Originally Posted by
LolaInLove
Babydes, you never know....don't lose hope yet. Some people don't get implantation cramps at all, some are early, some are late. Keep your chin up!
Tink, if all opk systems gave you a positive result just one day, yesterday, I would try to dtd either last night or this morning. ITA with Begonia's summation there! Do you get O pains? And did you poas twice or just once a day? I usually get a + around 1 or 2pm, and then that night, then again in the morning, but usually the surge has subsided by the next night's test. So, I pretty much know my surge actually started that morning around 8 or 9am, and it hits my urine by 1 or 2pm. So, I figure I ovulate around 24 hours after that, and sure enough, I usually get O pains around 3 or 4 pm the next day, just around the right time. So you wanna bd, like B said, anywhere from 12-18 hours after your 1st +, but if you only test once a day, I would bd that night or the next morning after your + as you are maybe not sure when your surge actually started (which you can be more sure of when you opk twice a day). More poas for you next month!!! And we did have a pic thread on a private forum....a few of us deleted them after a while to avoid trolls. It's called "Let's Talk Secrets." If you post some, I'll repost mine for a few days!
Begonia, SOOOO SORRYYYYYYY you are sick, that SUCKS! Maybe just wait to see how you feel then? If you feel like you are good to go and have some bd, maybe go for it. You know, just watch the meds for drying-up action and the like. I mean, if you can skip it and wait till July, I would probably do that, but I know how it is when you are all geared up and ready to ttc!
