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I don't understand why People are so insensitive?? You wouldn't go up to a lady in a wheelchair and say... Poor you for having no use of your legs. I have use of my legs and I am so lucky! The reason I have use of my legs is because I did such and such exercise on such and such days... You should try it. You obviously did it wrong! I mean this would be considered appalling prejudice behaviour, yet its ok for someone to say the exact same things about someone's family make up.
I fully agree with this, it's ridiculous! I've had so many comments its just ridiculous. Just the other day one of my DH's friends said it him "aw, girls are just so much cuter than boys.. you seriously need to have a girl, you'd just die at the father daughter relationship.. they are just so amazing" DH was so mad, he's actually more upset about not having a girl than I probably am. People can be so maddening!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by 3boys
I don't get it why people think you need their opinion on your family. Everyone keeps saying to us "so you're hoping for a girl next, right?" DH actually said the other day "nope we want two boys" because he got so annoyed with it. It makes it seem like your boys are unimportant when everyone can only fixate on the fact that you don't have a girl.
Is anyone else's pregnancy completely different so far to their previous ones? With my DS I was so sick with stacks of headaches and nausea. This time I have no nausea, no headaches, but I'm just exhausted and my eczema is driving me nuts. I know the same gender can have two totally different pregnancies but I'm hoping it's a sign!
Lastlong, this pregnancy has been very different from my last two pregnancies (esp the last) but not too dissimilar to my first two. So what I take from that is.....??? I haven't got a clue. I feel in my heart I am carrying another boy. We shall see. At the moment my biggest concern is that he/she is ok and has a nice strong HB.
Great that you're not feeling sick with headaches!! Regardless of gender that is a super bonus. :) when will you be finding out gender?
Msblakley-I can't believe that! What a stupid comment! The day I found out my second child was a boy my neighbor (who has 2 young children, 1 of each) told me how boys aren't going to take care of you when your older, only girls will and how wonderful it is to have a girl. I just replied "there are a lot of girls out there that I would NOT want as my daughter so you really shouldn't assume that".
On a lighter note I had my first ultrasound today and everything looked perfect:) Baby measured 6.2 weeks which is what I was thinking and we got to see the heartbeat:) Now if I was any good at the Ramzi method I may have a heads up as to what this LO is lol!
Congratulations on the ultrasound smiley :) what is your due date? I never know what I'm looking at in terms of Ramzi. I know I ovulated from the left but that is it! So pleased you saw a strong little HB!
January 26th (but the radiologist still has to look at the measurements to confirm). I had a transvaginal ultrasound and when it first popped up on the screen it was def on the left but then she moved the wand around a bit and then it was in the middle so idk. I asked where my placenta was and she just said it didn't develop until about 12-14 weeks. I have a pic with the yolk sac and a little blob attached to it which is the baby. It looks like a diamond ring in the picture lol:)
On yeah I've asked you that before smiley, forgive my pregnancy Bain it has turned to mush. You are due on my birthday :happy: mine appeared to be in the middle for most of the shots. I had an abdominal ultrasound and had such a full bladder it was actually making the sac a funny shape and the tech kept having to manuver the wand around it to get a better shot at the baby.
I myself am also due on December 10th :)
Hi fourthtimesacharm :) how are you feeling huni? How's this pregnancy treating you?