Yours sounds like it could be IB too. I Hope So!!!!
REALLY hoping so sweetie! I'm sorry you are going through this.
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Butterfly, it was 5 days before I think I od. And now ff has moved my o date back to cd12, which means it agrees with my non temp signs again. I guess we'll see.
The thing about h&d's spotting that sounds so promising to me is that Af isn't due for another 4 days. I hope you're able to get some rest, girlie, and that its gone tomorrow. Implantation can happen up to 12dpo, and so can ib. HUGS.
How is everyone doing today? Any testers?
Beadin, did you finally get a +OPK? FX for you!
Shell, I swear by the cbe fertility monitor. I say you ditch ff and assume you're 7 dpo now I think?? I hope that brown garbage was implantation. I pray those little swimmers kept at it till you o'd and your bfp is a few days away.
shell ignore the temps all sorts of things can affect them and there are plenty of women who've been caught by long living swimmers not meaning to get preggers.
hope fingers still crossed for you, i hope you manage to get some answers from your docs appt, don't forget to keep us updated.
Beadin any news on o? I am presuming from your messages you have decided that you didn't o the day you got a pos opk.
i am now officially in the 2ww on about 2-3dpo and have been soooo naughty the last 24 hours - we had takeaway pizza last night, first really nice food i have eaten for 8 weeks and i so enjoyed it, felt guilty all night though after googling it and realising it had 300 cals per slice!!!!
Thanks, y'all. Still having cramping today. My body has really seemed to change since we started swaying, so I won't feel like anything can be a true "sign" until its time to test. Spotting should start on Wednesday and AF on Thursday, so we'll see.
Thanks mrsP
Shell- I swear I will never interpret a symptom ever again
UGH. Still no positive opk.
And I'm really nervous...I googled it and someone on a fertility message board said she tried vitex for a few months and then quit and never ovulated again on her own after that. :(
I quit vitex at the same time the stupid hurricane hit. I know it's early to be panicking and stressing over it is only going to delay it even more, but stilll...UGH. I'm 4 days past my USUAL ovulation. I just wish it would happen so I could relax. :(
I HATE the guesswork of Early Pregnancy Symptoms! You never know if blood is good or bad. Or if cramping is good or bad. Or if you have a backache because you slept funny or because something is implanting. So many what ifs. And i find swaying makes it worse because it seems we have "more at stake." I was terrible starting at 1dpo. I have felt out since the beginning because of my lack of anything symptom-wise. I blew my diet too, eating way too much fat, salt, and calories from about 5dpo. Blah.
I did get some cramping, some heartburn, and a backache starting at 7dpo. Been around since. Last night and today I have been nauseous. And irritable! Wow, am I irritable.
I tested today at 9dpo and got a faint line on a FRER. It's pink and showed up in the time limit. So I guess that's good. I won't rejoice til at least a couple weeks. Chemicals and miscarriages have been too real for me. But I won't do betas or anything this time around. Just a few more days of testing to see if the line changes and gets darker. A digi or two to see the word.
I am sorry to have only been around so short and to tell you this news. I know ladies in here are struggling and I know after my losses, when we were trying so hard and not having luck I was angry when people popped in and got pregnant easily. I have been there. I hope all you ladies get your BFPs this month. I'll keep checking! But I had to tell someone, since no one in real life can know for a long time. Hope you don't mind.
Hotdogs, congrats!!! Praying it's a sticky bean...♥
I stopped my vitex on day 14 and didn't ovulate til day 28 (usually I'm day 18 in past cycles)! I was sure there was no hope left but there was! I am only 5 dpo but my temps are still high.I doubt I'm pregnant but I'm happy I at least ovulated...so there's still a good chance I think you will O...
Spinning, you ROCK!! Thank you SO MUCH!! I am making myself crazy. Sharing your experience really does mean a lot.
Crossing my fingers and toes this is YOUR month!! Xx
I ran out of the cheapies, so I'm using the digitals. I've been dating them to see if they get any darker, but they don't look to be. But then I read somewhere that with the digitals, you can't read the lines, so I don't know.
I had one day where they were SUPER dark, even the digital,my cervix was open and my temps... All of a sudden everything just lined up,I think it will for you too! I had a few smiley's before I had a real peak imo. And the one where I had a real one..the stick was WAY darker ...(I know I'm not supposed to read digitals but I do..)
Hotdogz HUGE congrats, we love BFP's please don't feel guilty.
Beadin hang in there, try not to panic as it will slow everything down.
I am really worrying now i may not be in the 2ww. I had a really early opk+ at cd12 am, tested later and it went neg then tested later on again and + had lots of ewcm and cervix was low, soft and open and had cramping (unusual for me). BUT i never o that early, usually cd14 to cd16 sometimes even as late as cd18. This month is my first month on vitex so after reading beadins posts i'm worried its a fake and i haven't o'd yet and we've stopped FR and supplements, rephresh etc. EWCM has gone but cervix is still low and soft, cm is mostly thick. Have i o'd or is it just going to happen again in a few days time? I don't want to waste a month but have let diet slip with a few cheats last couple of days. Am esp worried as i had a fake o 2 cycles ago so it does happen to me - any ideas??????????????
Hotdogs, CONGRATS!!! I hope this is your sticky pink bean!
Beadin, that is a BEAUTIFUL dip today. I'm hoping that's an O dip for you!
I wish I could help answer your question, Mrs P! I'm so bad with OPKs, though. From what I've seen around here, though, Vitex does seem to change O for many people -- some people say it has brought theirs up earlier in their cycle, and some say it has pushed it back to a later O date, so it's hard to say. Hang in there! :)
Congratulations, hotdogz!! What wonderful news! I hope this is a sticky pink bean for you! :)
Mrs. P, when I was taking the vitex, it brought my O up a day - once...then it went back to my CD14. I'm almost sorry I quit taking it, just cause I'm so nervous it messed me up indefinitely and honestly, at 40, I don't have time to spare.
Some people have ovulated later with vitex, but I have yet to see someone NOT ovulate while taking it and Atomic says a longer cycle sways girl.
People have gotten great results getting girls from it. I definitely think it's great to have it as part of your sway.
I'm a paranoid, impatient person to begin with....so waiting this out is agonizing for me. I'm hoping that if I don't ovulate this month, if I go back on it next, it will straighten things out for me. :(
Good luck, Mrs. P...hope you get a positive opk soon!! (Hope I do, too!!)
hi all
sorry i've been quiet been away with my girl guides for th weekend - you'd think 400 12-16 year old girls would cure GD ;-0
i'm 3dpo camp diet not been great but i prayed i'd o early as was due to o yesterday when i was away without dh and i did! hoping this is a good omen......
love you all hotdogz is that you with a bfp? can't read all the posts too many things to do ce soir
love you all x
Okay....I may be getting a little too excited a little too soon...BUT....
I just did another dig opk - negative, but my cervix feels higher and SPONGY!! I'm hoping I'll be seeing a pos opk SOON!! :)
Oh man....in a million years, I never thought I'd be so excited about a high, spongy cervix. LOL!!
oh good beadin i really hope that it for you and its happenning, at least you can relax for 10 days or so anyway :wink:
as for me, i'm really hoping i don't get an opk+ and that i have o'd as i've made my attempt for this week and am on cd16 (3dpo) and am really happy with what we've done, if i do get an opk+ again i will be out this cycle as we've dropped the FR and rephresh and everything else thinking we are in the 2ww so won't attempt again
Crossing fingers and toes you get a BFP soon, Mrs. P!!
Beadin, Did you get a positive OPK yet?
Not yet. Still waiting, but much more hopeful now. :) Thanks.
Lassie, where are you? I looked at your chart and your temps went back up! How are you doing?
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Thanks for asking after me shell :)
They did go back up, I just did a poas this afternoon, and I swear I am going mental but I can see something. Anyone on here able to tweak pictures?? I have no software.
What do you think?
Feel free please to tell me it's stark white. I honestly think I'm going bonkers. Will take a frer test tomorrow morning if my temps are still up.
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only tweaking i can do is moving the laptop screen about ;-0
i see a faint line hun....hoping n praying its the real thing xx
:omg: I FREAKING SEE IT Lass!!!!!!!!
:holysheep: Please let this be it!
How many DPO? the best way to see the faint lines are to get back 3-5 feet from your comp screen.
Holy crap...I think you will be eating breakfast again! lol
Where did you go?
Im here Im here!!!!
Thanks so much girls!!!!!
Im glad im not the only one seeing things :)
This is the closest i have been to a BFP this whole journey - my hopes have just absolutely skyrocketed like you wouldn't believe!!!!
Im 11dpo, and that was afternoon wee....
Im going to do a FRER tomorrow morning when i wake - 4:30 am.... what's the best way girls? mid ******, or collect in a cup and dip in ??
oh it sounds hopefull esp if it's afternoon wee ;-0
looking forward to hearing bfp tomorrow.......:HH:
Lassie, I did not see line at first, but then I read Butterfly's line saying to look at the computer from a few feet away, and I def saw a faint line :) I really hope this is it for you! Good luck! :)