Inforthree I think then you should stick with one attempt, good luck, eek! Exciting, cannot wait to hear your news x
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Inforthree I think then you should stick with one attempt, good luck, eek! Exciting, cannot wait to hear your news x
I just feel really like it's on the way. I woke up in a complete lather last night, cramping and went to the loo and expected af to start but no. Have had this before, I get like this for a few days and then AF starts. Results of the blood draw indicated no ovulation, I am not convinced the timing was right for the test but I have no clear idea of ovulation so am not sure when to expect af! How are you doing? XQuote:
Originally Posted by jennypenny
That is so annoying! I wish there was a way to see what's going on in there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Girlieplease
I am 5 dpo so trying to put it out of my mind for another few days. Hopefully af will stay away for at least a week (or not at all would be even better lol!)
Totally expect af again this month, feel like it's just not gonna happen. Hopefully I will get my referral through in a couple of months for fertility clinic. Xxx
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FX for you, Jennypenny! What dpo is everyone? I hope everyone gets bfps this month!! :)
What about you momamia? Any update? X
Keeping everything crossed for you, I would hold on to the small scrap of hope, so really am not doing that, so af is defo heading my way. Am in sooooooo much pain though, last night I felt like my womb was going to fall out of my body! XQuote:
Originally Posted by jennypenny
I'm 9dpo and had a little temp rise this morning. It's a super weird cycle. I think I'm going to test with a frer in the morning. I haven't really had any symptoms but I really want to test, lol!
So sorry, girlieplease! I hope your pain goes away! :(
Exciting momamia, when is morning for you? It's 10 pm in the uk, this is exciting! X
It's 5:30pm here, so about 15 hours from now I'll test. :)
Good luck momamia4 hope you get your bfp. I think today is O day for me as + opk yesterday, had our attempt last night so fingers crossed. Let the 2ww begin, hopefully I goes quickly. I am not sure we will get a bfp this month as our first trying since swaying but still hopeful.
Good luck MommaMia4, hope this wait goes quickly for you, I know how frustrating it is counting down the days! Hopefully it will all be worth it and you will see your BFP! I don't think it's going to be my month either Kelbear, to say I'm a little devastated is an understatement :(
This is your first month TTC, right? I know it sucks every month you're not pregnant when you're trying, but you could look at it as a good sign, especially if you conceived easily with your DS. That what you're doing IS impacting your fertility, iykwim.Quote:
Originally Posted by PrayingForPrincess
So true foxtrot! It's a fine line! I'm glad what I'm doing is doing something but I don't want it to be too much! Ugh!Quote:
Originally Posted by foxtrotmama
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Good luck momamia. It is interesting to see the time variations. I am 3 hours behind you I think and 17 hours behind Sydney Australia. I love that we are all in different areas and slightly different situations but can come together on this common journey of TTC and swaying.
Good luck Kelbear on your attempt. Hoping you get lucky the first time out. You too PrayingforPrincess.
This is the cycle I have always been most hoping to conceive because I wanted a May baby so if this isn't my month I know I will be depressed.
Oh a lighter note thought I would share what DH said tonight when we went grocery shopping. He said "I hope you get pregnant soon" at which point I smiled and thought he was being nice, but then he continues with, "so we can start eating meat again." Well thanks babe, how about so we can be done with all this TTC stress and have a baby? Men. (He isn't even doing vegetarian, he eats meat a lot, just not as much as before because I plan meals without it). [emoji13]
How did the test go Momamia?
Mrs sparkles I having been stalking for updates, but think it is only about 4 am with momamia, hope she gets a strong bfp!
Any update Lissastick? Hoping your line got stronger x
We were suppose to have our attempt last night as I had my first OPK but DP could not perform, things quickly turned sour as he can not acknowledge there is a problem (this has gone on since I was pregnant with DS) Would I still have a chance today if I had a pos OPK yesterday morning :/?
Praying
My OH gets the same if he knows I am Ovulating, he gets performance anxiety cos of the stress.
Now I just don't tell him ;)
I think you would still have a chance, if you did early today
Girlieplease
Glad I am not the only one stalking to see!
I just want us all to have BFP in Septemeber
He has been the same way over 2 1/2 years :( We only have sex 2-4 times a year so he knows when my OPK is pos as it's the only time he will agree to DTD
Just tested and got a negative on the clearblue ov test :tissue:
I'm sorry that you got a negative :(
What happened 2 1/2 yrs ago for him to feel like this ?
Must be a way of tricking him into DTD hehehhe
No chance for me Mrs sparkles my temps are in my boots but am happy to cheer everyone on. I cannot believe am facing attempting again, I really feel it is pointless, I think I should wait for my fertility appt and hopefully get clomid and then go for it! It is just hard to know what to do between now and then diet/ exercise wise. I think there is some function reason am not conceiving, most likely am not releasing an egg. I don't want to loss any advantage I have gained from diet and exercise which I have been doing since April. But not sure I can motivate myself to continue with it when I have no hope of conceiving! But also am not sure when I will get an appt I was referred in July but it could be many months yet. Such a quandary! X
Girlieplease
Look at it this way.
If you continue on LE and working out, by the time you get Clomid it will be pretty much the best chance of having a girl !
Also you never know, you could end up pregnant between now and the appointment - I've seen that happen on here a few times.
Exiting what it going to happen with all of us. Still no pos OPK for me yet. Can I ask do you avoid certain foods or beverages such as wine and coffee before and under O?
DS1 (9) ❤️ DS2 (8) [emoji173] DS3 (5) ❤️ DW (41) [emoji1326] DH (38) [emoji144] TTC'ing pink from May 2016
I really don't know he just changed when I was pregnant :/ No way of tricking him, he can go months at a time without even "sorting himself out", he's got no sexual desires at all. It's frustrating but I'm going to try convince him to try again today, I got a neg OPK this morning but I read that it's common and you can still ovulate 12-36 hours after.
Praying4Princess
Viagra in his dinner ;)
Joking.
I got a stark white bfn which I'm totally ok with. My temp went right back down today. Like I said before, I really want to do the injectables so I'm totally fine with a bfn this cycle. It's actually preferential for me to not be pregnant this cycle. I'm just twiddling my thumbs waiting for af. Lol!
FX for everyone else this month!!
Prayingforprincess, sometimes men feel differently about sex when their wife/significant other is pregnant because they realize the vagina serves multiple purposes. Sometimes they have a hard time and think of the vagina as a birthing area/belonging to the baby rather than thinking of the vagina as a sexual thing. You could ask him if that's what's going on. I have a friend that happened to. Her and her husband ended up going to sex therapy for it. He felt guilty that he was taking something away from the baby somehow when they had sex. It was really interesting.
You should DTD today if you can! There's still time! And opks after you get you pos can be unreliable.Quote:
Originally Posted by PrayingForPrincess
The SMEP plan says the day after +opk is actually the most important day to DTD! Hope you can get an attempt in. GL!
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Momamia
Interesting you say that.
I guess also guys libido does decrease with age, I know my DH and I were doing it errrry day for years.
And now I'm lucky if it's once a week.
Giving him a zinc supplement also helps a lot!!! This year dh's libido started to slow down, and I was like, hell no! He started taking the zinc and it went right back up again. :)
Haha- not a terrible idea. [emoji851]Quote:
Originally Posted by MrsSparkles
Princess, you still have a chance if you can go for it again. If you are one that Os 36-48 after positive you are in perfect timing.
My DH can't preform under pressure either so I don't tell him when I am in my fertility window. He has low libido too or something and is having trouble keeping up with the e4d frequency. Sex is like a chore now and I am very tired of doing it so much.
PrayingForPrincess, you don't have him on any supps like licorice root, right? I image that would make it way worse. I know a lot of blue swayers (so girl moms) have husbands with low libidos, so maybe it will help? I'd still try to get an attempt in anyways!
Any other POAS addicts? I just took a test even though we didn't attempt this cycle, not surprisingly BFN. :D
Lissa- any updates?Quote:
Originally Posted by Lissastick
Foxtrotmama, that is hilarious and totally made me lol! I am also a POAS addict. :D
I am having really sharp cramping on my right side near my ovary. I'm thinking it's probably my corpus luteum finally rupturing from my miscarriage but I'm super paranoid about ectopic pregnancy after my tubal reversal. I hope it stops soon. It really hurts! I don't want to twist or bend which is frustrating because I want to work in my garden. :/
Momamia you have such a fantastic attitude, you are amazing. Your af has not arrived yet, so are you still not in the running.
I think I might give up, this is my 23 week on the diet and exercise! Nada, am kindof hopeless about it all and think I should wait to get clomid and try then. Don't want to make a decision when am so hormonal, but will cheer you guys on, if you don't mind me hanging around! X
Have you messaged atomic, girlieplease? She might make some adjustments for you.