My VITEX Journey

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Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit

Yes, around 12 weeks I got the first flutters.
Her movements are more pronounced now, but still don't happen constantly.
So I have my Sonaline B doppler to put my mind at ease!

With my first son...it wasn't until 20 weeks! It takes much longer with your first.

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Oooh OK i was gonna panic again! Everyone I get a sonogram tho I got a little dancer or boxer it's crazy that I don't feel it yet. A few people claim oh girls are lazy they take longer to move than boys do. Old wives tales I tell ya! I am seriously thinking of a surprise baby because everybody has officially driven me nuts and some have gotten on my bad side telling me over and over
It's a boy and the bets on my baby!? Oh gosh $50 it's a girls!! I'm like really people!?

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Originally Posted by Babyy Love

Oooh OK i was gonna panic again! Everyone I get a sonogram tho I got a little dancer or boxer it's crazy that I don't feel it yet. A few people claim oh girls are lazy they take longer to move than boys do. Old wives tales I tell ya! I am seriously thinking of a surprise baby because everybody has officially driven me nuts and some have gotten on my bad side telling me over and over
It's a boy and the bets on my baby!? Oh gosh $50 it's a girls!! I'm like really people!?

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Well you could find out and not tell them...or if it's a girl throw a gender party and act surprised..hee hee

Personally, I am thinking you have a girl...esp with that moodiness. :)

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Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit

Well you could find out and not tell them...or if it's a girl throw a gender party and act surprised..hee hee

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Oh gosh how do I deal with fender disappointment!?
I'm not ready to find out anymore I'll be so much more depressed I think & I hate that feling because I love my baby regardless. It's such a confusing situation

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Originally Posted by Babyy Love

Oh gosh how do I deal with fender disappointment!?
I'm not ready to find out anymore I'll be so much more depressed I think & I hate that feling because I love my baby regardless. It's such a confusing situation

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By nature I think most women just want girls..but they just do not realize how sweet, and fun..and beautiful baby boys are. The bond between momma and son is so wonderful.
DH laughs at me now and says..."I don't get why you want a girl SO bad...she's going to bond to me!"

If you have a son, you will love him to pieces!!!!
And he will be the BIG brother to your next babe!
I'm going to miss that baby boy bond, so I AM HAPPY..and sad! lol

If you want another opinion..go ask TTC5 how wonderful little :diaper: boys are!!! ;)

All the crying I did yesterday killed me!! I woke up with a major headache!!
I feel so bad because my kitty is sick and I have been looking for a low cost vet all morning she's up there in age & I don't want her to die or anything at least not now! I really hope I can get everything worked up I don't need anymore stress or reasons to cry

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Originally Posted by Babyy Love

All the crying I did yesterday killed me!! I woke up with a major headache!!
I feel so bad because my kitty is sick and I have been looking for a low cost vet all morning she's up there in age & I don't want her to die or anything at least not now! I really hope I can get everything worked up I don't need anymore stress or reasons to cry

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Awww poor sweet kitty! :HH:

I agree boys are wonderful. I always only wanted girls but then they told my with my first it was a boy I had a moments of disappointment then thought oh well lucky little sister when she comes along she will have a older brother to look after her (I always wanted an older brother). #2 when they told me it was another boy I cried for the rest of the day. I was so sure he was a girl, the ultrasound tech was horrible and I don't think that helped my mindset. Then I thought lucky DS1 will have a brother to play with. #3 I am not sure if I had talked myself in being alright with another boy I really thought I was. I suppose I will never know bc I got my girl. My boys are soooooo close to me and love me to bits.

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Originally Posted by lena

I agree boys are wonderful. I always only wanted girls but then they told my with my first it was a boy I had a moments of disappointment then thought oh well lucky little sister when she comes along she will have a older brother to look after her (I always wanted an older brother). #2 when they told me it was another boy I cried for the rest of the day. I was so sure he was a girl, the ultrasound tech was horrible and I don't think that helped my mindset. Then I thought lucky DS1 will have a brother to play with. #3 I am not sure if I had talked myself in being alright with another boy I really thought I was. I suppose I will never know bc I got my girl. My boys are soooooo close to me and love me to bits.

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One boy is amazing, but the two of them together bonding and playing is well I don't have to explain it as you already know. Thanks for sharing your experience! So are you swaying pink now sweetie? I really hope that you get your baby girl!

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Originally Posted by lena

I agree boys are wonderful. I always only wanted girls but then they told my with my first it was a boy I had a moments of disappointment then thought oh well lucky little sister when she comes along she will have a older brother to look after her (I always wanted an older brother). #2 when they told me it was another boy I cried for the rest of the day. I was so sure he was a girl, the ultrasound tech was horrible and I don't think that helped my mindset. Then I thought lucky DS1 will have a brother to play with. #3 I am not sure if I had talked myself in being alright with another boy I really thought I was. I suppose I will never know bc I got my girl. My boys are soooooo close to me and love me to bits.

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Everyone always wants or it always seems like they have the boy 1st which is why I didn't want the typical thing. I want to be different! Don't get me wrong I want a boy I just want him to be my youngest child. I think I sound crazy or may confuse some when I say why I want it that way. Some days I'm just so fed up like listen whatever u are u are! And other days I prolong finding out the sex. I would've know the 30th of August but I kept changing my appointments. A part of me just isn't ready I do not want to feel down of its not my desire gender.