Due in December/January/February 2013/14

Oxox-exciting let us know how it goes! I still have nauseau in the evenings but its getting better. Maybe this is just a little bump and you will feel better tomorrow!

So today I was at Target and I saw two little boys with a mom holding the tiniest little girl! She was probably two weeks old but I thought ok there's another 2 boys and a girl family! Still gives me hope we can carry our daughters!

I have really been finding that I am really thinking about this baby a lot and whether or not its a girl. My gut feeling is its a boy but I have this little glimmer of hope like maybe the sway worked. Anybody else thinking about this more than they would like? I feel like I'm going insane! I'm 10 weeks and I have another 10 to go before I can find out.

Oxox.... good luck with your NT scan tomorrow. Exciting stuff! I'm excited about mine! yet the nearer it gets the more nervous I feel about my own next week. My ideal scan will be not to see any nub that way I can't obsess over it!

Soar... At the moment I am not thinking about it too much. I usually start getting bad after the NT scan (but that's when I usually see a willy). I wish I didn't care about gender. I wish I was equally hoping for both genders.How wonderful that would be! I've started calling this baby 'he' and 'him' so I can start mentally preparing now.

All I want for Christmas is a healthy baby with no GD!.... Is that too much to ask!

Soar - DH and I have seen so many people recently with 2 boys and then 1 girl. We'll be talking about how there's no way we're having a girl while in the car parking at a store and infront of us walk a 2 boys, younger girl family. This has happened more than once! I'd love to say it's a sign, but it's just a TEASE! It is totally possible.. and I actually believe it's probably in general more like a 60/40 chance. I also hate to admit how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking but I think about the gender of this baby ALL the time. We aren't finding out until delivery as I just can't handle comments for 20+ weeks after hearing boy. It's so hard to explain because I just KNOW it's going to be a boy, but my heart or 'spirit' feels like it's totally a girl. But I just know it'll be a boy... how's that for not making ANY sense! DH feels the exact same way though.. so weird, but at least he gets my crazy logic so we joke about it together "Yes, I actually think deep down it's going to be a girl.. but it's totally going to be a boy"

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Soar - DH and I have seen so many people recently with 2 boys and then 1 girl. We'll be talking about how there's no way we're having a girl while in the car parking at a store and infront of us walk a 2 boys, younger girl family. This has happened more than once! I'd love to say it's a sign, but it's just a TEASE! It is totally possible.. and I actually believe it's probably in general more like a 60/40 chance. I also hate to admit how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking but I think about the gender of this baby ALL the time. We aren't finding out until delivery as I just can't handle comments for 20+ weeks after hearing boy. It's so hard to explain because I just KNOW it's going to be a boy, but my heart or 'spirit' feels like it's totally a girl. But I just know it'll be a boy... how's that for not making ANY sense! DH feels the exact same way though.. so weird, but at least he gets my crazy logic so we joke about it together "Yes, I actually think deep down it's going to be a girl.. but it's totally going to be a boy"

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You've completely summed up how I feel too!! Crazy isn't it?!

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You've completely summed up how I feel too!! Crazy isn't it?!

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Ugh, it's so annoying because I just wish my brain or whatever wouldn't even let me believe there is a possible chance. I know I will be thrilled if another little boy pops out in December because I see so many benefits to having another boy but obviously a girl would just make things feel so complete too. With my other two I just knew it was a boy, and had the odd glimmer of hope, but mostly felt dooms day knowing what was going to come at the ultrasound and I was always right. No clue why I have some weird hope/feeling this time.. I hate it!!

MSBLAKELY I know how u feel. 20 weeks knowing boy could be hell. Then again so could a delivery room shock!

I keep thinking that this must be a boy because that is what I have made so far. I hate that I have no inkling at all. DH used to laugh at me for being a witch - I get O pains and always know I am pg well before a BFP and yet I have no idea what this little one is. I have my NT scan Thursday so I might get a glimpse - I find scans quite hard t read though especially when they are moving!

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MSBLAKELY I know how u feel. 20 weeks knowing boy could be hell. Then again so could a delivery room shock!

I keep thinking that this must be a boy because that is what I have made so far. I hate that I have no inkling at all. DH used to laugh at me for being a witch - I get O pains and always know I am pg well before a BFP and yet I have no idea what this little one is. I have my NT scan Thursday so I might get a glimpse - I find scans quite hard t read though especially when they are moving!

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Good luck with the scan! I partially decline the NT scan because I didn't want to deal with a nub. Especially since we are waiting I just thought it could totally ruin the experience. There is definitely part of me that wants to find out at the 20 weeks scan, but we've found out for both DS's and this is 100% our last baby so we want to experience the surprise. I'm not worried about GD because I barely had it with either of the boys, it was more just a "too bad it'll never happen" feeling. BUT, I can totally appreciate the GD and if I knew it were a possibility I would have to know earlier or else I'd worry it'd cause postpartum depression. For me I just really really want a healthy baby... and I figure if i'm the only girl in the family.. more money for me to spend on clothes, purses, jewellery! All the shopping I dreamt about doing with a girl I'll just have to spend double on myself to keep me sane LOL!

MSBlakely-I agree totally!
3Boys-I need to start calling the baby a he too! That way I feel more prepared!

The Dr office just called and had to reschedule my appt for 4 days later. Ugh don't they know I have a count down already and it was less than a week away. I hate it when that happens.

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Soar - DH and I have seen so many people recently with 2 boys and then 1 girl. We'll be talking about how there's no way we're having a girl while in the car parking at a store and infront of us walk a 2 boys, younger girl family. This has happened more than once! I'd love to say it's a sign, but it's just a TEASE! It is totally possible.. and I actually believe it's probably in general more like a 60/40 chance. I also hate to admit how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking but I think about the gender of this baby ALL the time. We aren't finding out until delivery as I just can't handle comments for 20+ weeks after hearing boy. It's so hard to explain because I just KNOW it's going to be a boy, but my heart or 'spirit' feels like it's totally a girl. But I just know it'll be a boy... how's that for not making ANY sense! DH feels the exact same way though.. so weird, but at least he gets my crazy logic so we joke about it together "Yes, I actually think deep down it's going to be a girl.. but it's totally going to be a boy"

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I know exactly how you feel. We have three girls and want a boy of course. My husbands brother just had there 5th girl no boys! I don't want to know what we are having this time, leave it a surprise. Honestly if I heard I was having a girl I really wouldn't care I just wanted a baby! Boy would be a plus. I always tell and prepare my husband for another girl I tell him look at our girls, how could you honestly be upset to have another beautiful girl!!! I think all the ladies wanting girls that are due in December have a good chance of having girls! December is going to be a girl month there's so many people that I know are pregnant with girls right now!! So I hope all you ladies dreaming pink have healthy little girls! I'm rootin for all you :)

Well I had to cancel my scan due to insurance reasons. :( I was looking forward to seeing the baby! Oh well, here's to waiting until our 20 week scan!