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We will be on holiday on the Gold Coast next week, I'm telling my DH he can't expect AF to be joining us (which he will hate!) then if she does not I'm hoping he'll figure it out.[emoji23]. I really have no idea which way this will go though. I know we cut it fine with when I O'd.Quote:
Originally Posted by ScienceGirl
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Ugh I'm getting nowhere with my doctor. So frustrating. :( :( Maybe we should have just tried this cycle without Clomid - this feels like a waste of time.
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Abc what's the latest? Did you email him a copy of your chart as per my last post?
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And I know its hard but you had no idea he'd be this stubborn regarding clomid when many others would have already prescribed it [emoji53] also what if you had tried and fell pregnant only for him to have given it to you. You had to try, remember you wanted your best pink shot and clomid could have and still may be an option..... Big hugs xxxoo
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No - I didn't get a chance to email him but I talked to him on the phone today. I said, I'm confident I ovulated last Tuesday (Oct 3rd - CD14) b/c I had symptoms of ovulation and a VERY, very clear temp shift on the following day - Wednesday - CD15. He said, well you got a +OPK on Sept. 29th (CD10), so you had to have ovulated earlier than last Tuesday, and, your progesterone came back at 10 on CD17 and if you were only 3dpo, you progesterone would not be that high. And I said well I normally get +OPK a few days before it looks like I actually O and I always see a major temp shift around CD14-15, so, that's when I think I'm ovulating. And he said, well, OPK tests are more accurate than temperature charts. And around and around we went.... So he said, again, call me on the first day of your next period and we'll talk about a couple of options. I said, I know my period will start on Friday or Saturday, I'm already starting to spot, and my LP will likely be 10 days. And so he said again, just call me after your period starts. I think we both may be getting slightly frustrated w/ each other :)
Here's another thing though: He mentioned again today that my follicle on ultrasound on CD10 (the day I got +OPK) was 17 mm. He said you normally will ovulate when follicle gets between 20-25 mm, and it grows 2 mm a day. So if mine was 17 mm on CD10, then clearly it seems possible that I didn't ovulate until a few days after that +OPK if my follicle grew to closer to 25 mm.
And - today I have had a few incidents of spotting and my temp is starting to drop. If I ovulated Oct 3rd, then I'm only 9 dpo and that doesn't seem ok that I'm spotting at 9 dpo. The spotting is minimal - but before I started swaying I never had spotting before AF.
Yea - I'm frustrated - and have had a looooooong day so far today :) :) :) Please excuse the venting!
Also - I want to read and respond to others here later tonight (WOW our ttw board has been active!) - but Robin and TP - Thinking about you both. This ttc stuff kinda sucks :( :( Big hugs to you!
Omg what a douche!!! Did you get a chance to say that to him about the follicle being 17mm on day of pos opk so how could you have ovulated the following day?? Or did you think of it after the phone call? I cannot believe he said opks are more accurate than temping!!! Are there any other obs you can see? Otherwise can you possibly ring him back and calmly say you feel that you aren't being taken seriously with your concerns and that you are losing confidence in yours and his ability to communicate? This may 'shock' him into being more open minded and helpful and if not then suggest to him that you think perhaps its best you see someone else.... maybe this will jump start him as a last resort.... How incredibly frustrating for you [emoji853] I really am stunned at how arrogant he's behaving [emoji46]
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Good evening everyone!
Welcome Frankie!
I am going to have to go back and re-read everything to figure out what all is happening.. I went through it quickly on my phone when I posted earlier but my phone sucks so reading through everything is like pulling teeth.
ABC - I am so sorry to hear your doctor isn't being very helpful :( I don't have any advice for you but I will KMFX that he gets his act together and realizes what is happening and helps you out!
So to expand a little on my post earlier. I just started taking Zoloft... and I kept thinking that this lower back pain was possible pregnancy symptoms as well as some nausea. I had this moment of realization on my lunch break that it was totally the new meds I am taking. I decided to google the side effects and sure enough everything I am currently feeling is due to the meds! They make me feel like complete crap! HOWEVER I always forget that when I am pregnant I don't get symptoms before 6 weeks. So this is actually a good sign ;) No symptoms of being pregnant or anything for that matter, aside from med side effects, is good. 2 more sleeps before I start the testing!
No actually he's the one who brought up the follicle on our call today. He had told me last week that it had measured at 17 mm and then he mentioned it again today and said the thing about it growing 2 mm per day and O happening when it's 20-25 mm.... So I didn't understand why he said that and also acted like I must have ovulated the day after +OPK. I get what he has said that there can be issues with temping in terms of temps being thrown off by different things, but my pattern is consistent and definitely clear enough to show when O is happening!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
I think my plan for when I call him on Monday morning (he's out tomorrow anyways) is to see if he makes any mention at all of Clomid, and if so I'm going to just ask him if I can have it. I want to see if it's one of the "options" he mentioned today. I'm wondering if he'll say, we'll lets have you keep trying a few more cycles and if you don't get pregnant we'll try Clomid - in which I'll just ask to have it now. If he makes no mention at all maybe I'll bring it up since he'd talked about it my last appt.
Ugh. Annoying! :(
I felt this way when I got my first AF after my early m/c in August.... Mixed feelings... Happy my body had returned to normal, but sad that it was because my pregnancy didn't stick. :( Normal to feel that way I think!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bluedreaming
Ok I'm trying to keep up... Who all do we have in the 2ww right now? BBB, Mommy2Apples (hi!! we've missed you on here!), Frankie, Momto3Girls? Am I missing anyone?
Who is next to test?!! :)
TP and Robin - I know we all understand if you need to take a break from here. You both have been through so much. But know we're here for you whenever you need and whenever you want to vent! Seems like there have been so many BFN's and early m/c's on this board lately - it sucks!! Thinking about you both and really praying your sticky beans come soon!
Bluedreaming I missed this earlier!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bluedreaming
Wishing you all the best and hope your ttc goes quickly [emoji173]
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Abc! I've missed you too!! Sorry the doc is giving you so many problems! Hopefully you get your clomid!
Bluedreaming so many hugs to you!
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Hello! Wanted to add my name to the list. I think I O'ed yesterday, so I'm just barely in the 2WW. Hopefully I can have some patience and not spend tons of money on tests!Quote:
Originally Posted by ABC.2606
Welcome Greydore! Fx for you! I am a poasaholic! So right there with you on spending too much on tests.. I have decided to just buy the dollar store test until I am seeing something faint on those otherwise I'd go broke!
I had the weirdest sensation this morning. I was standing in my living room and go a sharp sudden zap like feeling really low abdomen area. I have seen a lot of people who have experience implantation pinching but I can't see that being what it was because it was just around my csection scar, but felt like it was inside. My last csection was 7 years ago and have never felt a pain like that before. It was so weird !
Oh and I tested this morning cause I suck! Lol BFN obviously haha well at least I got that out of my system for now. We will see what tomorrow brings. I will be 9 dpo tomorrow.
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so hard not testing. I'm 6 dpo today. I didn't test early with my first. I tested at 11 dpo with my second and now the wait is so hard this time. not sure what it is haha. While I know I'm super early but the urge to test is strong haha. I usually wake up and hurry to pee so I don't have fmu to test. Tempted to test tomorrow, but still think its to early and seeing negative isn't fun.
It's definitely too early mwilson. It's way too early for me too lol I usually get bfps maybe by 9dpo but definitely by 10 dpo. Good luck!
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My first son was an oops baby, so I didn't test til my period was a week late, obviously was very positive. My second we were trying, so I tested at 9 dpo and got a BFN, but got a faint BFP at 11 dpo with a dollar tree test (a FRER gave me a negative the same day!) Every time I think I have symptoms I remind myself that it's probably in my head, because with both of my boys I didn't feel any different whatsoever until 6 weeks when the nausea and exhaustion hit. I probably will test on Saturday the 21, because I have a bachelorette party planned and I need to decide how much I'll be drinking, although it's probably still too early.
That's exactly how I am too. With my first she was an oops.. I was 18, and I tested when my period was 5 days late. With my second DD she was planned but I have no idea my time line for things. My third was an oops but I knew as soon as it happened and managed to hold out testing until 10dpo and it came back a very faint positive. I had no symptoms with any of those two week waits.. And hardly any throughout the pregnancies at all. Some nausea if I didn't eat but otherwise nothing was different. So I don't know why I expect this time to be different. Lol
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Momto3girls let us know what happens tomorrow! I tested once at 8 dpo also, in the evening! It was silly because I knew it would be negative, but I just had that strong urge to test. Part of me wants to show some self control and wait this time (we'll see).
I will definitely update in the morning! I've been having some intense cramping on the right side of my uterus, or so it seems. I have a feeling...
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So I think I have the world's faintest second line! I saw it right away but it's proving to be a difficult one to capture on camera.. here it is anyways. Have fun squinting! I can't wait to see what tomorrows will show!Attachment 37945
Not sure where everyone is??? Here is my fmu test! Happy squinting!https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...914701c353.jpg
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I *think* I see something in the second one!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Momto3girls
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Not the best lighting, but I do see a line when I zoom in. Huge congrats!!
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The light on it was making it not show up in the picture thats why i took it like that. Fx i can get a good picture later, or i guess i should say tomorrow lol i am not a poasaholic..
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Getting cautiously excited Momto3girls [emoji3]
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I do see a line Momto3girls!!
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I think I see something too! Congrats!! [emoji2]Quote:
Originally Posted by Momto3girls
I definitely see it! Fx that it keeps getting darker for you!
Hoping to see a lovely dark line in a few days momto3!!! :fx:
I am skeptical of it. Its so hard to see and ive had these play tricks on me before. HOWEVER my cervix is super high firm and closed and it never does that in the 2ww. So i guess we will see!
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I totally understand, but that to me is positive. It looks just like my first test with my second son. I was very skeptical and posted a picture of it on one of those threads where the women tweak the photo. She didn't even have to tweak my photo it was so obviously positive, like yours is. I don't have to squint to see it :)
Bought and frer so I wouldn't have to guess anymore
There's no denying that!
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Congrats Momto3girls!
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No doubt about that line Momto3girls [emoji3] congratulations!!! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]
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Thank you! I am in shock! Haha
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Yay!! So excited for you! What does that put your EDD at?
Congratulations!!
My temp has gone down 2 days in a row. Waiting for AF. She's not supposed to be here until Thurs/Fri so a bit worried she's coming too soon :/
BBB you're only 8dpo so its far too early to read anything into a temp drop. Also its barely a drop! You're still well above coverline! Its really the next few days (as in 4-5) temps that matter :) Hang in there xxoo
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That’s awesome!! It gives me hope! I just caved and poas...negative at 8dpo. I know it was early but feeling off so I thought I’d try. I’ll try again next few days. I think part of me wants an early positive bc a couple months ago I had a late positive and that turned into a chemical preg.