Thorz i'm no expert but to me your friends pic looks alot more bulky and sticky out where as yours looks really flat and more girl like, your friends looks like it could be the back of a pair of testicals, hope that makes sense. I'm sure shes your little girl with all the shots you got :)
Wanting that cake is amazing, i bet your so proud of it and i bet the little girl loved it. I'd love a cake like that and i'm 24.
Stared potty training DS2 today so i'm expecting lots of puddles around. Really hope hes easier to train than DS1 was.