UK SMOG Wannabes ~ December

Sunset, surely they would let u go home xmas eve for 24hrs?? As long as things are too dangerous? FX they do!!! Thinking of u. x

Babymad, It hasn't sunk in as I don't believe it! I really can't get my head round it and start to believe it. Esp after hearing how so many people hear boy after hearing girl. Will ask on 28th, might believe it a wee bit more, but not till my 4d scan will it sink in (if true). Dh says I'm being silly, but I can't let myself believe it quite yet. Bought 2 pink bibs and 2 pink sleepsuits with mittens after my scan to surprise my mum, but half expecting to have to take them back.
I think u will hear girl, not just saying that, I have a good feeling u will, prob as I've heard of so many mums with 3 boys having a girl 4th time round recently!!

Sunset my wee never went to lab but it was +3 at worse on the dip stick. My bp went mad and never below 100. Bp meds could not stabiles it. The normal bp for me was about 160/120 but I never felt I'll. Seems my body coped well under the strain. Sounds very promising if your bp is stable! Being induced isn't a ideal or dream birth but just think it's out of your hands now so no point feeling bad about timing or method of birth. Make sure they monitor you every two hours after birth without fail. It's so important as it can creep up again birth. You will both be ok. Doctors are really good with pe. Most baby's born early are due to pe so they know exactly how to help you and for this to have minmal impact. Ds birth is one the best days of my life. Being I'll and induced didn't taint the joy at all. Hugs I will be thinking of you x

Sunset, so sorry you are going through this but i can only repeat what the other ladies have said. You are in the best place and all thats important is yours and your baby girls health! Thinking of you X

Hi Deaks how are your opks looking? still no smiley here but just had a look on an ovulation calendar and still have till Saturday to ovulate acording to nthe dates I put in. I think the moon changes to New moon soon so that's another positive :).

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Originally Posted by Lavenderlime

Hi Deaks how are your opks looking? still no smiley here but just had a look on an ovulation calendar and still have till Saturday to ovulate acording to nthe dates I put in. I think the moon changes to New moon soon so that's another positive :).

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opks fading in sloooowly. Think i might possibly get a + tomorrow which would be great as then attempt would probably be late sat eve/early hours xmas day and then be done and dusted. Its all a bit later than i had hoped but thats ttc for you! oh and youre right...new moon on sat...that'll be a first for me!! Have you been doing FR since your attempt on mon? Are your opks fading in at all? Really hope we both get good attempts in soon and bfps early jan for september bubs!! X

Gosh sunset, huge hugs to you. No wonder you feel emotional, it is such a hard time right at the end of pg and when things seem out of your control. Praying you get some time with your boys over Christmas. Praying for you hun :pray:

chocolate- great you are getting tested and will hopefully have some reassurance, glad the temps are up though.

Babymad- I know what you mean about finding out....I know I won't be able to resist but not finding out is also really tempting, don't want to be sad for 20weeks. You never know though, we both may be carrying our girls. When I write that I just don't feel it for me though unfortunately, just feels like a boy, can't believe I'd ever be that lucky. (I hate this ugh, I'm just so far from being Ok with a boy at the moment).

Deaks and Lavendar- hope you O soon and get some good attempts in, good luck!!

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Originally Posted by Inglewood

Sunset, surely they would let u go home xmas eve for 24hrs?? As long as things are too dangerous? FX they do!!! Thinking of u. x

Babymad, It hasn't sunk in as I don't believe it! I really can't get my head round it and start to believe it. Esp after hearing how so many people hear boy after hearing girl. Will ask on 28th, might believe it a wee bit more, but not till my 4d scan will it sink in (if true). Dh says I'm being silly, but I can't let myself believe it quite yet. Bought 2 pink bibs and 2 pink sleePpsuits with mittens after my scan to surprise my mum, but half expecting to have to take them back.
I think u will hear girl, not just saying that, I have a good feeling u will, prob as I've heard of so many mums with 3 boys having a girl 4th time round recently!!

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I totally understand why you would feel like that I would too, I would need to hear it a few times before believing! But I know you have girls cooking away......I have always 'known' they were girls :) only a few days before you hear it again I'm sure xx
I hope you are right for me......I have been on one hell of a gender journey over the years and would love to eventually have my dream come true but I'm staying realistic for now........

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Originally Posted by indigoviolet

Gosh sunset, huge hugs to you. No wonder you feel emotional, it is such a hard time right at the end of pg and when things seem out of your control. Praying you get some time with your boys over Christmas. Praying for you hun :pray:

chocolate- great you are getting tested and will hopefully have some reassurance, glad the temps are up though.

Babymad- I know what you mean about finding out....I know I won't be able to resist but not finding out is also really tempting, don't want to be sad for 20weeks. You never know though, we both may be carrying our girls. When I write that I just don't feel it for me though unfortunately, just feels like a boy, can't believe I'd ever be that lucky. (I hate this ugh, I'm just so far from being Ok with a boy at the moment).

Deaks and Lavendar- hope you O soon and get some good attempts in, good luck!!

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Hugs Hun, I know how you are feeling, I'm ok with another boy - will be heartbroken not to hear girl as this is defo our last child and to know I will NEVER have a daughter will be very hard to accept, however I will be happy to complete my family as I have spent years chasing my dream. I'm like you and I don't feel I will be one of the lucky ones. Sending lots of pink dust your sway, I truly hope your dream comes true x
Will you find out before your 20 week scan?

Babymad - I could have written your post! I feel exactly the same - i too am planning not to find out as well x I expect boy I pray girl if i were to find out it was a boy i would be sad and if it was a girl I would be gutted not to have waited for a BIG surprise. God I dream of pink all day everyday but I dont feel like miracles like that happen to me I wish it would x FX for pink hun for all of us too x all i know is that my conception was the opposite of the boys not that that means anything really.....my timing wasnt great with the BD the night before O but what will be will be - wait for me in a weeks time obsessing over any sort of nub in my scan pic!
One week till NT scan and getting nervous now!

Sunset - take care cant believe you will have your little girl in your arms in the next 10days!

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Originally Posted by charlieispy

Babymad - I could have written your post! I feel exactly the same - i too am planning not to find out as well x I expect boy I pray girl if i were to find out it was a boy i would be sad and if it was a girl I would be gutted not to have waited for a BIG surprise. God I dream of pink all day everyday but I dont feel like miracles like that happen to me I wish it would x FX for pink hun for all of us too x all i know is that my conception was the opposite of the boys not that that means anything really.....my timing wasnt great with the BD the night before O but what will be will be - wait for me in a weeks time obsessing over any sort of nub in my scan pic!
One week till NT scan and getting nervous now!

Sunset - take care cant believe you will have your little girl in your arms in the next 10days!

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I think the fact that you did the opp to your boys is a great sway, I am with you on team green and feel exactly like you......I'm not ready to end the dream yet by finding out as I don't know how to move on so waiting until I have my baby in my arms is the best option for me. I will be so sad if it's not a girl but not disapppointed. When we swayed with DS3 I really thought we had a good chance of pink so when he arrived I was disappointed even though we bonded instantly. Then we did PDG so I know we can make girls and still find it hard that we lost our daughter......I hope we all have lots of pink in our lives in 2012 :) xx
I will nub obsess with you ;)
Are you still feeling sick?