Uk ladies

Ds3 stole my heart in an extra special way, after my gd, he just felt so perfect for us, and I'm so glad I dealt with gd before his birth as i enjoyed him to the max 💙 x

Finally some gorgeous weather! Still having a nightmare with the house move so can't see us swaying anytime in the near future or ever the way I feel at the moment, so sick of just waiting waiting waiting for people to make decisions based on their pure greed! :(

Hugs. I know the feeling just having to wait for someone else to decide something that will affect whether you can move. Although our situations are a bit different they are both out of our control. I almost want to say just forget it, we will try anyway and then when sonewhere comes along we will move pregnant or with 5 kids. But if we have another here then that will raise the number of bedrooms we need and limit our options further. It's so rare to have more than 3 beds come up, and then it's usually 3 bed with a dining room that can be used as a 4th.
Can't remember if I said, I accepted that friend request from the person I unfriended and then just hid her from my wall so I don't have to see.
I'm a horrible person, I should be happy for her, she had 3 boys (2 of which don't live with her) and she told me after her 3rd that she'd have loved to have a girl but had such awful pregnancies she couldn't do it again and would maybe adopt one day. Then a couple of weeks later she was pregnant and it was a girl. I shouldn't hate that she got a girl, but I do.
The weather is lovely, so warm! I've done tons of washing lol


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Lol I'm up to date with my washing too! Lol long may this weather last!
Oh I know it's the complete helplessness feeling, we are boy mums after all were used to being the ones in control lol we can't handle someone else having our fate in their hands!
Oh I so know what you mean you want to be happy for her but you can't help your emotions! Why do they get what we want seemingly so easy. I think it'd be easier to handle if atleast the housing situation for us both was going smoother.
Maybe you should just go for another it won't affect what house they give you, in fact they may increase the urgency! Either way you're sure to get a house bigger than you're in now! Hate the fact we're both in the same situation but glad I have someone to feel crappy with lol

It's nice knowing other people understand isn't it?
I was out with ds2 today and text dh saying do you think we will ever have another baby? And he replied "what the babies?!" And I said yeah babies. And when he didn't reply I text again saying we could try to make a girl one and he still didn't reply.


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Why do men avoid this subject? Did you have a talk tonight in the end?

Nope. I thought maybe he'd wait till they were in bed and bring it up but he didn't.


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I wasn't even asking for right away, I was asking if he thought we'd EVER have another


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Well, I brought up HT. I said if I can come up with a get rich quick scheme to make £15000 so we can guarantee its a girl, then can I have another baby. He said "yeah ok, write some more" (I've written a couple of, quite frankly not that great books) I said I'd never make that amount that way, and knowing my luck I wouldn't get pregnant first time and I'd just feel selfish for spending that much money on something I want. No one else cares or wants one so I should just forget about it. Waiting to hear what he has to say about that. Probably nothing. I just couldn't wait any longer, I was going to burst if I didn't say something to him there was no way I would have made it to when they were all asleep tonight.


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Has he said anything? Sometimes it just feels like the elephant in the room, it's all I think about sometimes and yet u know it doesn't cross his mind at all!