12+5 TWINS

I think i see at least one girlie in there!!!

So sorry about your loss Fish!! Please keep well so that little bub continues to grow big and strong!! Sending you lots of hugs at this time :hugs:

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Hey Meeks

I'm 16 weeks thought I was safe ;-s

Hopefully twin 1 will reach full term and be okay, twin 2 will be born then thou apparently by that stage most of its form will have been lost

Obsessively watching for movement now lol!

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Oh hon at any stage that's a horrible loss I just didn't know what happened if it was 2nd trimester. I'm SO sorry. You just don't deserve it. I'm glad you sound like you are coping ok, but I wish it didn't happen to you. Xx

Oh sweet mummy thanks hard as dh away until Thursday in India for work, feel like curling up in a lill ball a lot of the time ;-(

My mothers moved in and I've started eating bed taking prenatals today I know really I'm very luck but find it hard not to feel whole pregnancy is doomed ;-(

Meeks is so odd I've only been having twins for four weeks but I'd got really excited about the idea and its been stolen away a lill one who we've now imagined in our family it's very sad and hard as I know there are many in worst positions but to have a first loss at 16 wk seems unprecedentedly bad ;-(

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Originally Posted by fish2012

Oh sweet mummy thanks hard as dh away until Thursday in India for work, feel like curling up in a lill ball a lot of the time ;-(

My mothers moved in and I've started eating bed taking prenatals today I know really I'm very luck but find it hard not to feel whole pregnancy is doomed ;-(

Meeks is so odd I've only been having twins for four weeks but I'd got really excited about the idea and its been stolen away a lill one who we've now imagined in our family it's very sad and hard as I know there are many in worst positions but to have a first loss at 16 wk seems unprecedentedly bad ;-(

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Just because it could be worse doesn't mean you aren't allowed to grieve. Having dh away must have been hideous. Telling him over the phone would be horrible and not telling would be worse. That's just unimaginable pain and you are doing remarkably well in the face of it all. Listen to the doctors and keep on the prenatals and healthy diet. I don't think the pregnancy is doomed at all but understand the fear and why you would feel that way.

I am a planner and if I heard twins I would have a whole future in my head within seconds. I can completely see how having that ripped from you would have been just terrible.

Are they going to give you more frequent scans or anything to make sure it's all going smoothly from here on?

Confirmed today remaining twin is dd!!!!

Congratulations on your DD fish I am delighted for you x

Hey Meeks

Yes I'm a planner my life with twins was all mapped out ;-( Still adjusting yes seeing consultant for scan in two weeks xx

Congrats Fish!! Awww there is a silver lining after all hun!! Well happy for you xx

Congratulations on your baby girl! I am so sorry that you lost one of the twins, what a mix of emotions you must be feeling *hugs*