January 2012 Chit Chat Thread for TTC Boy

i've had a few miscarraiges and the pain is still the same, it hurts just as bad. yes anyone who has had a miscarriage or lost a infant knows the same pain and it sucks. wanna know what really helped me? someone told me, "But you held her for her entire life."

5 - When that memory flashed into my brain this morning I had to share. I don't want to get your hopes any higher (like that's possible) I just had to let you know it can work out. :kiss:

Hobber - I didn't test till my BFF made me at 12dpo. I had no symptoms and was sure AF was arriving any minute. Don't count yourself yet.

Girlmom - not even going to pretend it's the same thing but after losing my last pregnancy at 13 wks I wanted this one to stick 90% and only 10% cared about its gender. It's horrible that it takes something like that sometimes to shake us into realizing how precious it all is. I'm sure she knew she was loved and you were both so lucky to have her pass away snuggled and adored instead of in a plastic nicu crib covered in wires and full of IV's.

Omg ladies, there's going to be a lot of peeing on Saturday lol I'll be checking in to stalk you all. Baby dust for everyone!!

Omg girlmom that is so sad. I have lost 5 babies and it really makes you appreciate any baby regardless of gender. Big hugs to you!!

Hobbs I hope you see that second line when you test!!

Hope all you girls in the 2WW have the craps today lol

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Originally Posted by girlmom

i was screaming at the top of my lungs for them to save her. i hated those doctors but now that time has gone by ( 2 years in april) i can honestly say that if she were going to die anyway and really i dont' know of any 22 weekers that made it but i could be wrong. if she were going to die im glad she didn't suffer anymore then she did. she was opening and closing her mouth trying her hardest to breath but i mean if they had taken her from me and jabbed needles into her veins and tubes down her throat and done god knows what to her while i cried and cried.... i mean im glad i got to hold her and be with her and i pray she knew peace and love during her 2 hours with me.

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I am so sorry this happened to you. :sad:

Bloods done and the lady who took them was so nice to me, she put urgent all over it ;) So may get results this afternoon if the dr will tell me over the phone, if not I will drive up and sit in his office waiting room till he tells me lol.

For now, I am going to say I know I'm pregnant the tests say so!!!! Deal with the what ifs, later.

Omg gone for a few days and see what I miss!!!

5!!! Congrats and I'm praying you have a sticky bean in there hun!!!!!!!

Girlmom, thank you for sharing your experience and the memory of your sweet girl. Prayers for a healthy bub for you!

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Originally Posted by LolaInLove

Oooo, that is cool! We have a barre at home, of course. LOL I will check that out. I just can't get myself to the gym after a long day at work....I would so much rather be home with my family making dinner and doing homework and hanging out. I have to figure out how to work out during the day.

That is nice that your cycles come back while nursing.....mine don't at all! And I just keep the weight on until I wean also. It literally melts off within the week of weaning. But eh, so worth it. So, do you guys have ttc again on the schedule?

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Lola it's so hard for me to find time too, but I love that the kids like to be there along with me... It's fun to watch them and a good time for all of us :p

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Originally Posted by love being a mummy

I've heard that aswell, your level has to be over 5 for them to class it as bfp.


I am about 12dpo. I don't know if I count the days right. I am going by when I had ewcm, but I've been told you can O on a different day from when you had ewcm so I guess I really don't have any idea how many dpo I am.

We were only able to DTD twice this cycle, but we were releasing on other days.
DTD and ewcm on CD19 which means I am 12dpo today and AF is due in 2 days.

My last cycle O was messed up due to L-arg but the 2 cycles before that I had ewcm on CD19 and AF came 14days after that.

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Did you test today? Are you going to get some more OPKs so you can be sure when you O?

Flava, nice to hear from you :) Sounds like you have been enjoying life with your girls and your new dog!

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Originally Posted by Princess of Pink

5 Keeping my fingers crossed for you hon!!

Come on Lola we want a BFP from you this week!!

Who else is testing??

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I tested today with a FRER, BFN :(

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

This is the 3rd attempt, though I started the diet in August. Our first attempt was in October, we skipped November, we tried Dec and now January. I know that isn't so long in the sceme of things, but I am old, and getting fatter by the minute on this damn diet... I need a blue BFP NOW!!

Maybe you are going to be lucky this time, Lola! You are having craps, right?

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This is our 3rd attempt too. I know that it's not that long either but I just want it NOW! I am getting impatient...

FX for you Hobber!