm sure this was the best way to go how sad it is....you are a strong lady deeply respect for you. :bighug:
Thanks Lisvana! It hasn't been easy but seeing and feeling my other baby has kept me at ease with my decision! This journey has not been easy but staying as positive as I can be!
Ladies,
I am mess right now. I'm sorry I haven't posted in a while but things have not been good this pregnancy.
Last week, we found out our baby-who we now know is our 4th boy- had a echogenic bowl (meaning two white spots on tummy) this the Peri said could be a number of things: down syndrome, cystic fibrois, infection, or swallowing blood in amniotic fluid or IGUR. Adding to this the baby was 8 days behind and my amniotic fluid was a 7cm total which is on the low end.
Fast forward to yesterday, the echogenic bowl is still there and all test came up negative-Materni21, Amnio, Blood Test etc....but now my amniotic fluid is at a 3cm, baby is measuring 13 days behind and 13oz, basically the Dr gave us NO hope at all- he said if things don't improve my body would go into labor or I would come next appointment to find out my baby had passed.
I am mess right now, I have been crying my eyes out- I don't even care he is not a girl, I just love this little boy and feel terrible for wanting him to be a girl when all along there was more things for me to worry about like his health.
My options right now are to terminate by next week- I'll be 23 weeks and it's illegal after 24 weeks or prepare for a future stillbirth, if things don't improve. I'm cannot believe I put my self, this baby, my husband and children in this situation.
This pregnancy started out as twins lost B due to anecepphaly and now this! I feel as if I am being punished for trying again all because we wanted a girl. I just need a miracle to happen here- this is so unfair and hurts me so much.
Thank you all for listening and I appreciate your prayers....
Oh Jewelle I am so sorry. Praying for your and your family.
You poor thing! Please please please don't blame yourself. I'm so heartbroken for you and will definitely keep you and your family in my prayers.
Jewelle I'm new to this post and just wanted to say I'm sorry your going through this, pray mommy and hope that all changes;/ keeping you & your family in my T & P...hugs!
Praying for your dear boy..
Oh Jewelle :( I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. Hoping and praying for the best outcome for you and your baby xxx Wishing you all the love and strength you need to get through.
:( I am so sorry. My little one was measuring 3 weeks behind and I had her at 32 weeks and 1 day. She was born 2 lbs and 8 oz. My fluid was also at 3 and was given IV and 2 steroid shots to mature the lungs
I hope your little one is a fighter just like my little one.. Sending massive prayers your way :HH:
Is there no way to fix the fluid? How devastating with everything you've been through already too:(
My last boy had echogenic bowel and we had every test done but that turned out just fine! I wish that was your only concern:(
Hoping there is something more that can be done for you and your sweet boy! Do not feel guilt, this is not your fault!!
Thinking of you!!((hugs))
My heart goes out to you. Sending you strength and healing love xx
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with such hard news & difficult decision!
Did they suggest increasing your fluid intake? Depending on the reason for low fluid, sometimes the mother drinking a lot more can increase it. Also, fluid is really hard to measure. It's kind of like looking up from under a bathtub with an adult in it & trying to guess how full it is.
I'm so sorry honey, I'm hoping you get your miracle, thinking of you and your little boy. We're here for you, keep us posted and feel free to vent. Hugs xxxx
You're not being punished, most of us on here are here because of gender desire/family balancing. You've just had a really tough time through sheer bad luck. It was nothing you did or thought x
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Oh my heart goes out to u and your precious baby - I have no words but will keep you and youe family in my thoughts and prayers ..hugs
Oh jewelle, how terrible. I am so sorry my dear. Hoping things can turn around. My prayers are with you and baby boy.
Jewelle I just read this whole threadh what a heartbreaking roller coaster ride. Im praying for u and ur baby and that ur situation turns around soon.
Oh Jewel, I am so sorry you're going through such a terrible time. Praying for you and your little boy and hoping for your miracle. And please don't think it is in any way your fault!!