Good luck ladies. I hope to see bfp's really soon.
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Good luck ladies. I hope to see bfp's really soon.
It does seem that us ladies are doing the work! I would never tell DH to do anything sway related...he would think I was crazy! I wanted to try the soy this month but I am already on cd 5. I know you can still take it days 5-9 but I read something about lining issues. Don't know if I want to risk it.
I think atomic says something about it in the soy thread. 3-7 does seem to be the optimal time. That's my plan again this month.
AF is here full force as of this morning. I guess it was a chemical, since I got two light positives and now nothing. I'll start soy again on cd 3, but I'm not doing vitex or sp this month. I was just too worried about starting them after the positives. If we don't get a bfp this month I will start them next month. And I'm going to be more strict about diet this month. FX for those of you who are still waiting!
so sorry for you ;-(Quote:
Originally Posted by Shellbelle
Oh Shellbelle hon, I am so very sorry! :HH: A chemical raises your chances to conceive a girl though, so that's the bright side of it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shellbelle
Thank you, ladies. Butterfly Spirit, I needed a silver lining so badly. Thank you. Ive been in tears all day.
Nobody ever expects to have a loss, either chemical or M/C..we always think it will happen to some other woman. I had a loss at 5 weeks in April but I don't put it in my ticker because it's hard.. You are also more fertile after a loss :HH: And It is okay to cry! :hugs:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shellbelle
I conceived right after my loss. Didn't even get AF. :)
But I will mention that I had a VERY scary start to this pregnancy. Even bright red bleeding the first week immediately after taking progesterone. So, I don't know if it was the issue or what.
aww so sorry shellbell :( as the others said it ok to cry, it ok to feel hurt.
Don't lose your hope though, it will happen for you you, hopefully the soy will make the next little bubba stick. *hugs*
suregena - i get what you mean, my dh is well and truly over it - he hates that i am still on the diet, he has stopped the remarks, but i know it doesn't bode well with him. He is against the soy aswell, says i should stop 'stuffing around' with my body.
I really hope this month is your month - will be looking out for your results :)
And if not,then you have a great holiday to look forward to!! And as for the continued swaying - maybe you be on soy and diet is all you need, maybe the FR combined with LR is just too much for DH and its effecting his swimmers too much..goodness knows - if only this was easier!
Shell - I am so sorry AF showed. TTC is SO hard and you just never know where the journey will take you.
I am trying to stay busy. Work today was so crazy. Glad it is the weekend and Olympics are on! I won't try to root too much for USA - don't want to raise testosterone! TMI...lots of CM this evening. I really can't remember when I have seen it like this. I hope it is a good preg sign and not a sign that I have screwed up on my diet! I really haven't eaten any different so don't think that is the case.
I am so jealous of you guys that are in the UK! I would love to be there! London is such an amazing place and I want to go back soooooo bad!
I'm so sorry Shellbelle, big hugs to you.
Well i'm now in my 2nd 2ww, although not got my hopes up and already looking to the next attempt. My oh is really wanting me off this diet now and not sure how long i can get him to go along with it. He doesn''t mind what i ask him to do but hates seeing what i'm doing to myself :(