Congrats!!! I think you will do great with 3 kids. :)
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Congrats!!! I think you will do great with 3 kids. :)
Congratulations! I have no idea what that woman was trying to tell you, but I assure you, none of us would undergo such a thing as elective IVF and pay $20,000 for less than a guarantee!
I hope you get your DS the old-fashioned way!! Wonderful surprise!
Hobmit - thank you, im going 2 be ok i think, im scared though.
Nbpink - thank you. Yes i know what your saying, but thats what she said 2 me, maybe she was taking drugs that day, hey??
I really hope i get a boy, & really hope i will be ok if i dont.
CONGRATS CA! FX you get blue! FWIW I wish this baby had been an accident ... I'd be much more accepting then of her being out of our control. DD1 happened while I was on BCP's and I never had a minute of GD with her, even though I never wanted a single DD, I felt like God sent her to us, like the best surprise EVER. So ... DS or DD, remember that this baby was planned by something far bigger than you :) It's going to be amazing!!!
Thanks Begonia, I know, its weird cause I do feel like someone above has made the decision for me, its kind of like a relief if that makes sense, he/she was meant to be, thats for sure! Im trying so hard to stop thinking about the gender cause I really want to enjoy this pregnancy as its going to be our last, after this one my hubby is doing the chop.Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
dd1 :ballerina: dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant:
the not knowing would kill me also. if I knew I would have 3rd boy, would I try again? YES because if I were to have 4th that MAY be my girl. Or, if you mean, if I were going to keep having boys would I keep trying? My answer is I really don't know. The heartbreak would probably kill me honestly. But I'd have to try, it's better to me to try than to keep wondering. Bottom line, I guess I'd have to keep trying to avoid the what if. I really do think it is a 50/50 shot however I feel like i am about 75% more likely to have another boy, I feel like it's a slim chance in hell I'd have a DD ever but I have to try.
Oh Honey, I have to give you some cyber hugs (((HUGS))) I felt the exact same way. My hubby is one of four boys....TONS of boys in his family. My side has a whack load of boys as well, except for my mom who had me and my sis. I REALLY thought I would have a girl for my first...HA! Was I wrong....3 times in a row! This pregnancy was a complete oops, wasn't really swaying at all, and when I did get pregnant I was 110% resigned to the fact that I would be an all boy mom. Well, it doesn't look like that's the case! This one looks ALL girl and I am SHOCKED beyond belief. It can happen for you Mama~ xoxo Lots of hugs to you~~Quote:
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Yes your right Throughwblue, I know if I had made the decision not to go for a 3rd Im so sure I would have always wondered 'what if', so Im so glad its happened the way it has.
Hope you do get your girl, sending you heaps of pink pink pink
Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant:
Congratulations on your pink bundle DMama, thats fantastic, you must be so excited!!!
Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant: