Due March / April / May 2017 (4)

I think she looks like DD3
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Angela (dd3) at 29 weeks :)

Sorry All Blue trust me Ive been in so many similar position, it sucks. My two SIL have Pp, they also fell pregnant sooo easily. I had miscarriage after miscarriage even a d&c the day the first granddaughter on DHs side (where my Gender depression comes from) was born. I did HT and still have no daughter. I've had so many unfair situations I just don't understand how to process it. I think knowing I can't have any more is just adding to the depression. Just wanted to let you know you aren't alone. [emoji8]


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Sorry All Blue trust me Ive been in so many similar position, it sucks. My two SIL have Pp, they also fell pregnant sooo easily. I had miscarriage after miscarriage even a d&c the day the first granddaughter on DHs side (where my Gender depression comes from) was born. I did HT and still have no daughter. I've had so many unfair situations I just don't understand how to process it. I think knowing I can't have any more is just adding to the depression. Just wanted to let you know you aren't alone. [emoji8]


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Im so sorry u are feeling like that too, it definitely makes it worse to.think u are done, hubby said I may be able to talk him into a 6th which has helped a bit, but i don't know how I will feel with 5, 6 might be too much for me...i would like to try to sway though and then I can say ive tried x

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Samantha Alexandria finally showed her darn face today. Had been struggling the whole pregnancy not seeing her face..she would hide it with hands or placenta...was worried cause they couldnt rule out cleft lip at my 20 week anatomy scan...

Despite my health struggles she is strong and BIG. they wanted to see 2 pounds today at my 28 week mark and instead she is measuring 3 pounds of solid baby. She also measures 29 weeks 1 day, though i just hit 28 weeks today. It is good to know and i feel i can relax just a bit more knowing she is growing well even if they never treat my damn thyroid.

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Oh my she is so cute, am sure you cannot wait to get a cuddle! Congratulations, x

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Thanks for answering. Makes total sense. I was a little sad my first was a boy, but held onto the belief that my second and third could be girls. I have a twin sister and I love our sister bond. That's what I wanted for my own family. Now I'm just hoping my third will be a girl, but it doesn't stop me from being bummed that she'll never have the experience of growing up with a sister. Hopefully your daughter has/will have a best friend that will be like a sister to her, and she will enjoy growing up with her brothers. My friend had 4 younger brothers(she was the only girl), and now she's having her second boy. She's so excited about it. I love that she is able to have no GD despite being surrounded by boys her whole life.

Maybe a part of the bond and experience you have with your daughter comes from her being your first born? It's just so special to have the one on one time with them. I don't blame you for wanting a new little girl to be attached to you with the first one growing up so fast. I'm sorry this couldn't be your second girl. Third time should always be a charm :/


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I totally think part of what is special about dd was she was my first, she was and still is the girl of my dreams, a really girlie girl, super smart, funny and witty. But alot of my desires and fantasies about having a sister for her are due to the fact that I never had a sister and totally idealise this role. Maybe if I had had a sister I would be more balanced and realise having a sister is not as perfect as I imagine. My friend has a sister and she really tries hard to have a relationship with her but her sister is not interested and we have talked at length about how this impacts on her. She is actually closer to her younger brother. So the reality of sisters is never straightforward x

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Im so sorry u are feeling like that too, it definitely makes it worse to.think u are done, hubby said I may be able to talk him into a 6th which has helped a bit, but i don't know how I will feel with 5, 6 might be too much for me...i would like to try to sway though and then I can say ive tried x

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Sorry your feeling this way, I think you should see how you feel when baby is born. For my part, I only discovered swaying relatively recently. I never swayed for my other. Three. I always told myself when I found out about swaying, that I had to try and if I got an opposite I could content myself with I tried. I would have to say the reality having worked so hard at my sway and failing is so different. I regret trying in the first place, as am still in the same position I was before this pregnancy and now I have deal with that in context of a house move, changing car, more financial burden and less time for my other three. But then maybe is different as I have a dd, not sure. Would ht or adoption be an option? X

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Sorry your feeling this way, I think you should see how you feel when baby is born. For my part, I only discovered swaying relatively recently. I never swayed for my other. Three. I always told myself when I found out about swaying, that I had to try and if I got an opposite I could content myself with I tried. I would have to say the reality having worked so hard at my sway and failing is so different. I regret trying in the first place, as am still in the same position I was before this pregnancy and now I have deal with that in context of a house move, changing car, more financial burden and less time for my other three. But then maybe is different as I have a dd, not sure. Would ht or adoption be an option? X

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We've talked about adoption, I wouldn't do ht x

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I have no idea how since i cant even gain any weight apparently but i failed my glucose test...i shouldnt be surprised..i wasnt surprisedwith angela or even that heartbroken over it but this time it really is hitting me. my fasting level for the first test was 170...it didnt have to be fasting i just prefer to do mine like that as they do the 3 hour one that way anyhow...

Im just so sad. And i dont know what to do. I had finally gained 2 pounds, and now i am going to be told to go low carb and that isnt going to be helping me at all :(

Hmm sounds strange you failed it. Did you have extra weight to start? Will you need to do the 3 hour one to confirm?

Here they have changed it to just going straight to a 2 hour GTT as they said the 1 hour screening isn't reliable.

Doing my GTT right now, not even half way.


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