Let's hope this is one of many BFPs this month!
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Let's hope this is one of many BFPs this month!
2boysjustonegirl- OMGOMGOMG!! I am so excited for you! I pray for a sticky, healthy, pink bean for you! Oh my goodness- I can't stop smiling! Ok so I am dancing around the room!!
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Missy- fingers crossed for you!!! I would send you pink dust, but all I have is blue! But lots of baby dust to you!!!
2boys!!!!! I couldn't be more happy for you!!!! Best of luck that you caught a healthy little egg!! That makes me wish I wouldn't have waited to have a cycle after my dnc:(. I'm on cd2..... I hope to join you late this month or early next month!! Feeling really positive about this month!
Do you think soy played any part in your miscarriage? Ds2 is a healthy soy baby, but I don't want to do ANyTHING to cause another "December" for me! I also want to try to move my ovulation up, it was about 4 days sooner with ds2. As of right now if I got pregnant this cycle the due date would be my mother in laws birthday, I want to avoid that at all costs. If it moves up a few days it would be my birthday, I am a-ok with that. Here I go again trying to control everything! One would have thought I would have learned my lesson, only God is in control, but I can't help to persuade fate lets say.Quote:
Originally Posted by 2boysJustOneGirl
Tarasue my miscarriage was likely bc of chromosomal abnormalities. The maternitT results showed an elevated 22 marker- and baby gender was a girl. Anyway I don't think soy caused this- I believe the miscarriage was natures way.
2boysjustonegirl- did you have any symptoms up to your BFP? I know they are most likely due to increase in progesterone anyway, but I am curious!
I am just feeling/looking bloated. I have about 7-9 days until I test. AF should be due 8 days from now. I am currently 7dpo. If I don't get a BFP, then this is going to be one helluva period!! I NEVER bloat until the day of AF. Who knows what is normal when ttcing 😆?!
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Xx- I had lots of symptoms! Started out with bloating, then lots of cramping and hunger/nausea. The cramping was pretty intense two days ago-it felt like o pains actually. I also had pressure deep in the pelvis. It's so easy to have hope and doubt all at the same time, and normal changes from day to day! I have never had such intense early symptoms before. You still have many days ahead to experience symptoms so I am optimistic for you!!!! XX positivity can go a long way!
2boys congrats!!! So happy for you! Pink dust on your way!
Congrats 2boys!!!
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WOOHOO!!! AWESOME NEWS 2BOYS!!!!! Congratulations!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by 2boysJustOneGirl
Very happy for you 2boys 😃
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Eeek many congrats!! Hope I'm same next week but doubting it at mo!!Quote:
Originally Posted by 2boysJustOneGirl
CONGRATS 2boys! What wonderful news! Lots of sticky vibes your way!
Ugh! I am sorry ladies, but I need to vent. So I woke up from a nap this afternoon with my boys, and I woke up dizzy, with nausea. It is still lingering, even eating carbs with protein. This afternoon, I am not certain what happened, but I have a muscle in my groin that hurts/ feels like it has been pulled. I feel/look bloated. Then DH keeps rubbing me the wrong way! Now I just wish AF would come! Ugh! I am so over waiting already! I am probably not pregnant and wonder if I ever will be again 😞. Now I am mad, because I don't get PMS, never have, and watch I start getting it now just to get my hopes up!
I am not in a good place. I am a hot mess right now. Sigh...
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Vent it out xx! This is the place! I am sorry you are having a ishy day.
I am super gloomy today. I feel fat and gross and pms-sy! I just need to cry I think that would help.
I feel that way too, but I am not normally a hormonal person. I just don't know what I would be crying for, YK? I feel like I am in suspended animation. I guess I need to embrace this and withdraw within to see what comes up. Some meditation will help bring me back to center.Quote:
Originally Posted by tarasue
❤️❤️❤️ Tarasue!!!!
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Congrats 2boys!!! Hope this is your sticky pink rainbow :)
Congrats 2boys!! Im sending you all of my pink dust!!!
... I was expecting AF yesterday or today, so far no show. Although, I have the pimples all over my face and 2 neg FRER's to indicate she is on her way :rolleyes:
If she doesnt arrive, I am going to try my best and save my last FRER until Sunday or Monday, because I o'd so late. Every BFN is so depressing, especially with all of the BDing.
Are you sure that's not from leftover HCG? My FRER looked just like that 2 weeks after my 7 week miscarriage, even though my cheapie tests looked pretty negative. It was leftover HCG still in my system. I ended up O'ing a week later than normal, 21 days after my miscarriage and AF arrived on CD35.Quote:
Originally Posted by 2boysJustOneGirl
Tarasue so sorry to hear about your Mc, I've been there it sucks. I hope you get your nice sticky bean very soon.
bree_cooper11 your not out until she shows some people don't get a bfp until after AF is due. Depends how well your body metabolizes the hcg into your urine. In my 7 pregnancies I've never gotten a bfp before 12dpo (latest 16dpo) but yet the day I've had a feint positive a blood test has been well over 300! So I obviously don't get much hcg passing into my urine. So fingers crossed for you!
Also I hear you on the breakouts, I never suffer from hormonal breakouts but since about 10dpo my face has been ridiculously oily and pimples everywhere! Also this morning my gums bled when I brushed my teeth! which has never happened before either. I don't even know if that's a sign or not?
AF was due today and it's after 6pm and no sign yet, eek! I can't believe its 15dpo and I haven't tested yet! I'm usually a complete poas addict. But tomorrow is a very significant date for me so it feels right waiting to hopefully see my bfp then. Although I'm seriously considering testing when I get home from work as it will be 1am so technically the 10/1 and surely at 16dpo I should see a positive after holding my wee for 8 hours while I'm at work?
Anyone else testing tomorrow?
Missy bleeding gums is def a sign!!!! Eeek good luck xxx
Well Im 10 DPO and I did a test and i think there is the faintest line i have ever seen but its so faint DH can't see so I'm not sure if it's my mind playing tricks. I tried to take a photo but so weak doesn't show up! Feeling a bit crampy and wondering if this might be related or else I'm totally wrong and reading far too much into nothing! Will test again tomorrow morning see if line stronger (if indeed what I am seeing is a line!) Will report back with an update!!
I responded in the BFP thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by essnce629
I had bleeding gums before all three of my positive pregnancy tests. Good luck to you missy, I can't wait to see if you get a positive!
I thought I was pregnant to due to the way I am breaking out, but it was just Af. My hormones are just so out of wack since the mc.
Today is cd 4, going to start clomid tonight!!! Fx I get a good strong egg. I have never had fertility issues with my first two sons. But with the baby I just lost it took me like to cd35 to ovulate. I would almost get a positive test, then it would go negative. I had actually given up on the opk's and was just bd-ing every 3 days and must have caught the egg then. My dr feels that since it took longer for me to release the egg and then lost the baby the clomid will help make a big strong egg:). Hope it works and hope it helps sway pink. My LE diet is weak. I didn't follow it after I got pregnant, so have only been back at it a few weeks. I will have about four good le days, then a cheat day:/. Not proud of that but I am more worried about a healthy baby. My dr also has me in prescribed prenatal, I may start taking every other day. I want healthy over a girl at this point. I really don't know what I would do with a girl anyway... They kinda scare me, but I want the mother/daughter relationship.
Sorry to ramble on....
You are so cute Tarasue! I agree choosing healthy over a baby girl. I have changed things up too, to boost my fertility. I think our maternal conditions are on the low side anyway, and I hope that counts in our favor!! FX you catch the egg!
Keepthefaith- I'll be stalking to see if there is a line tomorrow morning!!
FX for all the ladies waiting to test! I hope you all get your BFPs!!!
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Me me me, I'll be 11dpo about tomorrow and I saw v v v v v faint line today so excited to try again in the morning!!
GL xxx
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Originally Posted by MissyMc7
Come on girls post photos of your faint bfps!! I love line spotting!! Lol yay congrats to all the bfps!!!!!
Good luck Keepthefaith! Sounds promising! Hope you see a nice dark line tomorrow!
Yes, the donor is a mostly platonic friend who has been a friend with benefits in the past. He really wants kids and co-parent, but understands I have the final say on everything.Quote:
Originally Posted by katewantsagirl
Kate & tarasur I hope the pull out method works for you! I have never actually done that, as I really prefer for my partner to finish inside me. Plus it seems like it would not be as enjoyable for the man.
I am not sure when I Oed - I didn't have my full on distinctive O pain this month. I think likely CD16-17, but not at all sure which. Unfortunately CD17's temp is not reliable; I didn't sleep at all that day just took my temp after 3 hours lying in bed reading & browsing on my tablet. And that was at night, too, since I was never able to fall asleep the previous night. I was surprised it was so low after having been up so long! Right before finally crashing the night of CD17 I had a bit of EWCM but up until then it had been creamy since CD15. CD18's temp spike was taken under perfecr conditions so I do feel confident I Oed. Just not sure when. FF thinks CD15, I think that's not likely, but I have had slow temp rises before on Vitex plus I have those 2 cysts from last cycle which may be affecting things. I just hope my attempt wasn't too far away. I am now somewhere between 1-3DPO.
Missy, welcome and fx you see a BFP tomorrow!
2boys and (hopefully?) KTF, big congrats on your BFPs. I know you both have been through a lot to get your much deserved, hopefully healthy & girly pregnancies.
XX, I hope you're feeling better today?
tarasue, I am also particular about potential due dates, for multiple reasons including astrology and my own seasonal issues (I have SAD so no Jan/Feb babies for me). I know it's not up to us but I can't help trying to at least aim for al Fall baby. Good luck with clomid too, I am jealous! I do think it will help make a strong egg as well as strongly swaying pink.
Ladies, my mother from whom I've been estranged for several years now, just died (apparently on her 70th birthday, eerily enough). We had a very difficult relationship and she hurt me very badly (lies, betrayal, slander thefts of huge sums of money leading up to our estrangement and even after I cut off contact), but I am really sad bc now there is no chance she will ever change and become a true mother. It was unlikely, I knew that with how increasingly psychotic she became over time, but I still kinda hoped. My biological father died this past summer very suddenly, but he had severe alzheimer's for several years and we were never close. My younger brother is being a complete asshole, he is starting to remind me very much of our mother in his behaviour, he's emotionally manipulative, selfish and ungrateful, too. I am just so fed up with him and his recent attitude toward me (all sorts of BS comments bc I refused to talk to mother on her deathbed). :(
Oh Maiden! My heart goes out to you! Try your hardest to not let your brother get you down. Remember he is grieving, and this often brings out the worst in people. Try your best to make peace with your mother. I know this may be hard, because of her passing, but it will help you to heal from it all. Oddly enough, we don't need to reconcile a relationship in person with someone, we can do it on our own and it can be the easiest. I had to do this with my biological father, since I have never known him, and he is not in my life.Quote:
Originally Posted by maidentomother
I pray for you. This is a hard blow, but I know you can get through it in time. Be easy on yourself. 😘
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So sorry for your loss maiden. I hope you find peace and comfort in such a difficult situation.
Maiden I'm thinking of you loads. Xx
So sorry for your loss maiden. Illness and death of family members can bring out the worst in people. In the last 2 years my family has been completely torn apart by it.
Tarasue I know how you feel. I was swaying for my first pregnancy as I wanted a girl but after all the m/c's I gave up caring and just wanted a healthy baby. Did everything my specialist said including some things which sway very strongly blue and got my beautiful daughter anyway. So I hope the same happens for you. Do the best you can on the diet and together with clomid I think you've still got a good pink sway.
As for me I tested last night when I got home from work at 1am and again this morning at 7am. Both times a second line appeared within 20 seconds of dipping the test in (using ic's) but it's not very dark so now I'm worried as I googled feint bfp at 16dpo and every story I read turned out to be a chemical. Don't know what to think? Haven't told dh yet as he said if I have another m/c we're not trying again and I should just be happy with what we have.
I'll try and figure out how to post a picture later if i can.
Okay hopefully the attachment works?
Okay so what do you think? Too light for 16dpo? Doomed to fail?
Could you try a FRER? I do see a faint line, but I had this happen with DS2. I didn't get a true positive until 21dpo!!! FX for you! Plus AF has not come yet so that is a good sign!!
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That's a positive. Don't lose hope xxxxQuote:
Originally Posted by MissyMc7
I don't know if we have FRER in Australia?