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Tarasue, my heart brakes! All my love to you dear 😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I am so sorry you have to go through this. I hope this goes by quickly for you. I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.


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I"m so sorry Tara. Please let me know how I can help.

So sorry to hear this tarasue! Sending strength and healing your way.

Thanks girls. Trying to think positive and hope I get another chance a baby number three in a month or so.

Do I consider Friday, when I had my dnc, cycle day 1? My cycle was so off the month I got pregnant, I don't think I ovulated until cd 34. Because it took my body so long to release the egg, could that have caused issues enough to miscarry? I want to give myself 1 full cycle before ttc again. Well, I don't really want to wait, but think I need to let my uterus lining/cervix ect. healing time. Because as much as I don't want to wait a full cycle, I don't want to loose another pregnancy again.

Tarasue - again I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm not 100% sure if Cd1 is the day you took cervadil or day of Dnc. Just popping in to say I think you are extremely wise for waiting a cycle after a Dnc to let your body heal. I don't think ovulating on cd34 caused your Mc. Good luck to you and I hope to see a BFP for you in jan/Feb.

Thanks bluebonnet. I hope we get another healthy/sticky Bfp in jan/feb. I don't know if I will ttc March, just because I don't necessarily want another December baby. At that point I don't even know if baby number 3 is in the cards for us. I am feeling in getting to old, 36 now, kids in my 3 yr olds preschool already ask me "whose grandma are you"? Really!?! I didn't need that comment last week.....

I was so glad to be done with the le diet too! I put on 7 lbs in the month I was pregnant, so I need to crack down a bit, hard to do this time of year. I am starting to increase my folic acid again. I will continue my pre-natal though.

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We had this amazing full double rainbow yesterday afternoon!!! I just broke down in targets parking lot when I saw it. What a magnificent sign of new beginnings from God! I really needed that, gives me so much hope for a rainbow baby:).

Tarasue- you have such an amazing spirit! What a beautiful sight that must have been! I believe it was God's way of honoring the rainbow baby you lost, and a message for you that your rainbow baby is on the way! Please don't give up hope!

XX😘❤️❤️❤️


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You really have to play it by ear and not start worrying about what cycle day you're on. THat's not how it works after a loss. Your body will wait till it's ready to ovulate whether that's in 14 days or 140 days.

Please don't start looking for reasons why. 99 times out of 100, there was something wrong with egg or sperm or something just randomly happened during the early stages of cell division that just meant the pregnancy wasn't going to work out. It is hardly EVER something you did or didn't do, and most of the time it's moms doing drugs, drinking, smoking.

Ovulating on CD 34 is NOT LATE ovulation. It really isn't. The idea that long cycles might be more likely to end in miscarriage is totally unproven (because people who have really long cycles are also more likely to have miscarriages because they have other health issues anyway) and it's in much longer cycles as in people who take 3-6-9-12 months to ovulate. 34 days is barely beyond totaly normal range!!