Yes I will find out - not sure if will do gender scan or just wait for 20 week scan. Was your friend ok? Did she want a particular gender?
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Yes I will find out - not sure if will do gender scan or just wait for 20 week scan. Was your friend ok? Did she want a particular gender?
My friend didn't want to know the sex of her baby but her mum was desperate to know. She told her mum that the sonographer could tell her the sex of the baby as long as it was kept a secret from her and the dad. Well it was a good job as they told the mum it was a girl and it was indeed a little boy. It happens this way round far too often. Even if I was told girl at a scan I wouldn't be able to fully believe it until the birth.
One last dream I sooooo want you to have a girl huni. I know it's easy to say that to people in real life and in ya head secretly think 'why should you get one when I can't' (maybe im just evil ha ha ha). But it's different on here. I feel all the pain and worry and doubt as if it were my own. I genuinely pray you get your little girl, I hope we all do. I know how magical it would be for all of us!!!
Thank you - that's really lovely xxx I hope you get your little girl too and everyone else desiring that on here. I do know exactly what you mean xQuote:
Originally Posted by 3boys
This will make you all laugh hopefully!!!! When I was told ds2 was a girl at the 12 week scan he said he was able to tell through the nub but I understood it that certain bones grow differently in boys and girls which determined their gender and he was looking at these bones - which I thought grew through the body!!!! For about the first 6 months to year of ds2's life I was distraught as I thought he was actually a girl trapped in a boys body and would have to deal with it later in life and go through trauma because of it!!!! I was so naive and had no idea of the nub theory!!!! I have no problem at all with any choices my babies decide to make later in life and if they decide to be gay then as long as they are happy and still love their mummy I really don't mind (although would like T least one grand child!!!) but I just thought he was going to have to fight to get the body he really needed and would be totally mis understood!!!! I really am very silly sometimes!!!
This did make me laugh, bless ya!Quote:
Originally Posted by OneLastDream
My DS2 is very in touch with his femine side, one Christmas he was obsessed with Beauty and the Beast and wanted a belle doll from the Disney shop. I brought him one, didn't see any harm in it. I don't think he's gay though (wouldn't mind if he was) because six months later he kept taking her dress off and having what he called naked picnics with his other toys lol.
if she wasn't she didn't let on:) she wanted a boy anyway since her kids are close in age and was happy to have him have a lil brother:)Quote:
Originally Posted by OneLastDream
omg I was kinda undecided about weather I was gonna find out w/ this one since I never have with my others but now I'm oretty sure I won't. That would be too much to go through a prego thinking one thing and then be shcked like that. I would rather go on thinking I am having a boy as usual and then be super surprised if a girl came:)
I don't think that normally happens and I would want a complete open legged shot from both sides and upside down too now to believe it lol!!!!! They told me 75% so wasn't guaranteed - would want 110% if ever got to hear it again!!!! I need to find out to get my head around the boy bit as I want to get over any upset I have before the baby is in my arms but everyone deals with it differently. I just assume I will hear boy and need to get used to it. It doesn't really enter my head it may be another outcome!!!! How wonderful would that be though if you didn't know and a little girl popped out - how lovely. I wish I was strong enough to get that whole experience but I just don't trust myself!Quote:
Originally Posted by Atsaukina1
Why is that DS takes a nap like clockwork everyday from 1-4 but the ONE DAY I want to nap he refuses to go down? Ugh. Going to a hockey game with DH tonight, good friggen luck to grama who's watching DS in an hour lol!!! Whew