Originally Posted by
begonia
Lola, that is cray-Z about your "accident" ... but it is what it is, and I'm with Jen ... that would be one determined little bean! And it totally could still be a boy if you are pg.
ITA by the way that I think swaying works. I used to be more on the fence about it, but having seen SO many sways and the outcomes in the last 9 months, I am with you ... it really seems to be about 80/20. And I also agree that DIET DIET DIET is key.
I'd love to hit timing right but the odds are we won't. Dh doesn't want to sway (though I know he would love a son.. I think he doesn't want to get his hopes up honestly) so it isn't like he's going to be cool with NOT BD for 4 days, LOL. We aren't like horny teenagers or anything but 4 day abstinence will be hard to pull off. I'll probably get an 0-2 and an 0. We'll see.
Today I was wondering if I already had a boy and a girl what I would want for #3. I definitely want 3 (though these days I can't say why, for crying out loud my kids are crazy lately) but I wonder if I had one of each if I'd have a preference. Hard to say.
Gotta run so sorry no personals but hope everyone is doing well! Haven't seen TTC5 post this am so will assume she's busy POAS :-)