Oh you are lucky I was sick for 20 weeks with DD4 day and night.yuck...
I already look way pregnant so you are lucky lol!
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Oh you are lucky I was sick for 20 weeks with DD4 day and night.yuck...
I already look way pregnant so you are lucky lol!
Crazy Scary Dream last night... Hot Flash Hell right now... Horrible Cramps... Feeling Sick... O big time!
:fx: :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray: that this is it :crawl: :crawl:
Sassy, congrats on the BFP!!! Sorry I haven't been around the last couple of days - too busy!!!
I tested again yesterday and BFN again. Was a bit gutted to be honest, it is so hard to see BFNs all the time... Was due Af today as always get it 12 days after my smiley face (11DPO) but today has been and gone and no AF..... so either I O later than I thought, or my LP has extended (unlikely!)
Will test in the morning with FMU if AF doesn't show up first.
Good luck to all testing. x
Maybeoneday- sorry for bfn, they totally suck. Hope you get good news tomorrow!
welcome Anissa :HH:
afm, sure I felt some jabbing pain down there, could imagine it was implantation but it is way too early for that isn't it?
Good luck Flava, rooting for you hun.
Thank you for the welcome love! :)
So TWW can brutal so I decided to post a little joke below to lighten up our stress.
I couldnt find the words to explain to DH how we would benefit more from an instead cup versus his 'ever so strong' shooting! But today I found a line of text that explains my rational and so I emailed him this:
I can never remember what I read with all this education, but I found what I was trying to convey to you:
Instead Cup or Diva Cup The cup helps hold the sperm closer to the cervix so they don’t have to swim so far and are less exposed to harsh vaginal environment. It also prevents sperm from leaking out or staying lower in the vagina.
DH's email response back to me was:
The vagina is harsh!! Lol.
I thought it was so funny, actually giggled out loud....Hope you do too, keep testing, it feels like a great month to be pregnant, love this great weather!
hi annissahope
sweetsister and maybe, sorry for the bfnīs :( Iīm not used to getting bfn like I do now swaying, felt pregnant first months with my boys so I can never get used to seeing just one line, I keep staring at those tests and trying them under every window in my house, this morning I even tried with a torch :/ FX :noaf: for you!
Thanks Sassy, now FF put my crosshairs back on because.... AF arrived this evening :mad:
pinkin no I only mentioned the FRER to suggest to take one if you hadnīt already , donīt worry 10 dpo is early! Really hope for you the line becomes darker soon.
Good luck today pinkin2011!
I am out ladies and also I am not swaying any longer. I am believe in my heart that the swaying has effected my ability to conceive. I am on clomid and I can't waste any more time as I am very worried this is not gonna happen for me.
I wish you ALL BFPs!!!! :) :)
Rachel :)
Sorry you're out, Rachel - but I think you're making a wise move to stop swaying. Clomid sways pink anyway, so you have a high chance of getting your girl :HH:.
Thank you so much Mocha!! I really appreciate it so much! Tomorrow I am going to call my OB, maybe a RE for another opinion and make my first ever acupuncture appointment. I have decided that I just want another baby to love regardless of the gender... although a girl would be a bonus!! lol :)
Thank you again!!
Best of luck Happyheart! Maybe just being more relaxed and not stressing about the sway and the clomid will bring you your girl, in any case I hope you have a BFP soon!!
Happyheart i think that too,if i dont conceive this cycle i will rethink swaying too ,i dont have time on my side...your clomid will help with a girl anyways,,,ive also heard so many girl stories after 3x boys lately,dont worry xxx lots of luck to you xxxx
Hi ladies, best of luck happy heart, i totally think you are making the right decision. Keep us posted when you do get your BFP!
I am out this month as predicted. AF came this morning so CD1 for me! I will be back in a couple of weeks.... GL to all those testing xx
Thank you all so much for the support!!! I really appreciate it! It stinks to have to put all my hard work of swaying behind me... but I do think that I needed to go through it all because my GD has now changed. :)
So sorry maybesomeday that AF arrived!
GL to all!!! :) :)
Have a great day everyone!
I'm sorry for all the BFNs xxx
Maybeoneday so sorry about Af ,your lutuel phase is very short 11 days!! they say that short of a lutuel phase doesnt give enough time to implant making it difficult to get pregnant ,they say vitamin b6 not more than 100mg,as it can be dangerous will help lengthen it?you need more progestrone,you probably already know this ,i just thought just incase you didnt?I hope you get your girl next month xxoo
Sorry about the Bfn's, hpoefully we get at least one more to wrap up this month! Good luck to all those attempting soon!
I've gotten pregnant with a 10 and 11 day LP:) My gf got pregnant with a 9 day LP:) It can happen! B6 can help though. I took 50mg twice a day and it lengthened it last time I was TTC. Good luck to you all! Loads of baby dust coming your way~~~~Quote:
Originally Posted by sweetsister
Hi sweetsister, thanks for the advice. I did know about the B6, but I suspect I have always had a short LP as have never really had a cycle longer than 26 days but conceived my DS1 on honeymoon (wasn't even TTC, just stopped being careful!) and DS2, the first month of TTC so I think I will give it a couple more months as I am then if still TTC, may start with the B6.
GL to all testing and see you all in a couple of weeks! xx
I just hope we all get lucky and get a bfp with our gender we hope for!
Hi Everyone, I havent been able to get online. I have been getting bfn's I am 12dpo today and af is due sunday so i think i am out. I really thought I was pregnant I am so upset about it because with our ds i fell in first month and to be honoust we have been trying for a while now even on o day and before and it is just not happening!! I think i will stop using all the gels and things and just hope it happens. Good luck to everyone!! xxoo If i happen to get a bfp on sunday i will let you all know but i doubt it i have bad cramps so i really think i am out!
pinkin- try not to get too discouraged, I too got DS1 & DS2 first shot but this time it's taking longer. They say do the opposite of what you did to get the boys so I am choosing to look at this positively and be encouraged by the fact that it is taking longer because it is different! Good luck!
Thanks Pinkdreams... What are you doing in your sway? I am thinking of using maybe rephresh instead of acijel and just using it every 3 days and hope to use it 3 days before o.. Maybe i should cut out using sylk also? I am not sure what to do i just hate having this on my mind all the time I am really down today.
I am totally OCD so I do a daily checklist and a DTD checklist so I don't obsess. I am doing a fusion type diet of all that I have read, basically trying to eat very little and no red meat at all, low sodium, drinking crystal light and tons of equal in everything, 3-4 peppermint teas a day and adding metamucil clear and natural fiber to all beverages (not only is the fiber supposed to help it really has helped me to not be so hungry!). I am using rephresh every 3 days from end of AF to O, timing it so that I will be using it 1 day before O ( I am using it regularly to avoid the "clumpy stuff":nyd:) I am taking cranberry, saw palmetto, folic acid, baby aspirin and zinc, Dh is taking cranberry, licorice root and calcium, magnesium, baby aspirin and drinking a lot of crystal light and avoiding red meat as well. I use a tiny bit of sylk while DTD and DH is abstaining for 10 days then we will DTD CD11 & 12 (he will release once or twice if he can manage it on 12 before the attempt) and am scheduled to O on 15. He takes a hot shower before. I would have also done an attempt on 15 but will have my father visiting and staying in DS1's room so he will be in bed with us.:worry: I J&D last month and will not be doing that this time. I will probably take a benadryl if I notice a lot of CM. I have negative ions up the wazoo- trionz bracelet, hematite bracelet, a bracelet I made of rose quarts, amethyst and tourmaline. I wear a magnet therapy belt over my lower half while sleeping, rock salt lamp and fountain by the bed, fans on in all rooms, fish tanks and plants in the house, lavender soaps (hand, body and dish) lavender lotion, lavender oil burning and candles. I have a pink outfit, socks, hair bow, wooden spoon and scissors under the bed, pink ribbon under my pillow, and a pink bib under my mattress. I have pictures of girl babies on a my vanity mirror and I say little positive manifestation type things to myself when I sit to get ready for the day. I have 7 day candles burning that I say prayers to St. Gerard to. I change nail polish and use hairspray daily. I "ask" my deceased mother in law and my step Dad to help.:Angel: Basically I am doing everything I can think of and choosing to be lenient with the timing since I don't think it's super important and doing the diet to the best of my (realistic) ability without adding too much stress to my life. I wanted to do some things "imperfectly" because I think too perfect a sway doesn't work. So did I mention I am totally OCD?!?!:think:
WOW sounds like a great sway you will do well. How long have you been ttc? I think I will be dropping the acijel then.. I have alot of neg ion things too!! And yeah I am not going crazy on timing either..... I have added exercise now i am doing 6km runs everyday with a bike class so its all cardio!! hard to do when i dont eat much!
this is our second attempt while swaying.
Pinkdreams im also OCD but ive really done my research and tried to keep it in check by doing only the diet obsessively...i think if i were to do the gels and douches with already lowering ph by diet i would have killed ALL the leftover spermies..i think you should cut out the jels if your ph is already low from diet and supplements if you dont conceive this time? IMO?Im a bit of a fertile mirtle so if this month i dont conceive after using the diet and supplements i will just cut salt and skip breakfast and keep the supplements instead of such a strict diet,I planned to do cut off o+12 last time but i skipped that too as i figured my age 37 is against me,and sooo many people say timing is the least important the diet is the MOST..
I hope your still in the game and still get a bfp its still early days?
pinkin-hugs ! using less gels could be a good idea because if you use to much sperm can just get tired trying to swim over all that stuff and so they never make it out of it and up in the tubes.
I ttc blue and use ew but always just 2ml and use it before bd so at the end there is not much left for sure so it's easy to swim up in it. GL!
How is everyone else? Any good news?
HEY again. I'm back, just 1dpo now. Flava, we are neck and neck!!! I will read back and see who is here and what's up, but just wanted to extend a giant FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX for us all this month!
helloooo , how are you all lovely ladies :) ..... just wanted to share with you guys FINALLY I M ON 3 DPO .... needs ur prayersssss :) ..... and FX for allllllll , hope we all would get blue BFP.
I am CD 17 still no confirmed O but I had all the normal symptoms on the 18th so I am saying I am 3DPO.... I stopped using the monitor because I have been to tired to get up :) I did take a preg test on the 19th just to make sure I wasn't already preg from my last cycle, bfn but happy about that because of the supps I have been taking!
Forgot to mention... creepy dreams for 3 night now, 2 1/2 days of really bad heartburn, and I feel feverish! I will test in 3 day with a cheapy.
Im so hoping for our bfp really ! Lola ans light trying for so long , me this is my last chance so really would be nice to get a sticky blue !
purple- Im also 3 dpo lol would be cool to test together! But you want to test 6dpo? I don't do that because for sure I get a bfn so early.
I am only testing at 6dpo because my OB says people with twins can get bfp's in the early time frame.... I will be testing at 10dpo and 14dpo because I found some cheapies at walmart for .88 and I have 3 left and 1 FRER.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
I don't know if it is a good sign or what but I have really bad acid reflex right now.... I had it this early with DS1 before I knew I was preg and that it can be related to preg. :pray::pray::pray:
Oh right you want twins ! almost forgot
But if you can test for it at 6dpo that means they implant earlier or what? And so why is that do you know?
Ah I wish to find a test for 88c lol
I have only seen the test at walmart once, they had 4 so I grabbed them. The $1 store sales cheapies to but they are normally close to expire.
It may be that they plant early, implant high, or that the body knows that there are two... I don't know.
I may wait until 8dpo to test it depends on how I feel. I feel horrible right now!
.... had to go take my temp because I feel like I am burning up but the BBT said 98.80 hmm
Im out AF came today im kind of in disbeleif ,i had soo maany pregnancy symptoms,amazing how the mind can trick you?i guess with this girl diet i should get used to it,i actually didnt do anything but diet strictly and supplements and same with Dh so il have to cut somethings out and try again..im not looking forward to the horrible diet again ,well see you ladies in a few weeks,,and good luck to the rest of you still waiting ...xxx
purplepoet - I got my BFP with my twins at 8dpo but I don't think I tested before that so I suppose it might be possible to get a BFP slightly earlier.
purple- where is your chart?I want to stalk you lol