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I really wanna get pg this month. The diet is killing me. I think I might end up taking out some of the attempts. We will dtd am & pm from cd15 - 17. So 6 times, maybe 7. If I get an unexpected early +opk, then we will dtd 2x that night, the following am and 2x that night. So at least get in 5x.Quote:
Originally Posted by lemon2012
no , the Bd marked "AM" was actually a condom day....lolQuote:
Originally Posted by littlemissnaughty7
i thought i was going to ovulate that day, and the "am" is my own sort of code for when we use condoms.
we werent TTC yet, i was planning on starting my sway the following month.
GOOD LUCK PINK!
Hey praying for princess....I was beginning to think there was something wrong with me..I could not dtd that much!
Pinkin....:) sounds awesome and perfect!
Hi All , Just woundering Would i have much of a chance of falling preg if we dtd 10 hrs after i think o happened?? I had bad o pain about 10pm and 11pm last night and yest morning i got a smile on my opk we didnt dtd until 6am this morning... do I have much of a chance?? Or should i just think the worst now?
I know 10pm and 11pm until 6am is not 10 hrs but I am just adding on a couple of hrs incase
Pinkin -- i think you still have a chance. Dtd once after o is always a more slim chance than dtd before o, or dtd multiple times; but you definitely still have some chance.
Lemon - there is nothing wrong with you....its not like I am enjoying dtd that much. I am not o-ing, missionary on the bottom -- its wham bam gimme your sperm sex. We will dtd 6-7 times from o- til o. 2x on cd15, 2x cd16 & 2x cd17. I am using rephresh every 3 days and only a tiny bit of sylk at each attempt. Tiny tiny bit of replens 1 hour after my pm attempts (8 hours before my am attempt). Do you think its too much? I am not doing jump and dump. I figure with 6 attempts and no j&d....we might squeeze in another attempt at like 1am (between my pm and am attempt) the night of my +opk.
Hi prayforprincess..I will apologize now as the iPad changes words....but your plan sounds good if you can do it. It sounds like a lot to someone who has been married 12 years..lol!
Will you stop at pos opk?
Why? With all that being is it because you want it in earlier?
Pink...relax and see what happens:)
You are still close to ovulation and you can't change it now right? Unless I read it wrong and you are still planning. I just think you will have a girl..! Hang in there!
No I have already had my attempt at 6am this morning, I may be closer to O then what i think anyway.. and yeah will see what happens! I didnt use the rephresh like i was i only used a tiny finger tip of it 24 hrs before attempt
Hey Clomid Chicky, im confused on this clomid ive had ewcm 4 days ago cramping now every day for 4 days ,and still my temp hasnt risen and no pos tests im on cd14 and its been 7 days since last pill so i wonder if the cramps were ovulating or just a warning of whats to come?Anyways i will keep on bding it is now as of tonight the 6th day in a row!:whip:Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemissnaughty7
Pinkin ive been looking at FF charts of pregnancies and alot of them show that they have bd day after o so you probably will too :)
Oh believe me, we've been married for 8 years and by now my hubby is lucky to get it 3-4 times a month so this is a great pleasure for him. Exhausting for me!Quote:
Originally Posted by lemon2012
No we are not going to stop at +opk. We will dtd thru o. 2x on o-2, 2x on o-1 and 2x on o day.
I really don't believe in timing at all, and I just want to get pregnant. I have been at this for well over a year now with all these failed IVF attempts. I feel with swaying, the diet and glucose is most important and if I don't get a bfp this month I don't know how much longer I can stick to it. Maternal condition is key to swaying, otherwise I think its 50/50. My normal diet makes me sway blue hard without even trying. So while dtd that many times may mean there is a little more sperm in there (tho not a ton with zytec, fr, rephresh, sylk etc), more boys in there also means more girls in there and I think my body will be more inclined to choose the girls given the strictness of the diet I have been on for 9 weeks.
I think if you dtd once there is 50/50 xx & xy up there -- if you dtd 10 times there is still 50/50 xx & xy up there, just more of it. But dtd more just increases your odds of getting pg. I know a great many women who dtd only once or twice and have boys. And I know a great many women who dtd a lot straight thru o and have girls. I think your body will choose what it chooses and it doesn't matter when or how many times.
Look, the women who are ttc boy are trying to dtd only once on o day and a great many of them are getting boys not because of timing or how many times, but because of their diet. And then there are us ladies ttc girls who want to dtd once and most of us are dtd at +opk or o day because we want to get pg and its hard with a cut off. The greater lot of us are getting girls if we've been very strict with the diet. We are all dtd roughly the same time but getting our DG because of maternal condition.
Sorry, rambling. I just don't think its worth torturing myself staying on this diet longer than need be only dtd 1 or 2 times at certain times only to get bfn's until I happen to get lucky, when those are not things that truly sway.