Jen, thanks so much for the words! They do mean so much to me, and help me begin to calm down!
I am being a major stress ball...I just need to chill out and give it a rest and be cool :cool:
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Jen, thanks so much for the words! They do mean so much to me, and help me begin to calm down!
I am being a major stress ball...I just need to chill out and give it a rest and be cool :cool:
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Originally Posted by auroara78
Be cool hunny bunny! Be cool! (sorry watched pulp fiction last night lol) Just try to say a little prayer and let it ALL go!! Diet, temps, the moon phases, BD timing, EVERYTHING! If it is meant to be, God will find a way regardless of what FF or +OPK's say! (he found a way ergardless of what my BC said for my #1DS, so anythings possible! LOL) I also am desperately hoping for an early sept baby girl but I know it will all come when its time and not a moment before so I am just going about life as normal, eating all the goodies outta my christmas stocking and relaxing. well until i see a calendar pop up and then i just stress that its not the 7th yet lol.. but i have gone through the house and taken all the calendars off the wall so I can relax more :) Just try to stay chill and keep a positive outlook because you may very well be already knocked up and just dont know it yet!!
drowning-LOVE that movie and that is a good motto to have!
aurora-I feel the same exact way you do, exactly, so I feel your pain. I really don't know how I could have screwed up this month so badly and for me it was in my control, (I still may not of gotten prego, but I really messed up big time). Anyways, we should really start to be nicer to ourselves, myself included. Life has a funny way of happening despite our plans, doesn't it?
Ootb-hiya! how are you feeling about your new plan?
Jamie-any more tests?
You and me both, Jen! 2012 is going to be an amazing year...I can feel it! I so hope af picks up for you and you can get to work planning your next attempt - I think all this bleeding was just your hormones re-balancing just like happened to me last month.Quote:
Originally Posted by Out of the Blue
And I think you're making a wise decision about the diet. Honestly, I already eat more fruit and veggies than I probably should on the diet, but it helps keep me sane. I will definitely loosen up on the diet if I end up having to do this for much longer. I'm just so sick of denying myself everything I like!
Hey ladies - I'm finally at my mother's house after a very long 14 hours of travel. The flight itself was only 2 hours, but it was delayed by 4.5 hours, then we had to drive 3 hours to my Mom's house after we finally landed. I am completely exhausted. I still don't know what to think about FF's changes to my cycle this morning. All day today I was having niggly cramps, and my boobs are sore - which has never been either an af or BFP symptom for me. I keep wavering between thinking I've completely ruined my chances at a BFP this month and thinking I have a bean growing in there right now.
Honestly, I've never been very good about temping. I'm up and down so many times in the night with my kids, it's hard to get an accurate temp at the same time every day. I'm also bad and don't set an alarm to temp, but since one or the other of my kids is up sometime around 5:30 every day wanting something, I always temp then. Some days it might be 5, some days it might be 6 - or anything in between. I also sleep with my mouth open, so I know that's a factor. While visiting my ILs, my temp times were even more erratic than usual because my kids were sleeping terribly and waking up at strange times. I still often woke up around 5 every morning out of habit and tried to always temp then, but some mornings the kids went to bed so late that they slept in and I didn't temp until close to 7am.
Anyway, I chose to ignore FF's change since it would make me lose hope for a BFP, and I think we all need a little hope in our lives...
I think so too...I just didn't expect it b/c I had a nice, normal 1st cycle post-m/c so I thought it was smooth sailing. I'm so glad you reminded me of your last cycle b/c I really feel like it was the same thing...Thanks so much for giving me some peace of mind so I didn't keep googling dire possibilities...Quote:
Originally Posted by Mochagirl
Yep...just write FF off b/c you know yourself/body better that FF, especially w/all the variables at play. Always, ALWAYS keep the hope alive...I'll always keep the hope alive for you as well! Your BFP is sooooooo very close, MJ!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Mochagirl
Amari, you’re going to hit it out of the ballpark this next time, I know it!!! You’re in a great place and your BFP is just around the corner…:cheer:
Today I discovered that if I change the FF settings to 'research' instead of 'advanced', my O-day moves back to where I want it. That makes me feel better. Today I have crazy cramps, I'm constipated (could be due to travel, though), and have TONS of yellow creamy cm. :fx:
Mocha, those signs do seem promising!!! There was a post on IG about twinning, and Tamara said flying in the 2WW can cause identical twins, something about the pressure of flying, so FX that you get a BFP...and maybe identical twin girls!!!!
Jen, did AF come full force yet? You are in my thoughts, hon, I can't wait to hear your sway plan coming up! FX a sticky pink bean soon for you!!
Amari, I agree, I think we are just too hard on ourselves! Don't beat yourself up about wasting one dose of Clomid, I'd just make sure you stick to the diet and other swaying factors, and make sure to get lots and lots of BD'ing in with Clomid. We all goof-up sometimes, but as long as we learn from it, that's what is important!
Jamie, did you retest this morning just to see those two beautiful lines again? :)
Lemon, are you around? are you testing yet? What's going on with you? I would drop the rephresh this next month if you really want to get preggers, and just stick to diet as best you can, and keep taking baby aspirin and folic acid.
I am doing better today, I have banned myself from my therometer until CD1 begins. I am now refusing to get upset about temps without the full cycle worth of them.
:agree: Do anything you can to keep yourself sane in the 2ww!Quote:
Originally Posted by auroara78
That goes for you, too, Lemon! Have you POAS???