June 2WW

Thank you ladies, I'm very nervous at the minute about this bleeding but I'm hoping it stops, I had a full blown "period" with my eldest at this stage so I'm hoping this little bean sticks like he did :)

Maiden, I'm so sorry to hear that you have been so unwell lately, I hope you start to feel better very soon. Xxx

Taytum, all is not lost with the one attempt, me and dh have never been frequent bd'ers (apart from the first few months after we got together) rarely do it more than once a week and we have 3 boys!!! If you are following the he diet I would say you would still have a great shot at a boy :)

Thank you so much ladies, I appreciate your kind words, thoughts and sentiments! I've had a few crises in the past several months which I think have been the last straw, so to speak. But I'm looking forward to starting Prozac which has worked well fordme in the past for both depression and anxiety/OCD.

Hitme, your chart looks great!

True, your manual override looks perfect.

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Originally Posted by momamia4

Sorry, foxcub! :(

Mandy, congrats! I hope it keeps getting darker for you! :)

I think I'm going to test tomorrow. I'll be 9dpo. I just couldn't make myself do it this morning. I hate seeing bfns!

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Good luck momamia hope u get ur bfp soon ....:)

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Originally Posted by mandyp85

Taytum, all is not lost with the one attempt, me and dh have never been frequent bd'ers (apart from the first few months after we got together) rarely do it more than once a week and we have 3 boys!!! If you are following the he diet I would say you would still have a great shot at a boy :)

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Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for this; I've needed it badly thinking I totally messed up. I've been keeping an open mind, and even looked at some posts where those who were girl swaying with one attempt still ended up with a boy. I know it can happen, just need to stop worrying about it, but stories like yours really help! [emoji4][emoji170]



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Originally Posted by maidentomother

I would risk it!

Mandy, congrats on your BFP and prayers for a sticky bean and no more bleeding.

True, thanks for asking....not much going on, I've been VERY unwell the past 3 weeks or so, sleeping 16 hours a day and barely awake the rest of the time. Just incredibly exhausted all the time beyond the norm, possibly it's linked to my pain which has been far worse also. Then last cycle and this cycle I had super delayed O, and I couldn't figure out why....but I think it was the super high dose of fish oil I was taking. I dropped down in dose several days ago and just Oed. Very painful O! I has a cyst rupture on CD4 this cycle and it was awful, I thought I had appendicitis at first. So not a very good time recently. :/

I have been considering attempting next month if I could get Clomid in time but I doubt I'll be functional enough. I think I need antidepressants and they take a month to kick in. So likely I'll just be lurking until September amd then I'll resume swaying in preparation for TTC in December.

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Oh maiden how terrible!! You are going through the mill - it sounds awful. I would love to be able to do something really nice for you, you deserve some serious looking after. I do think giving yourself the month on antidepressants and get yourself into a better place physically & mentally before easing back into swaying. It's very draining all on its own without factoring in outside stresses.
Lots of love & support to you xx

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Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for this; I've needed it badly thinking I totally messed up. I've been keeping an open mind, and even looked at some posts where those who were girl swaying with one attempt still ended up with a boy. I know it can happen, just need to stop worrying about it, but stories like yours really help! [emoji4][emoji170]



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No you can definitely still get a boy with one attempt, I've managed it three times lol was eating a very boy friendly diet and always have when falling pregnant, apart from when I conceived my daughter that is and I was eating very little so I believe diet to be the most important thing :) You're welcome hun :) I will give you all my blue dust :) little boys are just gorgeous, I hope you gets yours :)

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Originally Posted by Gg8

Awesome! Good Luck. I get my mine tonight. Will join the group soon.

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Pfft join now!


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Originally Posted by momamia4

Sorry, foxcub! :(

Mandy, congrats! I hope it keeps getting darker for you! :)

I think I'm going to test tomorrow. I'll be 9dpo. I just couldn't make myself do it this morning. I hate seeing bfns!

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Good luck!!!!


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I hope you feel better soon maiden, good luck with it all [emoji5]️


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Originally Posted by momamia4

Sorry, foxcub! :(

Mandy, congrats! I hope it keeps getting darker for you! :)

I think I'm going to test tomorrow. I'll be 9dpo. I just couldn't make myself do it this morning. I hate seeing bfns!

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Good luck :) Xxx