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I hate GD. I'll be going about my business quite happily and then something so simple sends me crashing down. And the worst part is what if I never get a girl? What if this is it for me? Pro do have more and they are all boys? I know I'll love them and I'll be even more protective over all boy families, but I'll still have this feeling!
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so i went back to facebook,the profile picture next to the friend request I was avoiding has changed from her and her son, to a picture of a baby girl. I'm trying to come up with ways to make a quick £15k but sadly I don't think even selling my body would work (after 4 kids I'd probably have to pay them! - I should add I'm joking) I am becoming so bitter! I don't like this new version of me, but while people keep getting daughters and I don't I can't see it changing.
Hugs :( I am in the same boat, my two boys are my absolute world but my heart aches for a baby girl. I hope and pray we all get our dream xx
I know what you mean totally why can't we just wave our magic wands and get what we want? It scares me feeling this way forever if I never get a daughter but I'm hoping if we ever have another baby (dh being bit of a dick tbh) then I hope I'll be able to make my peace in knowing that if it's another boy we done all we could to try for our dd.
I'm hoping we do get to follow the plan and try again and I can say the same.
I know people say one day we will have granddaughters but when I look at my family and DH family and how often they see their grandkids and how involved they are if does make me feel like it won't be the same. I can't help feel that there will always be that 'what if'
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The "what if" spurred me on to ttc#4. Even tho a part of me knew the GD would be horrible i knew the "what if" of not having a 4th would be just as bad if not worse. I truly believed i would have a boy. I'm not sure how i would have coped initially but at least I would have felt better having tried ... I think. I know i would have loved boy #4 but i know how much hurt i would have had to carry too. Hugs xx
I didn't find this place until I was already pregnant with ds4 and although now I wouldn't change him, if I had known this site existed I could have swayed and if he was still him then that would have been that. But I feel like I need to try, I need to know I gave it my best shot.
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I'm with you mob I didn't find this site until I was pregnant with ds2 and tbh (sorry atomic) it was a cursory glance as I was pretty IG brainwashed by then and so sure my cup of cranberry juice a day with my 4 day cut off defo meant I was carrying a dd! Lol!
After I had ds2 a friend who has 2 girls showed me this website properly after getting her much wished for ds! I've been on here ever since!! I do wished id found this site sooner but also wonder if if have ds2 if I had!
At least with having found this site I've more or less managed to convince dh to go for one more. At least in my heart of hearts I'll know I've given it my all and I hope I can move on from that even if it may take a little time
Ds3 is an IG opposite. My longest ttc journey by a mile. Dh went along with ig swaying for me, but thought the 7 factors were a bit bogus. I wanted to believe. The monkeys finally took over around the time I had him. I briefly went on plumlily to catch up with some of my ig friends. Life with 2 kids and a colicy baby meant I couldn't get on much. Luckily one of my friends told me they'd moved here. The fact that atomics sway plan made more logical sense helped me convince dh to even up the numbers. Not sure he believes dd was anything other than luck, I disagree! Although I sucked at diet for swaying, the blighted ovum pg did that part for me as i felt ill a week after conception, one attempt, being a lot less Martha thanks to therapy (not for swaying), 1 attempt month after MC, being "older" mum ... X
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i guess we can't be too sad about not finding it sooner because we wouldn't trade our DS's but it would be nice to have a girl too.