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Oh yogi that stinks I'm so sorry. 😞
QueenB I wish I could say the same about the MS. It's all day everyday for me, no vomiting just a general feeling of queasiness all the time. I said to my husband it's very similar to the nausea you get with a hangover.
All thoughts of having a super healthy pregnancy have gone out the window - I can't bring myself to do any exercise & the only thing that makes me feel a bit better is junk food. 😖
Primal I felt exactly the same. Queasy all the time, but no vomiting. I craved carbs and junk food and needed to eat every 2 hours to help with the nausea. Once I'd eat I'd get a break from feeling queasy for a bit but I'd feel so bloated and gassy. I am finally starting to feel better this week I am 13 weeks pregnant. Hoping to start eating healthier and exercising now that I am in the second trimester. I just couldn't face it in the first 3 months.
So sorry yogi:( hoping you will be back here soon!! Xxx
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Major vent alert!!!!
My mum told my sister I was pregnant who then posted on my timeline " just talked to mum CONGRATULATIONS" I had been off Facebook for twenty hours or so saw the post thought it was a pm and replied "thanks honey I'm crazy" immediately had two comments managed to delete post but it was up for 10mins or so was soooo cross with everyone myself included.
She also posted on my sil timeline
Pretty much saying am I last to know? They had a BIG convo about me and pregnancy when I have eight mutual friends including my MIL who DOES not know. I could kill Facebook right now!!
Okay rant over I just want to tell people in my own time, have work colleagues and mummy friends on Facebook who I want to tell when I'm ready and especially when we have cleared 12 week scan and blood tests grrrrr!! Xx
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Ih no!!! It's not Facebooks fault tho it's silly indiscreet people!! How long was it up before it got deleted? Hopefully not too many people saw?
A similar thing happened to me on my birthday, my father in law posted a happy birthday and good luck with the pregnancy type message. It was only up for an hour before I spotted and deleted it. I was so mad I sent a message to him saying thanks for the message but I didn't appreciate him announcing my pregnancy on Facebook. His excuse was he thought it was common knowledge. I'm sure it was just a mistake but I had been saying all along to people we had told early not to post in Facebook. Anyway.......only one person contacted me about it.
Thanks hon! 20 hours for my sisters message and the sil chi chat and 10mins for my reply!
I'm feeling better about it all now probably over reacted but its hard when its important to you! Xx
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Oh I can relate. One of the reasons I deleted my FB account over a year ago now & haven't looked back.
Today I actually felt NOT SICK for the majority of the day. I am so grateful. Hopefully the nausea is passing. It was SO nice to feel sick, just wanted to acknowledge it!
I have 24hr nausea too, it's worse in the evenings. Also have the most disgusting taste in my mouth which again gets worse as the day goes on. Only thing that helps is eating but I can't keep doing that, I'll be huge!!
I feel you on the nasty taste! The thing I found to help is to just keep a huge bottle of mint gum on my desk and to chew it as much as possible. Hope it gets better for you soon! Mine eventually went away.
Kitkat I am sorry about your FB craziness:-/ I definitely have a love/hate relationship with FB (mostly hate). DH and I are not planning on telling a soul that I am pg until we know the gender.
I had a slightly annoying weekend. Mostly because of my desire for a daughter I guess. At ds1 flag football my sil came with her dd she just had a few weeks ago. Everyone went ooh and aah over her, which is fine because of course so did I. But then someone made a comment how there is just something about little girls, how they are so sweet and they just want to hold them all the time. I wanted to say, I am pretty sure the only difference is in the diaper and one wears pink and the other wears blue!!! Grrrrr! I swear some people just don't think before they speak!
Also after this baby girl was born there was a post made on FB about how my one niece was so excited to FINILLY have another GIRL cousin. Probably just rubbed me the wrong way because I am the one with all the boys and they got pp's
I just get protective of my boys feelings I guess, I would be so upset if they felt less important to some of my family because they are boys not girls.
QueenB, I feel you, but completely the opposite! For whatever reason, all my brothers and their wives only want to have boys and say that if they get a girl, they'll give her to us. How horrible! I hate that they think my daughter is less desirable, and I pray that they stop saying such things because I have a feeling someone will end up with a daughter and she will be the apple of their eye. I'd hate for her to find out they only wanted boys and said they would give her up. Obviously I know they wouldn't and are mostly joking, but it's still annoying to me since we swayed for our daughter and very much wanted her because little girls are amazing!! Little boys are fabulous too, don't get me wrong, we swayed for our boy as well, but I just hate how people can be so insensitive. They said that to me when we were swaying for our daughter and still do now that she's here. And since they don't live in town, they don't get to see just how incredible she is. One day, I hope they'll get it.
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I hate to hearing about negative comment towards any gender. I am sorry your family makes you feel that way. :( My friends brother and wife make comment all the time about preferring boys. I guess they are really rude about it, when they were pg with their last they went team green but actually said, "it better not be another f***ing girl!"!!! Unbelievable. Not only do they have a daughter, but they lost a little girl right before her!! My friend was pretty upset when she told me, she has 4 sons herself(one due in November).
Wow, that's so sad! I feel for their little girls!! I do believe that my brothers and their wives are all good people and if they did end up with a daughter, they would totally adore her and regret what they've said in the past, but it's still just so ignorant to me. Plus, my daughter freaking rocks, and sometimes I just wish they knew her better so they could see how incredible daughters are. And still, even if someone does feel that way, to me, it's pretty stupid to actually voice that out loud!!
My inlaws are like this & they're not even together anymore. Both of them are pro boy & talk about not wanting a granddaughter. They had 4 sons. I think for my FIL it's more about being uncomfortable with women & feeling like he doesn't know how to relate to them. And for my MIL I know 100% that it is actually to cover up that she always wanted a daughter herself & would be ferociously jealous if we got one. My mother, on the other hand, is desperate for a granddaughter which annoys me just as much. I haven't told her I attempted a sway (albeit a very half-hearted attempt) because I don't want the pressure or the sympathy when our scan shows a boy.
Non-diagnositc gender scan moved forward to tomorrow!!!! OMG!!! Don't know if I want to know now or if I'm excited or petrified!! Arrggghhh!! Lol! :nails:
There is still a very nervous part of me that is concerned they will find no heartbeat due to my lack of symptoms and still no movement (very unlike my previous twin pregnancy. I was even going to cancel but I voiced my concerns to the lady doing the scan (told her I would feel so bad for her if something wasn't right as it is a non medical scan) but she was amazing and said she would rather do it and let me find out and she is 100% fine with having to be the one to find out if something is wrong. She sounds amazing!
Ill be alone though as DH is going to have to take the other kids out (she comes to our house) as we still haven't told a soul, including them and we tried to off load them but noone will have them and their friends are away so they can't even have a sleep over. Its a bugger cause DH missed my one and only other scan too.
In 25 hours though I will know if at least one of these babies is a successful pink sway and if Im going to have a daughter or if my dream will be put to an end for good!! OMG!!!
Good luck tomorrow mum!!! I will be thinking of you, im just sure you have at least one little lady in there I will be stalking this thread ! Xxx,
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thanks kitkat. :)
Mum of six! How exciting! Hoping everything is just fine and that there is a little lady for you in there!
About gender comments. Ppl are so rude and insensitive. But i think mostly their just dumb.
I think most ppl tal kout of there own preference or jalousy. And they hurt others by that! It's just dumb. Don't think most ment it that way but i could smack them for it anyways!
Now i'm finaly Getting my girl. The only different thing i feel is that the gender disapointment disapeared. But i feel the same About her asmy sons! They are just perfect!
Ooh MumofSix how exciting! I'll be stalking too!!!! Good luck. Xoxox
Fingers crossed for healthy babies Mum! You will be so blessed either way! Can't wait to hear!
Good Luck Mumofsix!!
Mum of six I'm sooooooo excited for you!!
I'm freaking out over every little thing, what I eat, drink or do. I'm googling every food or ingredient before eating. Saw some tiny eyelash size pink streaks when I went to the toilet this morning. Midwife said not to worry because it's probably just hormonal; but after a loss how can you not worry??
Good luck mumofsix...I m sure.you have at least 1 pink bundle in there if not 2...lots of love
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I am stalking for some pink news! Im guessing boy and girl for you mum! Good luck!
Good luck mum!!! I hope u hear pink!
Good luck.x
I can't believe some of the things people have said to you guys!! I guess I'll count myself lucky that most of the gender-related comments I have gotten are out of ignorance (like the true definition) and not malice. I was lucky that everyone was equally happy with our sons as our daughter. My MIL did say it would be "a shame" if our third child was a boy. I nearly punched her through a wall for that one. But she is ape shit crazy, so it really doesn't matter to me what she thinks. She told her sons almost every day that she wanted a girl and not two boys. Thankfully they turned out pretty darn well for being treated so poorly. But I made it abundantly clear that she was never once to mention my sons as meaning less or being less than my daughter. And as it turns out, she is just as crappy of a grandmother to my daughter as she is to my sons. At least it's fair (and my mom is darn awesome, so it makes up for it).
But good luck MUM!! I betcha at least one of those beans is your pinkie! I am also guessing boy/girl. It's always been my desired combo if I had twins :)
I am so happy that I am finally feeling better now!! Only took 16 weeks. Lol. My nausea is decreasing and my tiredness is ebbing some. Although, this is way gross, but I've started to had awful night sweats. Like, so bad I have to wake up and take off my soaked clothing and change. It's incredibly gross. I've never had them before, so it's all new. And kinda annoying. Anyone had this before?
Good luck mum!!! Thinking of you xx
Stalking....
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Hotdogz I had night sweats once or twice with DS2, I can't remember if it was late in pregnancy or in the post partum period. I took a mental health day from work today & it has been soooooo nice. I have basically laid in bed most of the day & read a book. OMG. It has been AMAZING.
oooh just catching up! GOOD LUCK MUM!! praying for you and everything crossed!!
cant believe some of the gender comments either. I think (hope) a lot of it is people are just stupid and dont realise what they are saying. I am feeling the pressure because people are all saying oh I bet you want a girl dont you etc etc. Hence I am staying team green as far as the world is concerned.
Good luck mum!!!!
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I know, its so hard after a loss. And i think its "easier" to expect the worst so its not so hard to deal with if something does happen. :(
ok, so just had the scan and they are perfectly healthy and kicking away, and…..
Twin A is a Boy and Twin B is a………GIRL!!!! OMG!!!!! :running:
Congrats boy girl twin!!! How lovely!
Enjoy!
😱😱😱😱👏👏👏👏
Wowowowowowowow!!!!!!!Congratulations MumofSix!
👑🎀💋🌸🌺💐🌹💝
Awwww! So sweet.boy and girl.bet your over the moon.congrats xxx
You know that's how I'm looking at gender. Not that having another boy would be "worse" but let's just say "less desirable". I am fixing my head to BLUE so that I'm less disappointed when I hear it.Quote:
Originally Posted by MumofSix_TTCPink
O.M.G!!!!!!!! Sooooo happy for you mumof (8!!!). Got goosebumps and felt a bit emotional reading your AMAZING news. So freaking happy for you 💖 Huge congratulations xxxxxxx