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Hopper I think were married to the same bloke! Lol! I can't get him to commit to trying for a other and he always blames it on the sleepless nights! Yet tbh put boys are great sleepers! It was just the first few weeks that were hard and I done it all anyway! I bf'd so he didn't have to do any night feeds. Even when I expressed he conveniently forgot to bring the milk up or left ds2 till he was crying on which case it was too late for him to settle for a feed and it was down to be! So I've categorically told him that argument is bs abs won't wash with me! I understand the financial worry as I worry to buy hopefully with me studying our life will get better in the future!

Uh oh, I did a stupid thing. Dh took ds1 and 2 to judo and karate and I typed out this big long text because I tried to start a conversation about it and he kept changing the subject. It was all the things I wanted to say but never actually would. I had no intention of sending it I just had to get it out. Then ds4 knocked the phone out of my hand and as I grabbed it I pressed send! The one time I could have used the notoriously rubbish signal we have round here is the time it failed me and the text sent first try!
Bet I still won't get an answer from him.


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Oh no mobs!! I hope this at least brings it to the conversation for you and you can get a solid answer out of him, GL xx

ELP!!! How are you? I often think of you and wonder how you are getting on.


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Still didn't get an answer, i got "I just try to do my best to make you happy and look after you all" and I said I know he does and it's not him, it's me who has the problem because I just can't let it go and he said he loves me and sent me a bunch of kisses


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Oh mob, I'm sorry he didn't say what you needed him to say!! Perhaps getting emotional and letting it all out and asking him straight out if he will have another because you don't want to look back and have regrets further down the line is the way to go with him. There really is nothing as bad as wondering and longing and hoping - you need to know so you can either grieve and move forward or set a time frame and put it to the back of your mind until its time to sway.

I'm really tired lately too, DS2 only woke at 5.20am this morning. I gave him a bottle of milk and he slept another 2 hours thankfully!! I needed the sleep, hes been so unsettled lately with his teeth. I feel like a zombie most days!!

Funny that we were just talking about OBEM yesterday and then last night DH asked me if I planned on watching the episodes I've missed. I just gave him a look and said does he really want me to watch them with the way I'm feeling lately. He quickly dropped the subject. Hopefully I'll be able to watch them soon, I really used to love it!!

Getting my hair done today, it is so badly in need of a colour. I found my first gray hair about 2 weeks ago, I nearly DIED!! Of course I booked a trip to the salon asap but my colourist is very popular so today was the earliest he could see me. Good timing cause we have that wedding tomorrow!!!

I went to the monthly coffee morning I go to and the mum with the new baby girl was there. She hasn't been since before Christmas and then decides to come now of all times. Not that she shouldn't be free to come when she wants but all the talk of perfect families and people asking if it made me broody and want another etc etc I just said all newborns do that to people don't they? Especially when they are sleeping.
I was going to grow all the colour out of my hair last year then found a grey hair and thought Nope, where's the dye? Lol


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At last! I have an answer. He wants to wait till next summer because he likes the 3+ year gap but it is going to happen. That's all I wanted! I said I don't want to force him into something he didn't want to and he said he thought that we were doing it but waiting anyway. So why no answer before? Anyway at least I know now!


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At last! I have an answer. He wants to wait till next summer because he likes the 3+ year gap but it is going to happen. That's all I wanted! I said I don't want to force him into something he didn't want to and he said he thought that we were doing it but waiting anyway. So why no answer before? Anyway at least I know now!


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YAHOOOOOO!! Delighted for you MOB!! Thats a right weight been lifted :) Plenty of time to plan a really decent attempt!!

I'm so relieved. I know I wanted it to be this year but I guess it's only a year and hopefully we'll be able to move in that time so won't have to worry about that and can concentrate on a sway.


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