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Once its completely dry it'll probably look quite similar to yesterdays. This is normal Halley :) it's just a waiting game at this stage. I'd go ahead and bd tonight as your still at least two days minimum away from a pos opk in my opinion (unless you get a sudden drastic surge 😉 but I really don't think that will be the case :) ) I think you'll be looking at between Saturday - Monday for pos opk
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I took this photo over hr after I had done it. It's looks dry. We will bd today I am worried we will miss itQuote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
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If you're worried then just continue with eod. It sways strongly blue. That way if for some reason you miss your surge you'll easily be covered. I know its hard but try not to obsess too much about oing. You gotta relax as best you can and just trust your body will do what always does, it just doesn't feel that way when we are watching it like a hawk. No one or no thing likes to be put under a microscope and analyzed... it seems the more you want something to happen the longer it takes. Just try and sit back, relax a little and know that within the next few days you will get a pos opk and you have zero control over when that will happen, it will when its ready ❤
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Thank you. I am worried about how hubby will feel when we eventually conceive and the possibility of it being a girl. I will be happy with either but would like a little boy
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There's always the possibility of an opposite unfortunately. I've seen some of the best sways result in opposites but have also seen the best sways succeed. Same as with the more relaxed sways, seen it go both ways. Just do what can and control what you can. The diet is by far the biggest factor. Breakfast (cereal seems to be very blue) lunch and dinner with snacking in between. And lots of protein (doesn't have to always come from meat - nuts and eggs are a great source of protein and great for snacking - you can easy keep boiled eggs prepared in the fridge). Eod sways strongly blue but 3 attempts at pos opk is recommended first because it is far easier to achieve. Many dh's can fail to perform eod at the crucial time therefore its considered easier to clump 2-3 attempts together instead (my ds2 was conceived by bding night of pos opk and following morning - I wasn't swaying, had never heard of it, was just trying to get pregnant)
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I understand that it's trying to tell hubby that we can try for a particular gender but need to be great full for what we will be blessed with. It is my first time using opks that's probably why I'm a little more stressed. The temp I am managing well and charting each morning not that I understand what the chart says and that's ok.
I don't have a lot of cereal manly have oats. I have been eating plenty of nuts and have added an egg in here and there. Have also added a bit of chicken and turkey into my diet. We have managed every second day since the 2nd of July.
I have never heard of swaying until now it is very interesting.
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It sure is interesting!! I like this site the best as its based on science and actual studies. And your dh will love any child you conceive regardless of his gender desire. Will you find out gender or go team green? And you and dh are doing amazing at eod!! It's no mean feat!
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You haven't mentioned red mest that I recall Halley? Do you not like it? Just curious :)
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LMSM- Thank you! I'm hoping he will stick to the plan, but I never know with him lol
Iw4k- CONGRATULATIONS!!!! How exciting!!! I can't wait until I finally see 2 beautiful lines!
M2A- I agree with what you said about Pbn! She is so sweet! Its awesome to get on here and see all the kind things all of you ladies say. It's so refreshing! I feel like I have my own little support group lol
Pbn- Thank you for sharing your link! Unfortunately, I won't be able to temp for a couple of days because DH wanted us to take an impromptu camping trip and I didn't bring my thermometer! 😭 When will you find out the gender? I cant wait, im so excited for you!
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Mtolbert not finding out gender at this stage 😀 and no dramas about not temping for a couple days! Jus pick up where you left off when you get home :)
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