I'm so glad you had a sticky been in there dream sister and your now back with us. Glad you hung in there and didn't decide to have anything to help you mc because you wasn't.xxxx
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I'm so glad you had a sticky been in there dream sister and your now back with us. Glad you hung in there and didn't decide to have anything to help you mc because you wasn't.xxxx
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Exactly. Last week the doctor even said to me that he was store sure my pregnancy would end in MC and offered me medicine to help it go fast. And now I am 6 weeks Pg. with good HCG-level!Quote:
Originally Posted by Beautifulrainbow
DS1 (9) ❤️ DS2 (8) [emoji173] DS3 (5) ❤️ DW (41) [emoji1326] DH (38) [emoji144] TTC'ing pink from May 2016
6 weeks is still early to see much! Fingers crossed at your next scan all is well. I do think they are too quick to diagnose miscarriage early on
FX and [emoji1317] so hard that this is a healthy, sticky bean you have growing in there Dreamsister!!
I'll be stalking for updates!
When is your next scan? Are they having you do repeat bloodwork?
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Thanks XX. Yes, I think they will take a new bloodwork, but they was satisfied with the level today so I think the scan and what they see here is more crucial to them. On Monday My HCG-level was 7300 on Monday and today Friday morning it was 15.000 so it is going up.
I am very surprised that they almost doomed me out just because I O'ed ten days later.... We did only BD 1 or 2 times in the 2 WW so I am very surprised that I got pregnant.
The hole process have been delayed so this means I got my first BFP 7 DPO which is early I think. But as I said I am trying not to get my hopes up, bc this can very well still end in MC.
Fx you get your BFP in July...
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My husband wants to do 3D scan I am scared , and my daughter says if it's a boy she taking the bus home and not leaving her room lol oh my I just had to laugh lol. I been crazy lately I have my younger sis and two nieces staying with us and our kids been so hyper lol
I just had parent at my children's school telling me I'm having another boy over and over again. She had 3 boys herselg and she doesn't believe you can have a girl after having so many boys because there is another parent at the school who had 4 boys
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Well ladies the news isn't surprising it's another boy, all is well in there which is good but I'm gutted I'm having a third boy!
Huge hugs! Give yourself time to process. Know that you did the best you could.
In time, you'll see how special 3 boys are. Right now, just focus on getting through. Of course you'll love him when you meet him, but right now that may seem so far away. That is ok. We will all be here for you!
While my DH was gutted hearing we were going to have son #3, we were just talking this morning how DS3 really balances our boys!
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I'm really sorry you didnt hear pink, pinklady! Give yourself time I felt the same with my 3rd boy but he was so special the swetest thing ever.
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Sorry pink lady wow ur scan really looked girly! Will this be your last?
I'm so sorry pink lady. Lots of hugs xxx
Wasn't another member finding out today also?
Ohhh, pinklady, I am really sorry you did not get the gender you wanted, but hey you are not alone, we are many with the exact same experience of deep deep disapointment. Don't worry, you'll get over it, just give it time. I promise you: having 3 of a same kind is awesome. My third son is a true blessing to the hole family. His two big brothers adores him and I agree with what XX said, the third boy brings harmony and so much joy. I wish you strength and positive spirit so you can manage your disapointment and hopefully in a little time you will look forward to welcome this little person with his own special personality. Big hug and blessings to you.Quote:
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Pinklady big hugs :-( My ds3 is such a funny boy though, they seem to get more funny the more you have, im so glad I have him as we could have stopped at 2.
Did anyone else feel instantly teerful the second it implanted? Even before my bfp I just felt sad and down for no reason. I feel grumpy and fed up and tearful and cant handle pressure, it sucks! Sometimes regret having put myself and my family through me being such a grump!
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Yes I did the day before I got my bro I had a crazy emotional rollercoster day. I went from being anygey with the kids to ok then snapping at the hubby to ok again the when I went out I stopped at a coffee shop where a barista smiles at me and I walked up had years in my eyes and almost burst into tears. Bet she thought I was a crazy person!Quote:
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My husband keeps bothering me to have selective gender scan done, I'm just not ready and don't want to hear boy.
Would it be easier to find out by tech telling us for my anatomy scan or have her write it down and have a place put pink or blue balloons in a box and let my kids do the reveal?
Glad its not just me! My OH said Im so difficult atm!
Maybe get them to write it down and then you can decide at a later point
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I wouldn't do a reveal unless you are 100% OK with hearing boy publicly. I'd get it written down and you can open when you are ready x
True I don't want to feel sad in front of my kids.
I now posted my 12 week scan on this group again and now some say boy, lol weird because before they all said girl.
My cousin told me not to worry and tried to make me feel okay if it was to be a boy, she has only two girls and is done wih kids. She wanted a boy. Just glad my nieces and my daughter are the same ages we are all bffs lol.
I don't think your scan has a clear nub so people are just guessing. Don't worry.
I have been feeling very depressed and just wanting to lay around and cry. Not sure why. I wasnt like this with my boys. I am trying to get past it but I'm struggling.
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I expect its all the stress of your nub guesses etc. Putting the pressure on and with hormones too. Im going to try avoid seeing the nub as I think Ill then dwell on it.
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Chocolate yes it is all from that exactly!
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Baby isn't even in correct position here, and honestly looks more like my dd than my two ds scans they were similar.
Good note we purchased such pretty gray leather sectional for our upstairs just need to find a sliver or gray large area rug to match lol shopping makes me happy haha
I cant see a nub, yes shopping makes me feel very happy ;-) Doing little bits to the house through this pregnancy keeps me happy!
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So sorry pink lady you didny hear girl xz
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Got blood taken for Marternit21 test on Thursday. They said should have it week to 2 weeks so we will know by 12 weeks if we are having a girl or boy.
7 year old girl died in our town this week, at cheer camp, she collapsed examiner says she had a condition parents did not know, it so sad, parents also have a son same age as my oldest and then their daughter. Everyone in our town are tying purple ribbon on our trees and poles to honor the family.
My daughter is same age and it breaks my heart and makes my realize how bless I am for my children who are healthy. Honestly my kids are my best friends and my daughter is my husbands only girl so far he also has two teenager boys. She was his dream come true
I'm sorry you didn't hear girl, pinklady.
I feel such a jumble of emotions. I am certain this is another boy and I want to cry. I know I will love him and he will be an amazing addition to our family but I so wanted to have a girl. And I feel stupid about it because it isn't just a girl but my whole image in my head of what she would be like...which is craziness.
We told our boys last weekend that there was going to be another baby in January. My ds1 immediately jumped to the conclusion that it would be a boy (how could it not be!?) But then he said to my ds4: "In January, you might be a big brother!" And I said, no...he is a boy...he will be a big brother. "Well the baby could die." My ds1 replied. And I've been doubting myself so much since then. The boys are happy being the 4 of them, what are we doing? Even though I know the likelihood is boy #5, I can't stop wishing and hoping a miracle will happen and we will have a girl. I feel like we made a mistake. Like I made a mistake because dh was content with 4 and I convinced him we should try one last time.
I likely won't know until September, if I get the guts to find out, because the ultrasound techs aren't allowed to say anything here. I will have to wait till my next appt. So it is silly to be stressing about this all. Sigh.
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So sad :-(Quote:
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I know the feeling, I keep having doubts too if Ive made the right decision but then I see photos of newborn boys and imagine the sibling bond and how 4 years will fly by and before we know it they will be in school together XQuote:
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I'm feeling guilty about the age gap not about having another child. By the time this baby starts school my eldest prob would have left school. My middle will be in a different school and my youngest just about to go up to that different school so this little on will be on his/her own in school
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Same here, will be 4 and a half years between this one and the next one up so hope if its a boy he doesnt feel left out but im sure the older ones will include him. If its a girl ill feel bad for so many brothers lol
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There is 4 1/2 years between my 2nd-3rd but they managed to be in the same school together still see each other lucky but it's 5 1/2 years between this on and my now youngest but that extra year is going to make a difference by the time this little one starts full time school.
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Yeah guesa mine will have 2 years at school together but its not the same aa my others who are 2 years apart. Maybe they will enjoy the space, who knows!
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Maybe we should have another after with a 2 year gap lol
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Haha nope no more for me what ever the out come. Maybe 4 years down the line I will be singing a different tune lol if I could afford more children is keep going I love being pregnant I love baby shopping I love babiesQuote:
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By the time this baby starts school, my oldest will be in grade 11 so almost done school. My saving grace is it is a k-12 school so all the kids will be at one school.Quote:
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