Big big big hugs MyByC!! I'm so sorry this wasn't your month :(
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Big big big hugs MyByC!! I'm so sorry this wasn't your month :(
Thats such a wonderful feeling I have you all here with me. Thank you for everything. It means a lot.
Thank you to each one of you for the kind words..and a special special for my Cristina (she knows why ❤️).
XX, I have a feeling for you this month...😜
Girls around forum know my 'feelings' are always right 😄
Kisses😘😘
Keepthefaith, I had wonderful time first 6 days after my ov. Went for a holiday trip in Istanbul with my BFF and her husband...It was amazing. I didnt thought at egg, implantation etc AT ALL. But when I came back, it was HORRIBLE!
MyByC- we started ttcing officially this past August, so 4 months and 5 cycles. We have had 5 attempts. I recently bought a plan from Atomic after my chemical. Changed things up a bit!
I think it will take me 2 more cycles, since my hormones are out of wack. I am ok with that. I feel we will get our DD, since it is taking much longer than with my 2 boys. That helps me to keep going, plus my DH wants a DD so badly! I keep everything up so well, so if we get another DS, we will know we tried everything we could! I keep praying, and thanking God each day for my 2 boys. They are such gifts and extra special that they came to us right away! I couldn't live without them, and if they are all we are meant to have, I can't complain and feel truly blessed! My boys are the loves of my life!
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Thank you ladies for your kind words! I sure hope you are right!
FX for all of us waiting! May we get our positive opks soon or our BFPs!!
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XX, you are a fighter! A hero...
I admire you..
I dont know how much more my psihic can resist...I'm just down...
Good luck to everyone!
Oh xx, you can have all my pink dust!
I guess I'm the opposite, I got pregnant with both DDs very quickly (first cycle off of BC with DD1, and second cycle off of BC with DD2 and we were trying to avoid...lol), but with this one it has taken 3 cycles and almost 5 very long months (I had a 56 day long cycle last time!)
Don't give up mybyc, I was really discouraged after my last 56 day long cycle, I was SURE this one would be just as long, and I ended up Oing on CD22-23. I know the girl diet is hard because I was dieting like that both times I got pregnant, but I truly believe it works. Good luck to you!
Thank you Belleboi! I need all the pink dust I can get 😊!
By the way, I just sent you a truck load of my patented blue baby dust!!
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Hi ladies. I had little spotting over the weekend, pink at first and then brown, I was sure it was pre- AF , but then it stopped. AF is due today, but no sign of it yet. Telling myself it's just late (last cycle I was 4 days late) so I won't get too disappointed...I guess I'll chek again today or tomorrow, have to buy hpt. Good luck everyone and don't lose your faith!!!
That sounds so promising Grace!
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Grace - FX for you! Update please?
Belleboi - Congrats!!!
MyByC - *hugs* I feel your pain. I started preparing in March with monitoring my cycles, started supplements in July, and the diet August 1. Our first attempt was in August. We got pregnant so easily the other two times while battling Lyme disease, and I spent much more time preparing my body for this one, I'm so much healthier, but here we are on attempt cycle 5. I went through all the stages of grief about it: denial, anger, sadness. I rack my brain over what could've gone wrong and what I could do better. And ultimately, this past af the end of last week, I found peace with it. I heard a story recently: Two men asked when they would be reincarnated as whatever highest thing and the answer was 1000 lifetimes or something really high. One reacted by crying because it would take so long. The other started dancing because he was overjoyed that it would come eventually. I am a Christian, not a Hindu, but I appreciate the moral of this story, and I decided to be the one dancing. I also had a verse from the old hymn "Rock of Ages" stuck in my head lately, "Not the labors of my hands can fulfill Thy law's demands. Would my zeal forever show, Would my tears forever flow, All for sin could not atone, Thou must save and Thou alone." We can do everything in our power, but ultimately we have to hand our desire to conceive over to God. So I am still doing my best, but I realized that to be my best that includes a little indulgence here and there. If the gym isn't working for you, stop. Try a different activity. If you're underweight (I was with dd!), eat something. Atomic says one meal isn't going to sway one way or the other, it's over time. So please enjoy your Christmas. Do something special for you like get a massage or manicure or whatever will make you feel good. And you feeling good does help your sway!
How would I feel without your sweet words? Depressed!
How do I feel now?
IN POWER 😄
Thank you AGAIN and AGAIN!
You are all so wonderful. I'd "kill" to have you ALL close and meet because only between us exist understanding...Around I find no understanding for my "sway".
People would laugh or say "hei, I ate plenty of meat and still have a girl. Haha"
I only live and do everything correct until my next attempt because of a hope...I hope...
Sage, such terrible with the Lyme disease. I am so sorry!! You are so strong! You deserve more then I am a BFP and still not crying like a baby (me).
I am a Christian to and I spent the last year reading books, forums, websites..EVERYTHING! Talked with a lot of doctors, changed them and so on...
I do pray..a lot and I know that only God decides.
I read something the other day regards egg, sperm and the divine connection named entity..which will be baby's soul. If it's not there when the other 2 are, then no fecundation occurs....
You have a DD and I have a DS.
I find it sooo easy in making a boy...and you must probably think the same in your case :))))
How's life :-)
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Grace- FX for you! I hope AF stays away!
SageViolet and MyByC- I hope this next cycle is it for you two!
To all of us ladies that have been ttcing for awhile, I pray we can find peace and strength to keep trying for our little one!
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Do you want to renew mybyc? Or do you want to talk to AS first? Because you can just pay and it will be renewed and your private forum will be answered quickly by atomic just as before.
You don't have to talk to AS first unless you want to
Yes, I want to continue my private with Atomic.
Then you can just go to memberships and plans (in the green menu) and choose membership support renewal. That's all it takes, I think its something like 30 dollars, not sure
Good luck
Agh! Twelve more days until I will test! 2 dpo, and I have a stronger appetite than usual. These crazy hormones of mine! I wish they would get back to normal soon! I have GOT to add fiber back in during the 2ww, otherwise I will eat myself out of a house and home! Lol! I think I will add in cinnamon in my morning coffee for insurance! This has never happened to me before during the 2ww. Thank goodness I am still doing exercise!
Counting down the days to AF so I can start over again.
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XX, why are you so sure AF will come?
I am not 😊
MyByC- I guess it is just a way to prepare myself. I know I have a good chance, but my day 3 FSH last cycle was a whooping 44.5!!! I feel it will take at least another 2 cycles to get it back down to a normal level. Thank goodness. I stopped taking that stupid supplement! Ironically, I don't have any of the symptoms that I had years ago that caused me to take it in the first place!
FX for all of us ladies!!!
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Grace & Keepthefaith, FX for you both that AF stays away.
Glad to see you're feeling a bit better, MyByC - it's amazing how much it helps to have others swaying with you who understand. Most people just don't get it.
My temp spiked this am and my O pain was so severe I slept badly (except for a super hot sex dream with one of my favourite fictional heros, Trent Kalamack - I almost NEVER dream due to meds I'm on so I was very pleased for multiple reasons!). I am still having O pain so I really hope I'm not releasing another egg, or if so that only one fertilizes. My CBFM is still giving me High but my OPKs are fading (though still positive, this is the longest surge I've ever had, 4 days in a row!). I had some almost AF like cramping too. But my CM is creamy and cervix is low, firm and closed so I consider myself 1DPO.
I started swaying in November 2013 and TTC Dec, Jan, Feb, and Mar with no luck. But 2 of those months I BDed too late, either O day or the day after O, bc of Oing the same day of my first positive OPK. Then I took a break from swaying over the summer. Technically I've been NTNP or TTC since Dec 2011, but I had my miscarriage and it messed me up a lot, and then I moved continents, so most of the time I wasn't really trying. I'm feeling more pressure now for sure.
Maiden- My surge was 4 days long too! Almost exact same symptoms to a T, except I am 2dpo!
FX for us ladies!!!
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Ladies have you had big O since ttc? We've been scared incase messes with acidity or whatever!! However needing some action lol!! Sorry if tmi
KeepFaith, nope. I asked hubby to do it fast so I dont go in the oposite side :)))
I had O with my boy and I think it helped A LOT since I immediatelly J&D and did a shower, + it was a release with 4-5 days before my Ov. What a strong boy I have 😄
Maiden, I read that if a egg is fertilised, it instantly kill the other sperm around and make the other eggs to back up...
Are you taking Clomid?
Good luck to you and XX. Hope you have a beautiful Christmas gift.
Keepthefaith- I have had the big O from time to time while ttcing. I didn't have the big O with my two boys, so I don't think it matters for me, anyway. I don't intend on having one when we have our attempts, but if I do, I don't freak out 😉!
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XX, crazy how similar we are this month! Maybe it's the full moon causing wackiness?
Keepthefaith, my meds prevent me from being able to orgasm. So no big Os for me. Very rarely, like once or twice a year, I might orgasm during a sex dream when my med levrls are at their lowest. Don't think I did last night though.
MyByC, thank you! No, I'm not on Clomid but I naturally hyperovulate and release 2 eggs every few months. And I haven't since August so it's highly likely, ugh. I had a migraine when my estrogen levels peaked this cycle and that only happens in hyperO months usually. I used to want twins but since miscarrying the set I conceived in 2012 and since my back has gotten so much worse, I'm hoping for just a singleton.
Maiden, let's hope at least 1 egg gets fertilised! Praying this is your month!
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BFP !!!
I just tested this morning!! Still haven't told DH since he's kind of having an anxiety attak over having another baby...I wonder when he'll grow up ;)
Truth is I'm surprised. I was sure we DTD to close to o, and I've had months with more 'pregnancy like' symptoms before AF than this cycle. I just want to add that I'm really glad to have you ladies to share my news with. You are so amazing, each and every one of you, so supportive and accepting, it is priceless!! So thank you and I hope good news are coming your way soon xoxo
Congratulations Grace!!!!
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Congratulations Grace that's fantastic news! Hope your have a happy nine months :)
I'm 7dpo today. Not sure why I'm so tempted to POAS as that's plain silly! I will wait till Saturday to test as have a night out planned and wouldn't want to have a couple of drinks without seeing a bfn.
Grace, congrats!!! What a beautiful Christmas gift!
Ugee, just hold a little longer. Keep my fingers crossed.
Yay Grace, congratulations! Hopefully you'll be the trendsetter for the rest of the month. How many DPO are you, what's your DD?
Ugee is next up to test... I admire your restraint in not testing until Saturday.
Congrats grace!
I've been reading along but haven't had a lot to contribute. I think I'm on 10dpo but in not going to test until I'm late. It's been too many months of wasting tests. I'm due for AF around the 16th. It's been a bit all over the show the last year so I can't be sure how long my cycle is. I've been pretty bad eating this last week. Really must crack down on the diet.
Congrats, Grace!!! I knew it! Seriously, I knew it, lol! I am *the luckiest* cycle buddy. I participate here and on one other group, and every cycle the past 3 times, there has been only one other person who o'ed the same day as me and that person has gotten a bfp. What are the odds? Hope it's my turn next time!
And I like to O when we dtd, but I don't stress over it. I had a really big O with dd, like one of the biggest and best ever, so you pink swayers don't need to worry!
Sage, dont be sad yet! Maybe Christmas brings good news to everyone around.
I really hope and pray that whoever remained here get their BFP by end of 2014!
Let's just pray for this!
Today I found out that a girl I know is pregnant (6 weeks) and she was diagnosticated with infertility last year...
Can you imagine?
What were the chances?
And I bet she is having a girl due to her style of life and abstinence of her husband (he was outside of country until they conceived) 😄
Yay Grace! This makes my day!! I hope you have a healthy sticky bean and a wonderful nine months!!
Let's keep the BFP's coming!
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Eeek congrats Grace!!
Ugee Im testing Saturday too!!