For all of those upcoming scans I am praying for you and have my fingers crossed you get your desired gender!!
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For all of those upcoming scans I am praying for you and have my fingers crossed you get your desired gender!!
This is how I feel every time I go to the dr. They do a scan each time now and I always go in thinking what if she has grown a pee pee and is now a boy :) I have seen it but I am still not 100% believing it :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Mumto3boys
We are done as well and it is very sad :(We went for number 4 and got a bonus and finally a girl in there with another baby boy! I think had it been one baby we would have stopped do it's good to know God had other plans for us ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by snipsnsnails
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Originally Posted by snipsnsnails
I know what you mean. However finding out there's two has made me realise I am DONE. I don't care if there's two hairy gorillas in there! I just can't be this sick again. We're just gonna have to savour every last moment with our final babes :)
I want to be done. I'd like to think if this was a girl I'd be done for sure but I just don't know. I don't think its so much about the desire to have a girl because I do have one I think its hard for me to close this chapter in my life. I was sure that once we got pregnant with this one this would be it but, lately I do find myself wondering about one more. Keep reminding myself I have just barely hit the halfway mark & to put the thought of another away & enjoy this moment in time. Especially since this has not been an easy pregnancy.
Really starting to feel baby move a lot more now & getting really strong kicks. Yesterday was also the first day since Thanksgiving that I had zero nausea! OMG it was amazing!!!!!!! LOL I lost a few lbs with the bronchitis I had & now since yesterday I am so hungry & cannot stop eating.
Fingers crossed for all of you with upcoming scans & praying you hear girl. I have a scan on Monday as well but I already know its a boy so I'm just excited to see him again & hoping I can get a good 3d shot to show my other kids. Have not told them baby is a boy yet but I have been working on my DD to get her excited about this being a boy, really hope she takes this well. Either way kids are on break next week so I'm taking them to Disney. Hoping that will ease any lasting GD for all of us.
I am 1000000000% DONE!!!!! No ifs ands or buts!! I can't do it anymore and traveling every 3 years is hard on its own without adding more kids to it!! I would like to be semi young when the kids are out of the house so I can enjoy life with my husband alone, just the 2 of us!
He plans on staying in this lifestyle long after he retires and it would be fun to travel together and enjoy life :)
Good luck ladies with your ultrasounds!! I'll be thinking about you. :)
We are for sure done, I still sometimes am surprised we went for three, especially my husband. We were going to only have two, and honestly if we hadn't gotten pregnant the first month of trying I'm not sure if we would have kept trying very long. This baby was meant to be! I pray, pray, pray this one makes us feel complete and is the perfect fit to our family!
Lately I've been really nervous about gender, and then I feel like an a$$ and get mad at myself and freak out that something is going to happen to this baby. I'm almost nervous because our first two babies and pregnancies were healthy (tho my first was 3-4 wks early he was healthy) and I keep hearing super sad stories about people going to in their appointment and finding they lost their baby late in pregnancy :( It breaks my heart. I can't wait until I feel this baby move a lot. I think I've felt it a few times the past couple weeks, but I kept thinking I felt a baby move after DS2 was born because I felt movement a lot so I don't know if its baby or bowels. Lol
We are not done! I always said I will have three kids, but since I found out # 3 was another little boy.. I haven't stopped thinking about having a little girl.. I can't bear not knowing the next time so we are going high tech.. I really want to enjoy this pregnancy and not be thinking about my next one being a girl. So I will do that..
Any of you with three of same gender .. Can you share your experience and thoughta after # 3 was born.. Did you get over the GD? Did you start swaying or trying for a girl?
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Gosh, I could have written your post word for word. Still haven't felt the baby move and I keep having nightmares about going in on Wednesday and given the dreaded news that baby stopped growing :'( And then I get mad at myself for ever wishing this baby was anything BUT healthy :(Quote:
Originally Posted by from2to3
I am definitely done! Will tie my tubes and all! This is my 4th child and that's a good number. DS#3 was meant to be my last one, the decision of having another way came from 1. I so wanted a little girl and 2. My first 2 are grown up men and I didn't want my 3 year old to grow up with ageing parents without a sibbling. So, we changed our minds and decided to go for number 4, but knowing all along the desire came more from me than DH, he was more than happy with just our toddler. I also tossed between yes and no for a year before deciding, I knew that if I could guarantee a girl the decision would have been much easier, but HT was out of the question for money reasons, so I took a leap of faith, and it paid off and I'm very happy, but it is definitely my last one.