Yuzu, this is how I feel about my 15 month old terror DS2....grrr if he wasn't so cute!! LOL
I think it will be awesome that your third DS will have a baby brother....
that's the thing about Gender deisre that sucks so much, it's not about the kids you have, or about to have (you know you'll love them to pieces) but of course about the other gender you don't, that you wonder about... :hugs: