That's good to know. I'm pretty positive that's what it was, it looked just like what I remember last time, and it was so thick :/ gotta love the things pregnancy/children make you talk about haha!
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That's good to know. I'm pretty positive that's what it was, it looked just like what I remember last time, and it was so thick :/ gotta love the things pregnancy/children make you talk about haha!
Is anyone with an opposite still having "days" when they cry and feel sad that they aren't having a girl? I find myself doing this every few weeks or so. I hate it and feel guilty. I found out over 2 months ago that I'm having a boy. I just want to be over it already. This is my last baby, but I find myself daydreaming about trying one more time for another dd. Crazy and will never happen!!! I just don't want to have thoughts like this as I go through life with my kids. As happy as I am to have 5 healthy children, I'm a little sad too. I really hope this goes away soon.
I still have days where I kinda feel sad too... DS1 argued with me twice a few days ago again that its a baby sister in my tummy. I had to keep telling him it wasn't, and he would just yell at me saying it is. Also, I was in a consignment store yesterday, talking to my mom on the phone, and found myself in the baby girl clothes :( I'm just ready for him to be here! But then I look at DS2 and he's such a snuggler, and always wants to give hugs and kisses, and DS1 is getting back to being really affectionate again, and it melts my heart. I'm sure this lil guy will be too. I hope you feel better soon, we completely understand your feelings!
*Speaking of which, DS2 just dropped something and hurt his foot, and DS1 came over and gave him a huge hug. It's times especially like this that make me smile and feel a little better :)
I have moments, normally instigated by something, like seeing a gorgeous baby girl, or the other day when I spent a fabulous day out with me my mum - it hit me afterwards 'am I ever going to get a relationship like this for my own', or when we we were shopping for DS birthday presents and my husband was going goo gaa over all the cool boy toys that I felt a pang of desire to feel what he is feeling by having a daughter who's toys I get so excited about.Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
It's not sadness as such with me, more so that I just don't understand why I couldn't be blessed with a daughter :( why so so so many people who a) don't care, b)want a son c) are such horrid parents, get to have a daughter, whilst me, who tries so hard to be a good parent, who tried so hard to do everything right to get a girl, just couldn't get one :(
I'm currently feeding myself with lots of hope, that DH is open to another attempt.
That I CAN and WILL have a strong sway next time round because I know now about my uterus so will have a super sway. (Had cut out all sway aspects except diet this time round due to length of TTC, turns out my uterus is very introverted, so the reason I wasn't falling pregnant was because we were DTD missionary and I was laying on my back afterward)
That said I am going to have to think long and hard before going for a third. My head will need to be I'm the right space, I think I have escaped the grips of severe gd this time round, but if the next one is a boy. I don't think I will. 3 is dh's absolute maximum, so if third is a boy then that's the door closed forever and I don't know that I could deal with that well at all. Ah well, not something I have to worry about any time soon!
I feel exactly the same sweetie, although I'm looking forward to meeting my little teddy and the joy it will be to have another little one in my house I still am hurting.Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
3Men~ Just want to send (((hugs))) your way..
Hugs ladies xxxx
I had my midwife appointment today, all is looking good lil miss IS head down Woohooooo so fx it means I'm able to have my homebirth again :) I had a dream she was born on Valentine's day I will be 39wks then so not completely impossible fx it comes true I'd love a Valentines bubba! 5years ago today was my due date with ds1 I cant beleive he will be 5 on the 14th :( it doesn't seem 5mins ago we brought him home from the hospital...time goes to fast!!
Hope everyone is ok? X
How exciting!! My midwife said to me yesterday that my lo is breach was really hoping for a home birth too I hope he turns round!Quote:
Originally Posted by homebirthing princess
As you've had a home birth before what were the essentials you needed??
Yay for a head-down babe!! My last gave me a run for my money in the breech territory. So I hope this one goes head-down and sticks that way! We aren't qualified for a home birth, but I am envious of those who can have them :)
I am having a wicked time right now. I have had a UTI for a month and have been through two rounds of antibiotics. It's still not gone and now I have a yeast infection to top it off. I admit I am glad to know its a yeast infection, I was worried about the CM changes (sorry TMI). But it's rather uncomfortable and it makes me nervous just because I hate taking all the meds during pregnancy, especially when they don't do their job. I am trying to remember its no big deal, that lots of people have way worse issues in pregnancy. But with the losses and the nerves about the baby being okay...it's just makes me so nervous to have any issues at all. A bit selfish, I know. I just hope the meds help the yeast infection and my UTI responds to a new medication. I would like a few weeks of no weird symptoms to be freaked out by. All the cramping, soreness, leaking, etc has thrown my brain into overdrive.
Sorry to whine. I know I should feel lucky to be having a healthy and pretty normal pregnancy.