LMSM: if I Oed on cd 14 I am currently 6dpo. But hesitant to even think of a hpt. Hubby wants me to try on Monday which will be 10dpo.
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LMSM: if I Oed on cd 14 I am currently 6dpo. But hesitant to even think of a hpt. Hubby wants me to try on Monday which will be 10dpo.
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ABC – yes, we are a chatty bunch – and because we are from different places around the globe there’s always some form of activity lol
I would say your best bet for risk/benefit for both sway and protection of a potential pregnancy (reduce chances of m/c) – just cutting back should be fine (maybe make that glass of wine a bit smaller for instance ^^). That way if you need to keep dieting for another month, you have kept up with the sway. And if you are pregnant, it’ll just be a matter of cutting out what you can’t have pregnant ;)
Things don’t cross the placenta until you usually find out (4 weeks ish, when placenta is formed and fully effective? I think?) anyways, so as long as reasonable intake it should be fine...I am a paranoid and don’t do any booze at all in the tww, but then I rarely drink anyways – and limit intake of caffeine : in this case for me as am swaying blue, I just drink a couple of lightly brewed black teas with milk instead of coffee for the sway anyways and only have the odd coffee before O and none in the dpo period – but that’s just me ;)
Lmsm & Lola thank you for the answers! I appreciate it. :) I'm just too tired to want to bd again tonight, so I'm glad I don't have to lol. And noooo I didn't mean is it a sign of pregnancy lol! I'm 1dpo! There's no way a bean is in there :rofl: I just wanted to know if I was hurting my sway at all by consuming a whooping 3000 calories today lol! All healthy eating, but just completely blows my mind how hungry I am today. First time I haven't had to force myself to eat since starting the he diet. I just woke up to eat again too!
Netti: Thank you! Semi trailor loads, that got me lol.
Halley – wow , already 6dpo potentially! Don’t know why I had stayed stuck on like 4dpo hehe So you will test just after me :D and there is no pressure to test , only you can decide when to – as much as your hubs is keen for you to do it Monday – he is convinced it worked, is that why he is that eager?
Even 3000 calories would be ok if not all the time – and if nutritious healthy stuff, then it’s more for weight management that you might not want to consume that much all the time ;) hey, even at 1dpo, hormonal changes happen so why not? The progesterone makes one tired and sleepy, why not hungry too?! ;)
It will either be Monday or Tuesday.
Lol yes he is very excited.
When I fell pregnant last time. It was not planned but would not change it at all. She is a gorgeous little girl. We were just deciding to have fun for a few days and then completely forgot about it. Out of the blue one day I said I wanted to do a hpt, it was evening so I was very doubtful. It was a bfp. So with that in mind and him knowing all the work we put into it. He is very positive
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Pbn- I took the only opk I had this morning and it was negative :/ we live 30 minutes away from the nearest store so I dont know when or if I will be able to get more! DH is refusing to stick to e3d now so I guess we'll see how it goes this month and if I dont get a BFP, im putting my foot down next month and were doing it my way! Lol.
How are my temps looking? I have no idea what they mean!
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Sorry for my delayed response, we had to suddenly (temporarily) move in with DH great grandparents to take care of them and I get practically no service at all. :/
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Also, if I can't get more opks, how do I know when to start taking pregnancy tests?
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Mtolbert did you do an opk cd12 or 13 because that's a huge spike in temp this morning....
Edited: sorry just reread your post about it being your only opk. I think you've oed cd14 and would have had a pos opk cd12 or 13. We'll know for sure with another couple temps :) How awesome your e3d attempt was night before o 😀😀😀
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Oh and you'll know by temping when you've oed (usually 3 days in a row of a susstained rise) and 10dpo is usually a good place to start.
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Netti my opks started like yours then would fade out before darkening to a pos. You can get an lh surge around af (which is why you might see dark but not pos opks prior to af arriving) so I'm assuming it would fade out with af finishing and this is what your seeing?
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Quick me post....
Saw my ob today and he said HCG looking great and did an external scan saying we won't see anything... but he did see the sac! Didn't worry about internal and said to come back in 2 weeks! So all great!!!
Bad news.... I asked him about the genetic results after D&C and it came back 'no chromosomal abnormalities' and it was a boy! I said so it wasn't a blighted ovum?!?! He seemed a bit awkward and said well it was and it must have been too small. I didn't question anymore because it's done now. I waited until 8 weeks, but ppl do say wait until 9. In all honesty i knew it wasn't right and maybe I would have miscarried anyway....just a shock
Edit: plus it was a boy! Lol
Kind of prepared me that my sway won't work this time either. Either way I'm excited to have another lil person in our family
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Oh wow Iwant4kids, what a huge shock! Maybe once it's all sunk in you can write down some questions you may have that you'd like answered. I don't really know what to say..... like you said what's done is done but some answers might help with the 'what ifs'?
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Thank you! Hopefully my e3d attempt did the trick!!!
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LMSM I cant believe you're only 2 sleeps away from testing 😮😮 are you tempted to test tomorrow??!!
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Mummy2boys your chart is looking very good 😀 what dpo will you test??!!
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Hi ladies, doing a quick catch up.
Gosh Iwant4, that must have been a shock! I think just trust your original instincts and know you did the right thing.
Halley and LMSM, am I right in thinking you are both around the same time as me? Im 7dpo today. Can't wait to see some tests!!
Hi, pbn. My chart is strange this month, temp gone up today but it's still much lower than it was the previous few months so I don't know what's going on. And I've already caved and tested, bfn [emoji23]
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😂😂😂 mummy2boys good to see the poas addict is alive and well in you 😘 hopefully in 2-3 days time you'll be posting a bfp 😀
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ABC- i don't do the alcohol but i have 'coffee' everyday. Its a mixed instant coffee caramel latte. It really only has about 15-18% coffee but its the only things i can manage. I used to be a tea drinker mainly at work with my other boys. I guess cutting back during the TWW is what id do.
LMSM- i have used opks when trying with ds5. I had so so success. A couple of cycles ago i had the surge in the afternoon and by next morning gone- that cycle didn't have alot of build up though. Truth be told i hope its a couple of eggs preparing 🤣 im in Sydney gahh you're so close to testing. I think a warm bath would be lovely.
Ttc- i would totally be symptom spotting at 1dpo 🤣🤣 but i do get you. Its winter here in Aus and my goodness coffee and a few biscuits and then im thinking of something else....
Best of luck mtolbert- im not good at charts but sustained rise will indicate O.
Fx when you decide to test Halley 😀
Pbn- that would make sense as its happened before. I wonder why it does that? It seems lighter again tonight. Hopefully O coincides with my days off next week.
Iwant4- wow definite shock. I agree with maybe writing some questions for your next appointment.
Best of luck Mummy2boys. Im a total poas addict too 😊
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Hi ladies!
Iwant4, wow what news! I'm so happy to hear that all is ok with this pregnancy. Wishing you healthy and happy months ahead
LMSM, a warm bath is totally fine I would assume?
Mummy, your chart looks good to me!
Netti, fingers crossed for a positive opk soon!
Ladies, talk me off the ledge please. I know I took a risk of multiples when I took Femara, but ever since that phone call about ovulating from both sides, I'm totally psyching myself out (and I haven't even got a bfp yet lol). My temp is higher than its ever been in a cycle, which could just be caused by the medication, but it's also giving me pause. Has anyone had experience with this? Do higher temps mean anything? Again, I could totally have a bfn cycle, but I'm totally losing sleep over this. Anyone?!
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Max-
I know it's hard to think of all the what ifs when you realistically still have to wait for an answer..the Femara *could* have had an effet, maybe more so in that it gave you an excellent quality O, leading to beautiful corpus luteum producing progesterone, making your temps rise more than a maybe not as good O which may have been the case without the drugs ....?
Even with just one egg there is always a chance of multiples, or with multiple eggs released you could still only have one Bub...don't get too hung up on it though I can see why you'd get hot sweats at the idea of twinnies!
:)
Maxim I've never heard of high post o temps being related to multiples. Not saying it isn't just that I've never heard of it. Your temp should surely start leveling out soon 🤔 I've heard (and seen here on GD) of early dark bfps resulting in multiples but nothing at all temp related.
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Pheeewwww ok really?! I didn't even start with google because it's so easy to get way more info than you bargained for! Ok I'm going to just relax and pray that I'm even pregnant before I cross the "freaking out over the possibility of twins" bridge again. [emoji23]
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Thanks honey!! You too! [emoji175]
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Oh boy ttcblue!! Another rise! I have a good feeling about this month for everyone ❤
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Îm all up for a double BFP for us eh?! :D no Twins, just one healthy bubba each :D oh how awesome would that be!? :cheer:
Agree TTCblue s chart is looking awesome :D
I feel like line looks crap compared to everyone else's :rofl:
LMSM nope your's is looking very good, just in a different way 😉 and I'm thinking BFP'S all around! BFP's EVERYWHERE!!! BFP's galore 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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Haha have you seen the gif where Oprah goes "you get one, you get one, you too everyone's gets ones going slightly ott etc? That's what your post made me'think of :rofl:
Netti. I grabbed the dual hormone for this cycle. Hope it'll make a difference.
ABC: tww I don't drink.
Caffeine I cut down a little
Lmsm and max!!! I'm so excited for you two!! Can't wait to see those blazing lines!! A warm bath will be perfectly fine!
Halley!! Soon you get to start testing!! Eek can't wait until Monday!!
Ttc: my eating picks up during the tww for some reason.
Mt! Those daggone opks! Good for you for putting your foot down! I would too!
Iw4k: yay!! That's great news!! So excited!!
Sorry about your little guy! So many hugs! I know that's painful!
you did the right thing for sure. I had to have two d&c and I waited each time in hopes the doctors were wrong about it.
Mummy! Yay can't wait to see your blazing lines soon!!
Max: I truly have everything crossed this is your month!!
So excited to see all these positives this cycle!!
Woohoo!! Pbn!! lol it would be awesome if you really could just hand out the bfps!! Would take the stress out of it! lol
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LMSM i refer to that quote all the time. Yes i will take a BFP 😁
Its ok ladies ill take the twins 🤗
Fx they do the trick Mommy. Ill see how I go this cycle and may purchase them for next.
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Thanks Netti! Fx this is just your month and you won't have to worry about them!
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