Good luck!
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Good luck!
Maybe I shouldnt ask this, but Im too damn curious, any particular reason you dont want to try and sway for a girl? You dont have to answer if you dont want to, just thought I'd throw in the question anyway.
Dont think you need Good Luck, you've been doing just fine in the past.
Pass over a little of your boy magic to me please.
I've been meaning to ask this too, what changed your mind from swaying girl to boy? (were'nt you trying for pink a few years back?)
Good luck, really hope you get your boy!
I did want a girl for DS 3 and again for DS 4 and swayed with DS 4 but got an opposite. The thing of it is, at this point another boy would just fit into our family better. I have a 13 year age gap between DS 1 and 2 and DS 3 and 4 so it made some sense to start over again with girls (I did always want at least ONE daughter) but now I have boy clothes, boy toys, boy crib, etc. Plus, it will NEVER be the way I had dreamed it, with my two big boys and my one little princess (maybe two) so that dream is dead anyway and I just fear that a little girl would get lost in the shuffle while a little boy would fit right in.
I've done SO much work to get over my GD and though I will always have that desire in my heart, I do think that the family would be best served by another boy (that is, if my husband would ever agree, and the odds of that get slimmer by the day) and I am 99.99% at peace as a boy mom, I feel like I know what I"m doing here and who even knows if I would be good at raising a girl at this point. Don't mess with success, ya know??
Thanks heaps for replying! Curiosity is now gone!
Well said :kiss:
Atomic, you are so lucky to have so many wonderful boys. :)
Thanks Atomic, it is good to know that your gd can be overcome and dreams can change. I'm going to try to be more flexible with my thinking!
You have lovely boys, you must be very proud, well done!
You are an inspiration Atomic :)
Can I ask.... how much GD did you have after your opposite sways, and what has helped you get through that? Closer I am to attempt the more I am yearning for a boy =(
What if I do not get to have this little boy I keep dreaming of, am I setting myself up for heartbreak?