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Uhm I heard of someone had done ivf to get one girl. She put back one and it's split so she got pregnant with 2 of the desired gender. She did an abortion because she didn't want 2. At the moment she is doing a fet......unbelievable huh!?! I would do a murder to geT pregnant of the desired gender (I have to wait 2 weeks to know the gender of my ivf/pgd baby).
She aborted because she didn't want 2??? How awful! Everyone is different I guess...
It's really crazy isn't it? I can't understand that.....when I heard it I was so sad and I wanted to trade with her I wish I had twins girl/girl (or even better girl/boy). In this pregnancy I lost one, I don't hope it was a girl (not that I dont mind if it is a boy) but I will never know......
It really is hard to comprehend...I just can't imagine why you would go to such lengths to conceive, all that time and all that MONEY...and decide you don't want 2! I bet she didn't tell a lot of people about her decision!
I think there may be religious and cultural issues at play that we probably can't understand or comprehend.Quote:
Originally Posted by Possible pink?
This doesn't sound like a troll to me but rather someone who is just a bit mixed up.
Selective reduction is a complicated issue due to the much higher risk of health issues with multiples. It's not a decision I would personally make either, but it is a fact that pregnancy outcomes are better with one than two. Particularly in the case of identicals (a baby that split would be identical twins) where there can be things like TTTS that have every possibility of causing the death of both babies if SR is not done.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Anchor
Atomic it was not for health issues at all!! She just didn't want 2 kids. There was no selective reduction! It was an abortion of 2 baby's.
I cannot imagine not wanting identical twin girls... for many of us it would be our wildest dream come true!!! How sad.
Ukini- any updates? Are you feeling better?
That's terrible :(Quote:
Originally Posted by lisvna