Oh 5 hun:( I hope you are both ok xxxxxx
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Oh 5 hun:( I hope you are both ok xxxxxx
Go in next week hopefully x
What will they do?? Possibly some anti-depressants for a while??
Just added the pic of my DD, what a flippin mess!
ELP, your poor little girl! I hope that someone fixes the sidewalk. That is just dangerous! On another note, little Davey is so cute!
TTC5, I hope that they give you something to help. Certain antidepressants are supposedly safe to nurse on (are you breast feeding?). What is going on with the baby's sleeping? Lack of sleep could be making you feel depressed, too.
Lack of sleeps a nightmare isn't it :( You just cant stop everything from mounting up, when weve had a good night I can do so much more the next day which makes me feel good aswell! when its the other way it just rollercoasters:(
TTC5 hope you will be feeling better soon after getting the help you need.
ELP. Your poor little one. That looks like a really nasty fall. Hope you are able to get some answers from the council
Hobber your little? guy looks like a real chunk:bigsmile: I.ve always wanted a proper juicy baby but mine always stay little grr:) How much does he weigh atm??
Pearl! how are you feeling!! Have you had any early scans??
My DD's gone to sleep now bless her, DH is out again tonight hence the time to post! hes gonna have a fit when he sees her. I let her open all of her advent calender as I feel sorry for her, I'll get her a new one tomorrow they are only £1 but it cheered her up:)
3P1B-I better not be a week late, I don't want to be in the hospital for xmas :(
ELP your poor little girl, I would be pissed. Davey is so cute :) Your kids have the most amazing blue eyes
TTC5 hope you start to feel better soon :bighug:
Not sure. Last check was about 2 weeks ago and he was 12 lb 4 oz!! We have his 2 month appointment on Tuesday, and I will know his weight then. I am guessing he will be 13 lbs at least!! Not only is he chunky, but he is long!! Big boy!!Quote:
Originally Posted by ELP
He sounds squeezable hobber lol!!! Update us with hie weight ok:)
Dloui can you imagine a xmas day baby!!!! Now that we have to avoid, we'll ship you over some castor oil, that should shift him:bigsmile:
ELP - omg I'd be livid! That poor little bunny :( Davey has gotten so big, such a cutie! I'm with you, never had a chunky baby. At 18lbs 2oz Charlie is my biggest at 9 months old.
5- awe my love, I'm so sorry. I had baby blues after dd1, sever ppd after dd2 and another pretty good dose after dd3. No one, midwife included, can believe I didn't have even a touch this time around. Anyway if you need to talk to someone who's been there I'm here for you :kiss: We've had quite a time getting Charlie to sleep too, he just this last week started sleeping through the night.
Hobber - Charlie didn't hit 12lbs till he was 4 months lol
dloui - I hope he's right on time for you so you can have a proper Christmas with your new little fella :)
Lol I will try anythingQuote:
Originally Posted by ELP
Don't do it! The more I tried to get a kid out the longer they stayed lol
Ugh, vacation is over, AF has returned. For the first time since my early 20's she is no longer a sad omen or one less in a count down to ttc. Each pregnancy has changed my periods, going from terrible cramps to none and a horrifically heavy flow for 2-3 days to a tolerably heavy one for 3-4. Well this time I'm having bad enough cramps to take something, crazy bloating and headaches and oh god must have chocolate! I haven't been like this since before dd1, I think the boy broke me lol
I just noticed, this was my 1400 post!
3P1B, You were so lucky AF stayed away so long! She decided to visit for Christmas. How nice! :wink:
ELP - Your little guy is so cute! I don't blame you for wanting more lol. Maybe I can join you in a few years ;)
TTC5 - Hope you feel better soon xxx
Hobber - What a big boy he is! So cute! :)
Thank you Foxy! How are you?Quote:
Originally Posted by Foxy
I am feeling great ELP. Apart from a little big of heartburn a couple of times I am fantastic, No nausea, no tiredness, just normal me with evening time bloating and a huge appetite. So are you going to TTC in Dec or wait until after Christmas.Quote:
Originally Posted by ELP
My 1st scan is on the 14th Dec, only 11 more days to go.
Dloui, have you looked into reflexology. We DD I had my 40 week appointment on Fri 17th Dec, Her DD was the 18th and I had 0% effacement with a closed cervix, no sweep as Dr had done one the week before and nothing. I had reflexology later that day and the next day with a woman who has had waters break on her massage table, and by 1.27am Sunday morning contractions started and contiued all the way through to Tuesday when DD was born. (I was starting from nothing) I will definately be starting the reflexology earlier this time around.
I haven't really don't anything yet, I am waiting until at least 40 weeks and then I will start to try and do some of the things everyone says brings on labor. The only thing I have been doing a lot of is walking around. I go to the dr today for a checkup so we will see if the walking has done anything, I was 1-2 cm last week.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pearl327
I just write a post with one hand here and it's gone grrrrrrrr
Anyway 3pink-thank I feel way better and no ppd yet I hope it stays away. But look like my poor baby has tummy pains and i don't know what to do or make him feel better it makes me sad and so tired too.
ttc5-i really hope you are better soon and the let you go home fast.hugs
ELP- so more babys huh? Well your kids are so cute Im jealous for the blond hair lol.
Love the pics I have to remember not everyones baby is so tiny like mine!
So sorry about your DD! I can't see the pic from her but must be so sad and yes some1 should be responsible for it!
hobber- you have a big baby! Need to post new pics :wink:
3pink-sorry about AF! 9months is good I hope it stays away for me too lol
Flava-hopefully your little man just has some gas and his tummy issues go away soon.
Went to the dr today for my check up, I am 2-3 cm dilated and 50% effaced, he still hasn't dropped yet. My blood pressure was high so I have to go back in a couple days to get it checked again. Hopefully since I am already 2-3cm it means I won't go overdue :worry:
Flava and Hobbs have BOYS! :highfive::bluecheer::running::bowdown::bighug::bi gsmile:
Oh my stars I couldn't be happier for you ladies!
And Dloui is due any day now! Gracious it seems like you just got that BFP! Soon you'll be kissing those sweet baby boy cheeks you lucky girl :) He's a doll in those avatar pictures. What a sweet face! FX L&D is a great experience!
I read back a few pages and my, I hope your DD is well ELP. Poor thing! How frustrating as a Mama!
Jen that little Charlie boy is beyond precious :bigsmile: So fun to see him so big now!
DD3 could not be a sweeter baby. Honestly aside from not having a penis she is PERFECT :rofl: Seriously though I do love her guts and am glad she is here. But gender desire is still a big part of my life and I'm trying to just give it a hug and embrace it as something I have to carry with me. There are far worse things to be burdened with. But Christmas card season makes it seem to be really sucky! Everyone keeps announcing baby boys (after 1-2 girls, of course ...) and I want to have a big bonfire of cards this year :bigsmile: I can truly be happy for others, it isn't a jealousy issue, I just end up having a pity party for me. So I resolved to stop opening cards. And to stop having friends who can conceive boys :rofl: It is making my Christmas card list much shorter so that's an upside :wink:
Anyhow, just thought I would drop in and say hi. I think of all of y'all often :hugs:
Hey everyone... guess what... Im a Blue Crew Grad Yipeeeeeeeee :)
Congrats Cinss!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
But I didn't realize though this thread was only for successful boy swayers. :oops: I thought Blue Crew Grads was for anyone who swayed blue regardless of outcome. I do realize I'm like the only failed sway that still comes here... and I very rarely even do come here (given that I'm a failed sway) so I guess it makes sense that this is geared towards the successes. Y'all have fun... I'll stick to the gender desire board when/if I visit again.
No way Begonia!!!! You better stay here, this board is for people who swayed for boy regardless of outcome. Or anyone who wants to post here.Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
Begonia,
I agree...you are totally welcome to the blue crew grads space...since you are still a blue crew grad...you swayed and you had a baby!!! Hell, I didn't even sway blue, but I'm always checking on all my blue swaying friends, to touch base with everyone :)
B!!! Its looovely to see you popping in and I want you back around more often, ok!!!!! You are definately elcome here you silly sausage, in fact I want to persuade you back over onto the ttc boards with me;) and see who else we can spoil rotten for next christmas:) then you can be part of the newer GenderD blue grad level 2 club I'm intending to start:bigsmile:
Thanks for your words about my DD, Flava thanks to you too:), I took the pic down because it was a bit sad to look at all bashed up like that, I'll pop it back up next time we are all on together of you like:) It has all settled down on her face nicely and there should only be minor scarring tank goodness!
BEGONIA!!! So great to see you--HERE!!!!! You are welcome here, as are ANY blue swayers, regardless of outcome! (or anyone at all, really!)Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
Your DD sounds like a peach! But I am sorry you are still having gender desire.... are you and your DH still thinking of trying adoption or HT?
dloui-I really hope the tummy issues goes away fast.I have no idea how long babys have this at all?
You have only a little time left so hopefully baby is here soon.Try and rest as much as you can before!
begonia-wow I hope you post a lot more! I wasn't around either because my pregnancy was really bad omg...wish you would post some pics from your baby girl she must be cute! Everyone can post here for sure and you are one of our group.
congrats I didn't know you find it out already 17 weeks ?!! you just got a bfp girl!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
ELP- really how do you do the night times? Or all your babys sleep thru the night? I was always scared of the night time because I do really bad with no sleep. So I was like really no more babys i don't want to be a zombi!
With this baby is easier because DH helps out at night feeding him. I have little milk...Anyway no clue how you do it lol no way I would have another baby.
Today he only got a bottle at 3pm but poor thing was so hungry.
Everyone else do BF only ? Maybe Im the only one with low milk here.
I don't BF I bottle feedQuote:
Originally Posted by Flava
Y'all are sweet. Sorry for being fussed ... it's just y'know the 1st page of this whole thread was me and TTC5 and babydes and jen 18 months ago ... it was all new and everyone here was newly with BFPs, so no one was here because they had a boy, they were here because we "graduated" from the swaying thread. But obviously a bunch has changed in 18 months and most people who "fail" leave, so it just becomes the natural place for all the winners to be hanging out. I just feel like that loser in the lunch room, lol ... and all the cool kids are super nice but you still feel left out bc the truth is you're not like them.
Hobbs I don't think we will do HT. I looked at it very, very seriously and even met with a doc. But I can't do it. It's just not right for me, much as I want it to be ... I can't. If we were just starting our family and I knew I'd be up for giving each and every little embryo a shot (boy or girl) then I could, but if I had to leave any "babies" on the table to get my boy I'd torture myself over it forever. And that's the HT gamble ... maybe I'd only get 1 perfect boy and he'd stick and it'd be happily ever after, or maybe I'd have 2 girl embies, or 3 boys and have to pick and forever wonder what the others would have been like ... so yeah. Not for me.
Adoption and just getting knocked up again are both still options. As is doing nothing. We'll see. I kinda feel like maybe it just isn't in the cards for me to have a son after all. I try to look at it as do I want to experience adoption (and part of me genuinely does and has for years) or do I want to have a 4th daughter. I really try to totally rule out having a genetic son as an option for me at this point.
ELP you crack me up planning your next already. I absolutely ADORE you for your big-family-loving self :) You make it sound like the best time ever and I love it! Honestly I think if we had a mix or all boys we would totally have more kids. Which is part of what makes the GD such a bad deal! It totally hampers my ability to have more kids.
Flava I will try to get a pic up here soon ... she looks like DD1 which means she's another one that favors my DH, which is great for them bc they (and he) have the.most.beautiful.eyes. And re: BF I do, only bc it's easy. I make a lot of milk and everyone of mine has latched on well from day 1, so for me, it's just easy. I'm so glad you're feeling better now that he is here!
Begonia - butting in to this thread to say hi. I've missed you!! :HH:
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Hobber - I've gotten a 9 month break with each baby, but yes, it's extra nice of her to return just in time for Christmas lol
Flava - that's too bad he's having tummy trouble. dd3 had severe reflux, it's so hard to see them uncomfortable. I exclusively BF and have always had to choose between losing weight and having an ample milk supply. If I cut to many calories and don't chug water my supply suffers. I'm a stubborn bitch, formula isn't an option lol
B- so good to hear from you! I totally get your feelings. I was so madly in love with dd3 but had an ache. I hope you can find some peace with it. Maybe take a way cute Christmas pic then anyone else :bigsmile:
Don't you dare stop checking in here! You don't have a failed sway, you have a determined dd :kiss:
I totally hear ya on accepting no genetic son, that's where I was after my mc. I had hope but was fairly sure I'd have dd4. I say when you know you'll be good no matter who you have sway again, what have you got to lose :wink:
Cinss - woohoo! congrats!
Mocha - I can't believe your dd is 2 months old already, such a cutie!