Jen,
Hahah yeah I feel the same way about DS2...if our girl looked like him, well....she woudn't be exactly very girly looking! It's funny how our two sons are similiar as one is a pretty boy and the other one is more manly looking.
YES!!! It was me who had the problems with Rephresh. It really tore me up down there. My VJ is traumatized!! It's been over a week now, but it still feels "off" to me and my DH and I had sex last night (really didn't want to, since I'm still in this blasted 2WW) and he even noticed how dry I was. He was kind of frustrated and was like "what am I doing wrong?" What he was doing wrong was by bothering me! Well, anyway, I managed to muster up enough to finish having sex, and then it got all irrirated down there again. I really wonder why I had such a bad reaction to the represh, and why now, even after a week of it being over, I'm still not myself.
Like I said before, it made my area very red and dry, and I never detected any EWCM while using it, but I'm sure of course there was still somewhere up there.
My only concern now is whether I want to bother with it again in Dec if I get a BFN. Not sure if I want to re-traumatize myself!
Lemon, sorry to hear about the BFN! I still say it ain't over till AF shows!