So scared to know.. Is ignorance bliss?

Thanks flowergirl, I'll accept your blue dust! You're going to love having a daughter. I'm so happy for you!

I keep thinking about this post as I get closer to being able to do a gender scan, apparently I could get one as early as next week and I'm feeling SO NERVOUS about it this time. The stakes feel so high, I feel like if I don't get a girl not only will I be dealing with my disappointment, but my whole family's, and I can't help but feel like my family will not be as excited if I find out we're having another boy. Like they won't want to make the effort to come meet him, or look forward to his birth. As of one, ignorance is kind of bliss but I also desperately want to know so I can get it over with!

I feel and hear you arimethia!! I am deciding what I want to do as well!! Team green, find out and not tell anyone or find out and be really really happy or find out and have the usual horrible comments....soooo tough Xx
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I think we're going to find out and keep it a secret. We'll either say we know and not tell to drive everyone crazy or just say we don't know and have the same effect. Lol, it has the same effect as not finding out but I will have some time to deal with my GD before the birth.

I think that's a really good idea arimethia one im leaning towards as well! How many weeks are you? Xx
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I'm 14 weeks, so I think I'll go for a scan in two to three weeks!

What a good idea Arimethia!


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