Due in March/April/May 2016

Goodmom I'm so very sorry :sadflwr: my heart is breaking for you right now. Sending all the support in the world to you with love :(

Oh goodmom, I'm so, so sorry to hear this, it is heartbreaking. Sending you the biggest hugs.

Goodmom, a d&c is perfectly fine at this point. As you say, it is the fastest way to get back to normal. Hugs!

Praying for a sticky 🎀 bean!

Goodmom I agree - the d&c will be a quicker recovery than waiting it out. Emotionally as well. As someone who went through it (we found our empty sac at 10.5 wks) i can say that recovery was tough for a few days, I was off work for 3 days and still uncomfortable a few days after but it's the beginning of a new start... Not sure if that helps you at all, but know you're not alone.


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Very sorry to hear your new goodmom! I got no advice but sending lots xoxo in this difficult time 😢

So sorry Goodmom :(. Big hugs xx

Hormones were working last night. I was so angry and moody!
Had so much trouble sleeping but finally getting ready to my 12 weeks scan😊 hopefully ill be in a better mood today

I'm so so sorry goodmom. This stuff is just so awful to go through. Seeing the ultrasound is awful. Big big hugs to you. If you ever want to talk feel free to PM me.

Also I had a D&C and would always pick that if it is an option. You know they are clearing everything out which is good for future pregnancies and I personally did not have any pain. I was just a bit woozy from the meds which they use to knock you out.

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Thank u all ...ssoo much for ur support and kind words ...
I never ever thought tht after 12 weeks i will go through this ... but anyway m trying to be strong now ...m thinking of getting surgical procedure ...bcoz i want to get out of this situation asap and recover soon ... as there is no sign of bleeding so m not sure naturally how much time it will take ...
Can anyone advice if m making the right choice ?

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So sorry to read this Goodmom :sadflwr:

I was told at my 8wk dating scan that the pregnancy was not viable (slow heartbeat, 2 weeks behind in measurements), a week later another scan confirmed no heartbeat. It took another 6 days until a bit of bleeding started. I was booked in for a D & C 2 days later (would have had it the day after the last scan but all of my Dr's were away so I had to wait - which was not nice). I am VERY glad I took the surgery route, even though my body started miscarrying naturally - it was not very pleasant and I was glad when I was knocked out and could wake up 'all done'.
If you want to chat feel free to send me a message. Take care xx