July 2ww and ttc thread 2018

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Originally Posted by HGmama

Guess who showed up? [emoji26] CD1 for me
Needing advice from those who asked for help from their doctor. Sorry for all the questions and word vomit that is about to happen. At what point do I ask for an appt? Insert eye roll from those TTC >6months. Big hugs to you. I'm sorry. There are a few factors that play into me wanting to get pregnant in the next two cycles. Our insurance year. It will cost thousands of dollars out of pocket for a third "year" in a row if I don't have a baby by June 30, 2019. I'm getting depressed. My doctor said that nearly all of her patients that try get pregnant within 3 months of a d&c, get pregnant. So I'm feeling like the odd ball- again. My cycles are a little unpredictable and seem to be getting shorter again. My LP was only 10 days and I've read that 10 days or less could be a progesterone issue. Am I unreasonable to even be worried at this point? My every thought, spare moment, food choice, etc for the past 7 months has been trying to have another baby.

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awww HG i'm so sorry *BIG HUGS*

i understand your need to get pregnant and it's soooo frustrating to go month after month with BFNs

i definitely think that you should make an appt to see your doc since your goal is to maximize your chances. I'd also advise you to talk to atomic...she really has a wealth of knowledge with all of these things and could help you tweak your diet/plan.

Praying for you girl

Thx u jgojah for prayer, im fine, and u? I had appointment and i saw small dot in ultrasound:) next appointment in 2 weeks it should be heartbeat:heart::pray:
I still cant believe im pregnant. I wish u join me soon:pray:

Hello shinay, no symptons yet, few days i was more hungry but now all is like before. With my son nausea started 5+2 weeks now im 4+4. I hope this time it will not be so strong nausea.

Sorry to hear so HG:( i will pray for u, im sure soon u will find bfp:luck:

Shinay i just told it to my mother and one my friend. I will tell others after first prenatal screening in 12 weeks.

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Originally Posted by Pbn3

So 3 weeks in the scheme of things isn't so bad so dont think all your hard work is undone! Sounds like you simply needed the break to regroup and refocus. First things first, ditch the cereal and breakfast all together if possible. That's an easy one to fix. Next, ease back into the exercising. Start off with 4 days this week, 5 days next week and you'll soon be in the swing of things again. You continued with lower calories so pat on the back! It's all too easy to binge eat after a long time dieting... Use these next couple weeks to strentghen your sway coming into your attempts. You can do this HDP!!! Shrug off the last 3 weeks, put it behind you and concentrate on looking forward now to attempt time!

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Thank you so much. That helps

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Originally Posted by HGmama

Guess who showed up? [emoji26] CD1 for me
Needing advice from those who asked for help from their doctor. Sorry for all the questions and word vomit that is about to happen. At what point do I ask for an appt? Insert eye roll from those TTC >6months. Big hugs to you. I'm sorry. There are a few factors that play into me wanting to get pregnant in the next two cycles. Our insurance year. It will cost thousands of dollars out of pocket for a third "year" in a row if I don't have a baby by June 30, 2019. I'm getting depressed. My doctor said that nearly all of her patients that try get pregnant within 3 months of a d&c, get pregnant. So I'm feeling like the odd ball- again. My cycles are a little unpredictable and seem to be getting shorter again. My LP was only 10 days and I've read that 10 days or less could be a progesterone issue. Am I unreasonable to even be worried at this point? My every thought, spare moment, food choice, etc for the past 7 months has been trying to have another baby.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com

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Sorry hgmama. I really thought this could be your month. If I were you, and it was consuming me, I would be seeing my doctor now to put my mind to ease.. But a word of caution - you have to be honest with your doctor about your swaying plan. Swaying pink does somewhat lower fertility and make it longer to get pregnant. And your doctor may just well ask you to shelf all that and BD every other day through O to improve your odds. I doubt a doctor will have the time and patience to believe that swaying can work! And their measure of success is you having a baby, not a girl baby.
So that's just my two cents!
You did get pregnant in the past, so you know you can. Maybe it's just taking longer.

Why don't you go easy on the diet, include high nutrients back in, eat some eggs and BD more frequently? You know just maximize your chances of pregnancy overall! I don't know how hard you are swaying. Maybe you just need to ease up. GL!

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Originally Posted by Pbn3

Oh and I stopped telling my family after 2nd mc and lucky because I had yet another loss before my sticky bean.. but then again by that stage I wanted my family to know.. in some twisted way the fact they knew I lost my pregnancies gave a voice to them and made them matter?? Acknowledged they were wanted and loved. It's hard to explain but I wanted my losses to be known in the end to my family and friends as I didn’t want them to be hushed under the table so to speak [emoji853] By giving them a voice they became a part of my family history and not just a bad personal memory... gah I'm terrible at explaining this [emoji17] I told my mum and one of my sister's about loss no3. Not sure if any of my other family knew or not. I wanted to scream in everyones face what I was going through but as expected bottled it up and dealt with it on my own and with help from ladies on this website [emoji173]

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Pbn3,

It's funny how you want people to know and understand, but you also don't want the pity/sympathy/(maybe)judgment?
I told my parents after I had my first mc, I told my mom during the second, and when I got pg with DS I told everyone (family) right away because I wanted them to know how loved this baby was even if we were going to lose him (which thankfully we didn't!). For my 3rd mc after I had DS I told my mom but this time she told people that I did not want knowing about the preg OR the mc so that really hurt me as it was intended to be confidential.

At any rate, mc stays with you, and it stays with you, and it stays with you. You want other people to have empathy toward the absolute anguish that you're in, but a lot of the time it just seems like they don't understand or can't relate to what you're going through - unless they've been there. At some level, I know those pregnancies would have never progressed and resulted in a baby, but they still mean something to me, and I think they always will.

I'm now pg again (4w6d) and we are not telling a soul until 8 weeks (for family) and 12 weeks for everyone else. But who knows - I am terrible at keeping secrets so it could slip sooner lol

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Originally Posted by Pbn3

Raining what's your gut feeling? 5dpo or 7dpo? I'm leaning towards 5dpo personally. It wont really matter in the end I guess but it's so much nicer to have a definate rather than two possibilities [emoji57] When it comes to testing just remember you could be 2 days either way...

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I really am not sure! Today temp stayed the same as yesterday. 8DPO now, maybe 6? Also TMI but cm was creamy/yellow a few days ago and now the last two days nada. I’m having cramping this morning. Not looking good. We are leaving to go camping today until Monday so I won’t be able to keep temping. I hope AF doesn’t show :pray:

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Originally Posted by Pbn3

Wow I totally went way off track there and I apologise!!! Too tired and too many wines [emoji12] Personally I'd wait until after your dating scan to tell family? Alot lime to wait until after the 12w scan as the chance of mc has dropped dramatically by then but it's up to you in the end [emoji4]

Will you fill out a ttc boy sway form?! I'll read it for sure if you do!!!! All my blue dust dear lady [emoji9][emoji170]

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Dont apologize. I cant imagine the pain and how heartbroken you and some other ladies have gone through. They are a part of you and they will always be there in your heart. I wish no women shall have to go through that, but it happens more often than I would think. I kinda want to tell family, but I am afraid, like you said, if something happens, I dont want our family to be so sad and disappointed. It will be first grandchild for both my and DH family.
12 weeks is a long time and I do want to tell our family slightly earlier than that. I will try to call doctor and see when I can come in. It most likely wont be till 8 weeks. DH thinks we should tell around 5-6 weeks.

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