April/May/June 2021

Had our ultrasound and saw a very cute, little bouncing baby BOY! :DS:
Failed girl sway, but im feeling ok!
Thinking of all the good sides of having two boys :HH:

...Since a couple of hours has past and I decided to look up clothes for him online, it is starting to settle in. Seeing the hairbands, the dresses... the first outfit we wanted if he was going to be a she...and I feel the sadness rising... I will never have a daughter. All my friends have a girl and a biy, my sister has 4 girls and a boy, my mother has 9 girls and two boys... and I won’t ever have one.
I love this little one already but Im sad I will never have a daughter we would have named Evy Liz...
My foster parents are 74 and 70 and have 7 grandsons now... not looking forward to our gendereeveal knowing my (foster) mum is really hoping for her first granddaughter...
I hope I will wake up tomorrow and feel the joy again I had right after the ultrasound.

Hi Proudmom, congratulations on your boy. But so sad it didn't go the way you wished.

Just needed to vent for a bit and I know you guys are always are. I've totally been on team screw sneak peek I'm going to wait until birth and then prove them wrong! Because it said boy and I really want a girl. But today the reality is just hitting hard that it probably wasn't wrong. I just wish I never even took the test.I'm just so mad today. I know I'll love this baby when it comes out but I hate being pregnant as it is, so I'm just really struggling right now. Like if I could fast forward to delivery I'd be much better. Plus I've been reading a lot of people hating on CNY today. Which is who I plan to use for ivf if this truly is a failed sway. Idk I want my girl. I'll stop at nothing but I'm really feeling the uphill climb today.

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

What was the specific criteria they were concerned about?

Praying for good news on the upcoming ultrasound!

I personally think the nub is rising and would guess boy on this.

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You are right! It’s a BOY with low risk. I am so happy and relaxed.. can’t explain how I feel Atomic! After all those losses I was so stressed and thought would never get a healthy baby! I just hope that everything goes well with this pregnancy! I am so thankful to for all your help help and support!


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Congratulations Pooja,how many losses u have?did u followed the diet?how many months u did pooja

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Congratulations Pooja... very happy for you... take care .. post your sway if possible ..


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Originally Posted by jyotshna.y14

Congratulations Pooja,how many losses u have?did u followed the diet?how many months u did pooja

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Thanks Jyotshna! Had 2 losses in the past one year, recent one was in May and it was a boy only. I didn’t follow any diet plan as I was not swaying for any specific gender!
However by default I was on HE diet
I tried probiotics
I took extra folate
Also did Follow blue sway BD pattern this time

Hope it helps!


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Originally Posted by Hiral

Congratulations Pooja... very happy for you... take care .. post your sway if possible ..


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Thank you Hiral!

Wish you good luck for your sway!


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Originally Posted by g.pooja812

You are right! It’s a BOY with low risk. I am so happy and relaxed.. can’t explain how I feel Atomic! After all those losses I was so stressed and thought would never get a healthy baby! I just hope that everything goes well with this pregnancy! I am so thankful to for all your help help and support!


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Congratulations Pooja. Happy for you [emoji4]


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Congratulations Pooja [emoji170]

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