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Hugs Kkk and foxcub xx
Good luck to all those testing soon!
Pbn - I truly hope you get your bfp this month, although you do sound at peace with the decision xx
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With dd2 I had 2 attempts and an IUI in the fertile window. For me it was all about my diet and overall lifestyle. Obviously that's not fool proof but just so you know it can happen!Quote:
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I'm so sorry Fox it's such a rollercoaster ride hopefully we all have some ups soon!!Quote:
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I know exactly how you are feeling this is month 7 for me and have done everything right, clomid, triggers shot, I'm all good DHs sperm is all good, multiple attempts every month and still nothing. So frustrating so I'm moving onto low cost IVF.
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13-14 days. It's coming I'm pretty sure. I was restless last night so I think my temp rise was just a fluke.Quote:
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I understand what you mean ab wanting to get life back to normal. But I so hope this is your month!!!! I wish I could quit obsessing and just let it go but I can't right now. I think that's why DS2 was concieved first month. We were under no pressure and I had never temped or anything.
Sorry Foxcub, big hugs to you xx
I tested this morning (8dpo) big fat negative...... I don't think it will happen this month, just a feeling I have. I'm usually feeling a bit icky in the mornings at this stage, but I feel fine.
Will try a frer again tomorrow and again at 10dpo then wait for at to arrive.
Pbn, I'm with you on giving it your last go, I will go one more month then that's it. I can't stick to the diet any longer than that and I need to start living life with my boys instead of being caught up in this ttc world :wink:
I'm sorry AF arrived Foxcub..... :(
Sending prayers that next month is your month!! Fxfx :hugs::HH:
I hope you get a bfp this month! You have put a good effort in with your sway. It must be so hard to make that decision to stop.Quote:
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Good evening ladies. Had zero time to get online the past couple of days and am so super stressed over work lately too. So not girl friendly!! Thankfully the stress should ease up after tomorrow!! FXed!!!
Today is CD6 for me and am not sure we are going to get to attempt this cycle either! I was on an anti biotic recently and now have a yeast infection which I unknowingly passed to DH so unprotected dtd is off the cards til we are both in the clear!! Have ordered CB smiley opks so should know more this monthly than last month anyway. Am hoping my regular longer cycles kick back into effect after my short one last month but only time will tell. Trying to be ok with this curve ball but it's hard!
Sending you all the best this month hun, you have given it your all and I must say fair play to you for making the decision to have a cut off time for when to stop trying. Really hoping this is your month though xxxQuote:
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Ladies, I know how you feel. My dd2 took over a year to conceive. I started off swaying blue and dropped everything by the time she was conceived. I talk about it a lot but the bfn's really took a toll on me and have made ttc this time seem like a dream that will never happen. I envy that you are at peace with your decision. I feel like I won't stop until dh makes me. He's 44 so we won't try past March. Keeping positive thoughts can be so difficult!! Hopefully this is your bfp and you don't have to consider anything else!!
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Thanks everyone I hope this whole group gets bfps this cycle or next - what a way to go out lol!!
Immi you nailed it on the head - I feel like I've been so caught up in swaying and ttc and everything else has been put on the back burner. Dh and I knew going into this that it just may not happen and I actually feel more relieved and carefree than I have all year. Time to focus on my boys and be thankful for the wonderful family we have. I just know its time to stop :) I have everything crossed for you even though you're not feeling it!!
Purple the decision was actually easy in the end surprisingly! This is also the first cycle I haven't been thinking about the next and I couldn't be happier lol!
Hopper I really hope you end up being able to try this cycle!
You're such an amazing women!!Quote:
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Does anyone know what IVF or ICSI sways? Or where I could find out?
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Oh pbn wouldn't that be amazing!! Everything crossed for a bucket load of BFPs this month and next month so we can all move over to the due June/July/August thread!!!! I am feeling so inspired by you and Immi right now, thank you ladies!! X
Hoping to try this month but honestly am so sick of swaying have had more cheats than not since back from vacation. Cardio is all but gone out the window. With my new job finding the time on top of everything else is just proving impossible! And have really been beating myself up over the Lack of cardio!! I don't like who I am right now, I don't like my detached-ness (so not a word!!) I don't like my obsessiveness (definitely not a word either!!) I just want to be done. I think that's why the surprise AF hit me so hard last cycle, cause I wanted to be done and just have the whole swaying process taken out of my hands!
Aww magical thank you! I'm not sure about ivf price I hope someone can give you an idea of what you'd be looking at. Fx you just wont need it!!
Hopper try and stay positive :) if it makes you feel better I basically cheated the entire 2ww last cycle and one before! Completely understand how you're feeling about yourself not being yourself - ttc is hard enough without the swaying element! Stay strong!
I truly hope this is your month pbn. I think its great (and brave) that you could come to a decision and be at peace with it.
Ive certainly held my boys a little tighter the last few days ever thankful for the miracle that they are. Its certainly calmed me abit.
Hopper ikwym hang in there. I think most of us have our cheat days. Im getting back to focusing on a few things i repeatedly do each cycle which is snack, not enough exercise and jumping the gun whenever i see a line on an opk no matter how dark it is 😂 maybe focus on a few things this cycle rather than feeling its all a bust 😊
Sorry af arrived foxcubblue
ImmiNAddi fx theres still a bfp there for you xx
Magical im not sure with ivf except theres greater chance of twins 😀
Trueblue, mammacass, h2g, quinn and anyone else ive missed may we see our bfps very soon and babydust to all xxx
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Hopefully that won't be an issue and you'll get your BFP! If not at least you at peace moving forward. I'm still pulling for a BFP though!! [emoji120] [emoji5] [emoji6] 👣🚼🙏Quote:
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What is the 'indent' line that I have heard people talk about? I couldn't help myself and used a dip test about 30mins ago (first response brand) and now I can see (maybe) a tiny (I'm talking tiny!!!) start and end of a 'maybe' line on the test... Is that an indent line? Like where the line would show if it were there?
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Im not sure unless i were to see it ImmiNAddi.
The tests i did over the wkend had faint lines but they were on a few different tests so im just assuming it didn't stick. These were very faint lines and i at first thought they may be indent/evap lines.
FX its the real deal though xx
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Photo? An indent line is kinda a line without colour, BFPs have colour.Quote:
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I think it's when the line has no color. I swore I had a bfp once but there was no color and af started. I think it actually looked like an indented line.Quote:
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Oh and again, I know I say this a lot but I'm an le girl and the queen of cheating. Sometimes I'd feel like a hamburger and I actually did light exercise with my second. I wasn't a couch potato but not doing a lot. Not saying to do that but just wanting you to know that cheating every now and then is okay.
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Can't get a pic of this one, I tried but couldn't get it to show. It was pink/purple on the two edges? But like the smallest dot... Will just have to keep myself busy til tomorrow I think!!!
Sounds promising immi!! Can't wait for your test tomorrow! Do you have any frers?
I do, but I used one of them first thing this morning and couldn't see anything....Quote:
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Will use one of them 2mrw :wink:
Oh and my temp has been the same for three mornings in a row which is weird? At least it's still a high temp (36.8) but just thought it wasn't good that it didn't go up and down?
Its great your temp is still up.
FX trmo for you xxx
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Immi when I was reading about flat lining temps a lady had said she had 9 days of same temp! And it turned into a bfp. Fx so tightly for you! Bring on tomorrow morning already lol!!
I tested today at 6 dpo n got a - obviously. It is way too early.
I started eating a lot again. Its still 1500 cal but i m snacking a lot n dont feel comfortable trying next month��
This is my chart from July and the reason I bought a 2 point basal thermometer. I wouldn't read too much into flat line temps but I still cant wait to see what yours does tomorrowhttp://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/09...3df37a25d2.jpg
Yes far too early boyzmommy but I've tested at 6dpo myself lol. Don't sweat about eating extra your calories are still easily within limits :) you gotta do what keeps you sane!
Pbn3 i m eating what i was eating b4 swaying. I never counted cal but now i realized tht i dont even eat a lot of cal.
But i stopped snacking while swaying. Now i want this to b my month to stop watching my diet.i cant go ht so swaying is my only option.
I asked my dh b4 swaying n he denied to ever go for ht. He is happy with another boy as he thinks its meant to b
I m all crazy right now plz excuse me heheeee
Heygirls, im going to join you. This is our 2nd month of ttc. The first i was coming off mirena (tested opk) every day but was unsure how ling it would take. We were doing e4days but that got messed up when hubby had to go out of town. We dtd monday and i got abpos opk that day. 1 day after stopping vitex and saw palmetto. Today i tried to tezt but had a lot to drink and both tests looked washed out. Cramps woke me up last night and i can feel a little bit tonight but not much. Sat. Would have been 2 weeks from af and im usuually 26-28 days. Would u tey to dts again or leave it?
Hi dpike and welcome! Are you swaying blue or pink? Do you have any other signs that you're about to o as in fertile cm? Any chance you can do a hold now and do another opk in a couple hours?
Welcome dpike.
Boyzmommy- just a tad early hehe hoping you see double lines soon
Still waiting for internet cheapies to arrive 😕
I have a post in the ttc forum if anyone could take a look. Its just about my weirded out cycles and last cycle. Any input would be greatly appreciated thanks
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Welcome dpike :)
Netti, i hope you didn't order the cheapies from the first place I ordered from as they never turned up! I got my money back at least.
I saw the 7 pack of frer tests at my chemist werehouse so once I'm in the tww I will probably buy a pack... although I have a stack of cheapies, 1 frer, 1 pregnosis and a cb digital so I pretty well stocked for hpts lol.
Netti I had a read of your other post but cant offer any advice sorry :( I'm sure Atomic and others will have some answers for you soon
Thanks anyway pbn. Maybe my body is just still adjusting after ds4.
Purple- off ebay meant to be here by today. Ive sent a message so hopefully they arrive soon. I have a 5 pack of pregnosis clear that ive hidden and 5 opks left.
I'll have to search around for a chemist warehouse and find some decent priced opks
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I'm so sorry Fox:(
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