Hi cbroherd! I would switch to e4d (every four days) now which will give you one attempt in your fertile period. So if you last dtd three days ago then dtd again tomorrow then four days after etc - that's if your dh is home... just keep doing e4d until either he goes back to work, af arrives or you get a bfp :) are you using opks to narrow down your lh surge? E4d or one attempt at pos opk is the recommendation for swaying pink.
Diet and one attempt are the biggest factors for swaying pink so I would start the le diet asap. Cardio (at least 60 minutes for 5-7 days/wk) has had really good results too but if you cant commit to sticking to that then couch potato is better. The best results have been from 12+ weeks on the le diet but you may as well start now just in case it takes you a few cycles to conceive. There's a library of links for swaying pink in the 'natural gender swaying' 'ttc girl' section, just have a look through when you get a chance.
And you are right about Shettles - it has been completely debunked. There's also a thread explaining that too :)
Most of all, good luck, all the best and pink dust!! Must be very hard with your dh doing 24 on 24 off shifts especially with 3 kids!!
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