Uk SMOG Wannabes ~ January

Hi all
Oh babymad i really truly feel for you. Im not sure what else i can add that charlie hasnt already said but i am thinking of you. I still think there is a great chance that there is a girl in there (i was sure of it from your 12 week scan pic) but i know if and when a fourth boy comes along, he will be an amazing final addition to your family. I have been going out of my way lately to find all the pro's to having boys over girls and the more i think about it, the more i have been getting my head around my gd. In fact when i go out now, instead of looking at all the little girls wishing i had one, i have almost trained my brain to look at the reasons why i wouldnt want one. It seems to be working! Plus there is something undeniably cute about seeing a mum surrounded by little boys!! X

Inglewood, what a lovely family day out you had! I love days like that.

Inglewood I love the girls names! Beautiful!

Babymad I'm sorry you feel so low, I wish I could help but we all know how your feeling, I try not to let myself think it's a boy because I'm not sure how I'll feel of it is, of course he would be loved but you know it's a scary though! I couldn't stay team green I'd need to know either way to either celebrate or get my head around things!

Deaks good luck with your sway this month!

Not much going on here, just plopping away, I should be cleaning as I'm finally at home for more than 5 seconds but all I want to do is sit on my arse and do nothing! :) so that's what I'm doing!
Just watched 15 kids and counting wow that's alot of kids!

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Originally Posted by Inglewood

Morning!!

Deaks, glad ur feeling a better about attempt and things are going well? Is it this weekend ur attempt? or beg next wk?

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Not entirely sure when my attempt is but should be sometime between monday and friday next week. Hoping that by putting it to the back of my mind as much as possible, ov will happen at the earliest time! Cant wait!

Hi everyone, finally feeling human again, felt awful last week though pregnancy was going to be a bitch to me this time, was exhausted and aching and couldnt keep going. Then OH rang to say he is aching and can only work an hour then feels awful for an hour, aching too, exactly like I was so think its a virus as feel more energetic now thankfully!

Babymad sorry your feeling a bit down, hope you find some positive thinking soon, so hard!

Inglewood, love your name choices! Not sure Ill ever think about girl names unless I had a girl in my arms, dont want to go down that route really as think it may make the desire worse for a girl.

Hope everyone else is good,will catch up soon!

My 4d scan, pic's aren't as good as hoped, esp since twin 2 was hogging the camera by squashing the other into my placenta!

Twin 1- http://i1095.photobucket.com/albums/...07/TWINS_9.jpg
Twin 2- http://i1095.photobucket.com/albums/...07/TWINS_6.jpg

aww how beautiful inglewood! so sweet!

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Originally Posted by charlieispy

Babymad - thought that was the case.....time away but also time to grieve - although you dont know for sure your dream is over yet....is that harder?? I dont know x All i know is I think i will be joining you I know potty shots arent great at 13wks but am sure this is a little boy too. I keep dreaming i give birth to a girl then I wake up and remind myself to stop. I hope that although it will be my last baby and it will kill me to know I will NEVER have a a girl that knowing i will have no more will stop the wondering.....not the desire for a girl but the what ifs. I will never have more than 4 kids so I will have to focus on what i do have. Sorry for waffling I just want to give you a big hug I think back to my 20wk scan with ds3 and how my world collapsed. I have everything crossed that you have a little princess in your belly and we both know even through all the pain of if we have boys we will love them so so much it just still hurts. Here if you need me hun x

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oh charlieispy, your post made me shed a little tear!! I hate GD, it is such a monster and it is so unfair that not everyone gets their DG and that there are so many people out there who go through what we all go through but without the great support we have from each other. I really pray and hope you and Babymad both have little girls cooking!! or let me correct that, I hope ALL the pregnant smog ladies have lil girls cooking!!!!! No one should have to face the end of a dream!

Inglewood I LOVE your 4D pictures!!! how amazingly cute your girls are :D :D and lovely names too!! I don't know any Ruby or Amber so to me they sound very unique which I love!! awww i'm so excited to get to be a part of your swaying, ttc and pregnancy journey :)

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Originally Posted by deaks66

Plus there is something undeniably cute about seeing a mum surrounded by little boys!! X

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:agree: