Boo! That is such a horrible and sad feeling. I'm sorry you have to deal with it. There are so many things about ttc that are just not fair. [emoji17]Quote:
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Boo! That is such a horrible and sad feeling. I'm sorry you have to deal with it. There are so many things about ttc that are just not fair. [emoji17]Quote:
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If doing SMEP than I'd consider it positive and get to it lol ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Quinn31
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That is super close Quinn! Hope this is it for you!!
Big hugs momamia:(
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Soooo first month charting... I seriously never ever wake up at the same time, obviously... And I'm not too good at the whole don't move, take temp etc thing lol I'm trying. http://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/08...0abfad1667.jpg
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CD 1, month three for us! Good news, I had a 27 day cycle! My cycles have regulated so much since having DS2! He was conceived on a 41 LONG cycle! I have started my raspberry leaf tea (I used with DS2). We will probably use preseed this month too. I am so impatient.lol I am going to make sure DH has at least 4 days without releasing before our first attempt at positive OPK!
Thanks!! I'm going to. I may test later just to see but as you know, I like to drink and pee a lot!!Quote:
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Looks pretty normal to me :) it takes awhile to get in the habit. You'all get used to it if you have to do more than 1 cycle. FXQuote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
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What helps me is that my basal has a build in alarm. So if I am still sleeping, it wakes me up, I take my temperature (sometimes it falls out of my mouth if I fall back to sleep too soon;)) and then go back to sleep sometimes!Quote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
Sorry about AF. Hope we all get BFPs this month!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Boysboys
I'm sorry :( I had horrible nausea the day before I started bleeding and hated that I felt pregnant when the darn HCG test had already turned negative. It sucks.Quote:
Originally Posted by momamia4
I would agree. I've never limited liquids and have never had a problem with opks. I usually test twice a day-- around 2pm and before bed (midnight).Quote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
I always test with opks twice a day-- in the afternoon and again before bed (midnight), so I'd go ahead and just test again tonight. If you're swaying for a boy though then you're fine to start BD tonight and the next three days. I think it's only with a girl sway that we try to be most accurate since there's only one attempt and too early is not good. Good luck!Quote:
Originally Posted by Quinn31
It seems to me that there are soooo many of us trying to conceive our rainbow BFPs this month. I am so glad we are all here to support each other! You ladies mean so much to me!
I think your chart looks great Lauren! I've been charting off and on for 11 years (I have 68 charts to look back on) and even waking up an hour earlier or later doesn't really seem to affect my temps too much. Sometimes I even get up and walk to the bathroom to temp and that's never affected anything either. Maybe running around the house for an hour would, but not for a few minutes. During the week I take my temp the same time around 7am every day because I have to get up to get the kids ready for school, but on the weekends sometimes I sleep through my alarm and don't temp till 9:30 or so. They are always in the correct range for pre-O or post-O temps, even if they are a little higher or lower. Once you get a few cycles of charting in you'll see how lax you can be in your temping. I've never tried not to move, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
Well, I cancelled my d&c. I am just going to wait it out and see what happens. I was freaking out about it too much. I have an appointment with my OB on Sept 14th and she'll do an ultrasound. I'll see if anything has changed and go from there. Thank all of you for your support!! This has been such a difficult thing.
Praying for a sticky 🎀 bean!
For those who have had a chemical pregnancy in the past, when did you ovulate? I got a positive opk today (four days sooner than I usually do). I'm temping as well so I'll see if I actually do ovulate, but wouldn't I get a + opk later rather than earlier? We BD every 4 days and today is actually the next BD day so that kind of works out well, but I'm still thinking it might just be a false surge before the real thing? I don't know...I've never gotten a + opk this early...
[QUOTE=Quinn31;752009]Hey ladies does this look positive for an opk? Sorry if it's blurry. http://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/08...95ab161ae8.jpg
Almost positive! I'll bet it'll be darker tomorrow.
JMO but I think you are making the right decision. If you didn't feel right about it then it is best to wait.Quote:
Originally Posted by momamia4
You need to do what you feel is right Momamia. Hugs and best wishes to you.
I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through at the minute momamia, big hugs to you :hugs: FWIW I think you are doing the right thing, if it doesn't sit right for you then its better to wait. Xxx
Thanks you guys! It really does help to get feedback like that. :D
I would do the same thing momamia.
Sorry but I have another opk question. I just took another test and its lighter but I'm wondering if that means my urine is more diluted or its already on the way down. Another question, I read that the cervix dilated during ovulation and I'm feeling that, a lot of pain down there but not typical O cramps. Does that mean I'm ovulating right now? Has anyone experienced this?
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Momamia- like everyone else said you can't go wrong following your gut. Big hugs for the long days ahead waiting for us. I am 9dpo, I have only been having a 10 day lp so we'll see if af shows up in 2 days.
Big hugs momamia4 [emoji17]
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Good luck!!Quote:
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:fingers: GL! :fingers:Quote:
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(((HUGS))) You are so strong. I hope you know that. You can do this and I'll be praying that things turn around for your bean. (((HUGS)))Quote:
Originally Posted by momamia4
Quinn- I always take my opks with second morning urine because they are always lighter later on. As for your cervix, it will go up higher, soften and open up to 5 days before you ovulate. Usually on the day you O it will close. So if it is open you have not ovulated yet, but you are going to. My cervix opens three days before I ovulate then is very tightly closed the day that FF says I ovulate.
Yes, there are quite a few of us unfortunately :( It's kinda sad. Nice to have like-positioned people for support but very sad that so many beans said goodbye :( Hopefully, we can all get our BFPs this month. Sticky BFP dust all around!Quote:
Originally Posted by mommymachine
I can't really weigh in here. My CP was a blip on the radar. It only delayed AF a couple days. I O'd early the following cycle but there were extenuating circumstances involved so I doubt it had much to do with the CP. Just wanted to say good luck. Hope you get your sticky rainbow baby!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kitty0911
It's possible (all of the above) but honestly the only definitive answer to any of it is a temp shift. Do you chart?Quote:
Originally Posted by Quinn31
I don't. I feel like it would make me crazy. Especially because I don't get up at the same time everyday.Quote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
I had never heard of the cervix dilating but when I looked online I read a few people experiences it. It's really uncomfortable, kind of like my first postpartum afs. I guess I know O is right around the corner or already here. Good thing we dtd last night!
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Your cervix dilates every cycle.... actually twice every cycle. Once for O to let sperm in and once for AF to let all that out. I get random cervical pain from time to time (did this morning in fact). Sometimes it's around O time but not always. Either way, good luck!Quote:
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Have been busy busy these past few days.
Pbn-im still currently spotting. Cd7 today looks like it might be here for a few more days too what a weird cycle it has been
Momamia- best of luck xxx its such a hard thing to be going through 🙏
Best of luck for those waiting to O. Hoping mine is next week.
Who is in the TWW?
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Hi NettiQuote:
Originally Posted by netti02
Still waiting to O here, currently CD20 and counting lol seems to be dragging sooo much!
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I'm cd10 on second day of flashing smiley and hoping for solid one tomorrow or Thursday :)
Mammacass- when do u normally ovulate?
Pbn- fingers X
Spotting has finally gone but geez i feel moody very pms'y lol. About to have a relaxing bath see if that helps.
Does anyone know if tea sways a particular way? Ive been trying to cut down snacking even on night shift and i find tea helps. I just take it with milk.
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To be honest Netti I'm not really sure what my usual is... The last 2 months off the pill have been CD 30. I have been a long term user of OCP, have always conceived quickly and only started charting before DS3 so I don't have a lot of information to go on :)
As for the tea, I did read a thread earlier, I have attempted to quote from but let's see if it works:
http://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/...t.php?p=751881
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Yay! Good luck with your attempt Pbn3Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
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I hope tea doesn't sway. I know caffeine in high quantities can sway girl though. But if tea itself sways anything but pink I am in trouble lol. Water is ok but I get so sick of it. I drink water all day at school because it's easy to refill my water bottle but at home I drink tea... or if it's super hot I drink lemonade.Quote:
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