Cd21 today and pos was cd19Quote:
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Cd21 today and pos was cd19Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
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Cant hurt as will cover a delayed o?
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Maybe you could try eod and ditch the opks? Start cd12 instead and go through to cd20. That would be 5 bd's in all and every 48 hours. I didn't know you were temping!!?? Do you use ff? I'd love the link if so then I can stalk it [emoji102][emoji23]
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When I say temping i did it as much as I could. With two smallies I can often be up during the night with them and taking temp at diff times. Plus I'm 7 weeks post miscarriage so I'm not sure if that plays a role. Yes I use ff. It's great to try figure out what's going on. If I share is it just the graph(don't see my notes etc?)Quote:
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Had bloating and cramping yday which I assume was O? Nothing todayQuote:
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Yes all I see is what you see in say a screenshot. There's no access involved at all, just allows me to see you chart instantly instead of me bugging you for screenshots [emoji12] but if you're more comfortable doing that (screenshot) then please by all means do that instead :)
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O pains can happen before, during and even after o. If you oed yesterday you should have seen a temp rise this morning? If you have the previous days temp to compare it to anyway :)Quote:
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No problem sharing (You're being so kind helping helping!) Ff won't let me share as says there are too many missing temp data? So here's a screenshot https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...7d855eb2c8.jpgQuote:
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Why didn't it start a new cycle on cd28 when you recorded medium flow af?? Definately try and attempt today/tonight, hang on just gotta check something on yor chart again. Brb [emoji23]
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Yep dtd today and you've achieved an eod pattern anyway which is fantastic for blue!!
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I tried to and entered af details but it just kept counting from miscarriage?!Quote:
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Some kind of glitch maybe [emoji848] what happens if you were to enter heavy or medium flow for tomorrow (just for experimentation sake)
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Oh really?! Super ! I'll try get himself on board this eve but I'll have to snap out of my mood first! [emoji4]Quote:
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Just tried entering heavy flow for today and it starts it back at cd1.Quote:
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Hmmmm weird!! Maybe try and enter heavy flow for cd28 then and see if it puts you in a new cycle? Gotta be a glitch...
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So finally got that ff app to update to cd1 when at arrived end oct. Does this change anything??https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...6301ebd546.jpg
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Yay!!! No that's all good now! I'm off to sleep so will check in tomorrow :) Good luck with your attempt today and fx dh is feeling a little more relaxed [emoji120]
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Thanks! Sleep well.Quote:
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How'd it go dreaming?! Were you able to get an attempt in? I have no idea what time it is where you are! Can you post a screenshot of your chart after you put in the mornings temp!
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Morning!(for u) it's 8:15pm here. I'm not long home from work and exercise class. Hoping it'll work out tonight and will post morning screenshot [emoji4]Quote:
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No worries lol!! Ok so we have an approx 10 hour difference as its 6.15am here [emoji3] Good luck for tonight and maybe just dont say anything about 'having' to bd as an attempt. Just take matters into your own hands [emoji6][emoji6] and get things going [emoji16]
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You're up early! Won't say anything but will chance my arm when we go to bed. Fingers crossed !Quote:
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help me! I am so stressed. the plan was to make the first sway attempt in December. This week I decided on cd13 to test ovulation with opk. my cycle length varies from 26 days to 30 days. the last month it took 26 days. I had a dark line in the morning and evening on CD13. Was this my highest peak? Because the next day (CD14) the line became lighter again !! we had unprotected sex on CD14 in the night. it was unplanned! I didnt had the big O and even didnt use preseed!! I had a perfect plan for the sway in my mind but now it seems to go wrong because IF the line on CD13 was the high peak than I have missed he first attempt at that day and only had one attempt at the night of O! Should i have one attempt tonight (night on CD15) or should I wait and continu with testing opk with the hope that the dark line on CD13 wasn’t the highest peak??? And if the line WAS the the highest peak how should I continu with the bd pattern??? I am so sad right now!
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Mum with love that top opk looks pretty darn close to a pos especially for an IC.... you can o anywhere from 12-48 hours after first pos opk (generally its the next day but I've seen plenty of people o the following, sometimes later) If your cycle is usually between 26-30 days then its very possible its your pos. Is your cm still fertile? Regardless of if you have or haven't oed please don't stress too much as its very hard to conceive from one attempt ESPECIALLY on o day (if it was). Remember sperm need up to 12 hours to capicitate in order to penetrate an egg and there's only a very short time for ready sperm to meet egg at ovulation. If you're unsure and if cm is still fertile I'd probably go again as it will either be too late to matter or you end up with two attempts! Win win [emoji3]
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Hi momwithlove. From what I'm learning on here, u did great to bd on night of O and that may be all u need. Yes I think u should bd tonight in case of delayed O.Quote:
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U don't necessarily need preseed if u have enough cm yourself and I remember atomic saying preseed doesn't guarantee boy. I did use it when ttc#2 and I had a girl.
I think you're on tww now? (Me too [emoji4])
I know it's soooo hard but try not to stress too much, it's out of our control now. I've been stressing (as u can see from thread above) as didn't bd on night of O which I'm gutted about but I just have to roll with it now and wait and see.
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Thanks for you answer!! I will try one attempt tonight (CD15) wish me luck!!!Quote:
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Success last nite ! Heres my chart today with bbt included ....https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...76a7088462.jpgQuote:
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I know it is so hard! Because I had a perfect plan in my mind but as you know DH and I are not at the same page! That’s why I was shocked when he didn’t pull out. TMI sorry.Quote:
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Good luck momwithlove!!! How awesome you and dreaming will be in the 2ww together [emoji3]
Dreaming that's a nice temp rise and I look forward to seeing the next few days temps but I'd be happy if I were you and would be fairly confident you've oed [emoji3] oh and I seen above you mentioned to momwithlove that you were bummed you didn't get an attempt in night of o? Well you have! You have a temp spike that is a very promising sign that o occured between temping yesterday morning and this morning so your attempt last night is considered day of o attempt. Plus you have an eod pattern which is fantastic for blue [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]
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Morning! Attached my chart for today including bbt. Was last night's bd a waste of time?Quote:
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Hi dreaming!!! I actually posted a message to you just above [emoji121][emoji23] no way to know if the attempt was too late as you may have oed anytime prior to temping this morning from yesterday morning. Day of o attempts rarely end up in conception (of course it can happen though) but its the eod pattern that counts and sways blue! Think of it as a steady supply of fresh, healthy swimmers just waiting for that egg to arrive [emoji3]
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Hiya,Quote:
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Sorry i missed your post. Im getting lost with all of them. Oh is it?! (Last night O day) you're so knowledgeable !
2 more questions (sorry):
1. Should we attempt bd tonight? [emoji42]
2. When can we stop the boy diet and just eat normally?
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1. Up to you! Certainly cant hurt any and would be good back up anyway. It looks very promising that o has happened with that spike in temp and your pos opk being two cd's earlier but we won't know for sure 100% until we have a couple more temps so if you can another attempt in for just in case that's great!! If you cant then I certainly wouldn't stress about it as you could always just bd the following night if something goes wonky temp wise and keep in with eod :)
2. I'd stay on the boy diet for now. I wouldn't stop until your bfp. By all means though give yourself a day or two break from it as it wont affect anything :)
There's another thing you ladies could try if you like that's said to help with implantation. From either 3-7, 4-8 or 5-9dpo eat a cup of pineapple a day making sure you include the core. The core contains a natural blood thinner (bromelain) that is said to assist implantation. It's obviously not of any help if the egg isn't fertilised but worth a shot if it is. At the end of the day it cant hurt anything whether it does indeed help or not and the upside is, at the least, you get to eat delicious fresh pineapple [emoji3][emoji531]
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Thanks pbn3!Quote:
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Will see how tonight goes of it happens it happens. Will keep taking bbt to monitor temp.
I'll stick with diet until bfp but my face is so bloated [emoji200]
I'm off to buy some pineapple ! I assume this is day 1 so I'll start eating it 2 days from now x
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What does pineapple so dreamin rainbow? Your attempts and sway looks great, Well done �� I’m pretty convinced I’m not ovulating this month and no idea why I wouldnt, still no +opk in cheapies or clearblue. Still getting ewcm on my pants sometimes but with my cold I’m considering it’s running down from my nose haha.. actually it’s quite a strange thick ewcm but maybe that’s the sway tactics. I don’t feel in the mood what so ever Which is concerning me. My temps haven’t indicated ovulation and my opk lines have gone from light to almost non existent. IF I already ovulated and missed the surge I had no other signs what so ever.. all very strange and making me super paranoid ☹️
As you know I am from spain and today would be (what i think) O+1. We had yesterday one attemt at Night and wanted to continu with another tonight. Butttttt my husband came back from work and after dinner he went to bed for an powernap! It is now 9:40 pm and he is still sleeping!! I guess He will sleep till tomorrow morning. he has to get up early tomorrow to go to work. Only what I had is one attempt at O-night and that’s it!! I have done my best to follow the diet as accurately as possible and now I just end up with only one bd attempt. I am so sad right now! Should i try for another attempt tomorrow? Would this be helpful?
Cc5025 read the post above dreamings which explains the pineapple :) Can you post a screenshot of your chart? Happy to take a look [emoji3]
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Thank you so much ... Hope this file attachment works
QUOTE=Pbn3;954813]Cc5025 read the post above dreamings which explains the pineapple :) Can you post a screenshot of your chart? Happy to take a look [emoji3]
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Momwithlove I'd just leave it now and try again next cycle. Honestly if cd14 was your o day there is only a small chance of conception, it really is unlikely especially if your bd was that night rather than earlier in the day. If you didnt o on cd14 and did today (cd15) then yes you'll have just the one attempt but if you've been good with the diet then that is the main factor. Number of attempts for conceiving both blue and pink have shown a trend that indicates there may be something to it but there have been plenty of opposites too. Think of the diet as the biggest factor and the moderate exercise, number of attempts etc as little nudges. Hang in there! Just get through this 2ww and then regroup on cd1.
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Also as you can see my opks are no where near dark, I’ve been testing with cheapies in afternoon and sometimes evening and clearblue with fmu both nothing. Started testing with opks since cd9