Dreaming try not to upset yourself until AF or if she shows up. Are you just doing one attempt or using jellies? Maybe if it is bfn this month you can drop jellies and add more attempts, also if your DH is doing fr/abstain have him do every 2-4 days instead. I know we see better results w one attempt but if that is not working and your not getting pg something has to give ;) we will try the one attempt for a short while, if a couple bfn continue we are going to add attempts. Hugs!!!