Oh yeah and FABULOUS I miss her too!
ehh g2g DD4 spilled some drink...nice
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Oh yeah and FABULOUS I miss her too!
ehh g2g DD4 spilled some drink...nice
Hi ladies!! Been a minute since I've been on. My mom is very ill. Diagnosed with stage 4 luncg cancer spread all over. I've been devastated. She probably doesn't have long and I'm not coping well at all.
Zane is already 9 months. Happiest baby ever. Makes life so much more bearable. My life is so beautiful and I should be so happy but I'm so sad thinking about my mom.
How is everyone ? I'm sure there are lots of new people too
Hi Tink! Good to see you! So sorry about your mom. That's awful! I am glad Zane is a wonderful baby. Hugs to you.
Tink, so sorry to hear about your mum:( I'm glad little Zane is such a good boy for you all, he must be a great comfort xxx
Im so sorry to hear about your mom Tink
Sorry about you mom tink.
Mini. Your 20 week scan must be coming up soon. Let us know when so we can stalk you :)
Sorry to hear of your mum tink x
Hi... I've been absent again:-) partly because we have been busy, but mainly because I'm so nervous about my scan. Its not for another 12 long days. April 8th at 10am in Australia. Everyone's been bombarding me. My mum made me cranky yesterday with her silly comments, including this one.... oh I can't wait to see what your little boy looks like. I get so mad because again, the pressure is on, the expectations are there. I went into this knowing that I could well have a girl and have accepted it...why can't they? Now all I get is I hope its a boy, it better be a boy, did you try for a boy, imagine having 4 girls. Well get stuffed. The other thing that annoyed me last night was seeing the mil interact with her first grandson who turned one. Everything she does for him is different, special visits, holds him for ages, baby sits....are my children less important because they have vaginas? He's a beautiful boy, but come on. And then I start thinking, if I have a boy, don't think that you can do that to my child...no special nothing . OK rant over, I'll let you know if we see anything. I still would like a surprise, however its killing me so I don't think I could last that long.
Hope you are well x
I know how you feel minimatron, leading up to the scan is so nerve wracking! Either way is is such a wonderful thing seeing the little baby growing in your belly! We are all here for you no matter what happens :)
Thanks cinns, I'm really quite nervous. I know its a blessing to have a healti baby and I'm grateful for that. And I can't change what's in there . It's just other people that set me off. I shouldn't listen but I do. I've been watching the high on here that people get when they get their dg, and then I also see the absolute low of failed sways. That scares me. I don't want those emotions again. I want joy and happiness . However I'm really trying to enjoy this pregnancy knowing I'm never ever going to do it again.
Oh mini I know how you feel with the pressure that other family members but on us. I had the pressure of DH really wanting a son but telling me that he was happy as long as the baby was healthy. I had my 5 sisters and 6 sisters in law all telling me that they really want me to have a boy, but could not see me being the mother of a son so according to them I was most likely going to have another girl. ( I haven't told my family yet. They know that I know but I told them that they have to wait and see) And a friend of mine who also has a DD has also been trying to convince me that I am having a daughter, but she acts very competitive with me for some reason so I think she has another agenda.
So going through the first half of the pregnancy with everyone close to me saying that there is no way I could have a boy, had me acting my heart out that I would be really ok with whoever comes into the family and the more it went on the more angry I became with people acting like a girl was the 2nd prize as I love and want my unborn baby regardless of gender . And I know that would have had a while of gender dissapointment where I would have to mourn the loss of a DS that never was but that would be seperate to the feelings I would have had for a DD2. (I went through this with DD as I was totally convinced from the moment of conception that she was a boy and it took the 3rd ultrasound confirmation of a girl to have me believe it)
Fingers crossed that you will hear boy on the 8th but a healthy baby girl is by no means the runner up prize either.
Cinss. How are you doing at the min. I know you had a tough time coming up in march and fingers crossed everything worked out ok.
Hope your little man has turned for you too.
mini- I have 4DD and my 4th is just awesome. Not to mention she is the only one who look like me have blue eyes like me . It's just something special about seeing a mini me walking around lol Anyway I love my girls a lot and you will love the new baby too no matter the gender.
And you know don't you think your MIL will be different if the baby is a boy. At least mine is not. SIL got 2 kids (boys) and only her kids matters . I know she wanted a girl so for me to have a boy and on my BD of all days is just killing them.
They never even said congrats to me when I had my boy or even send a postcard or anything at all for him.(not that I got anything from anyone else but still ) Not to this day! They are far away so only saw pics from the baby. But now we don't even post pics fro them. why should I?
Well I suppose living so far away from each other is good.
Hope it will be different for you!
Mini, I re-looked at your nub shots and I have a real good feeling that you have a little man in there:) If it does turn out to be a little girl, then exactly as everyone else has says, she will be an absolutely perfect little addition to your family xxx
Hey Pearl well things are ok at the moment luckily our court system drags out for ages, so it looks like DP will be with me for the birth which i am really relieved about. I have a scan when i am 35 weeks so i will be able to see if bub has turned. Thanks for asking :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Pearl327
This is good news Cinss! I reckon he'll be head down for you:agree:
ELP- I see your ticker we need BD pics from baby David now!!!
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Hey girls, happy Easter. We have been up bush over the long weekend. I love taking ur girls away and relaxing and getting dirty. Its also distracted me from my countdown! It was dd1 bithday yesterday...April 1st. She turned 6. Only 6 days til my scan. I keep dreaming I can't see gender clues. Aahhh
oh 6 days can't wait to find out :)Quote:
Originally Posted by minimatron
Me too. I'm really nervous. I'm really preparing myself to hear girl. I just don t want to be upset if it is. I hate this part.
Good Luck minimatron although looking at your nub I'm sure you will hear boy ;)
Do you really think so? It does strike me as boy and the DVD with all the shots between the legs looked boy. I just don't want to crash down to a low if it is a girl. I know if it is a girl, I will love her so much, but I'll also endure all those guilt feeling from wishing she was a he.
Come on Monday!
Thanks true blue for looking at my nub.
Girls, I posted the short clip of baby between its legs and also nub views. Could you please have a look and tell me what you think. I'm grasping at straws!
mini -I looked at your post the nub look like a boy to me. Good luck! XX
Thanks flava. I understand its too early to really know. I posted a pic of dd3 nub because hers was angled and got boy guesses. Not sure f I mentioned but I changed my scan to Friday afternoon.
mini-I said to early for the video because it's early to tell from a potty shot . That's why your DD3 look like this baby.But I think this baby's stuff is bigger on video. Not early for the nub pics and that looks boyish.
Ok I watched the video again on 0:46 looks like a little pee pee lol .Only is before 13 weeks you know...Good luck to you I really wish this is your boy.
Mini I really hope you have a healthy blue baby in there.
Cinss that is good news that your DH should make the birth and that your squirmy little man is on the move to the correct position.
Thanks for looking. All is good. I'm feeling somewhat calm today. Only one more sleep.
Hey Ladies! Sorry I've been missing for a bit. Things have been crazy here with Charlie turning one and then dd1's birthday just a few weeks later.
Catch me up!
lol.... I woke up this morning feeling very calm... now I've stopped rushing around I'm feeling nauseated. I know dh is nervous but accepting. Only 6 hours to go.
Less than 2 hours to go... Gosh I feel sick. I'll have a house full of people when we get hone so I'm hoping its positive or I'll spend the afternoon crying. I want this bit to be over lol
I know the feeling, try to distract yourself for a bit... You will be ok, im excited for you! Update asap!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by minimatron
I'm like hanging off the end of my chair in suspense, can't wait to hear from you..let us know soon as you can
The scan place is running late...
I cant believe I'm baking a boy.... Omg
Omg!!! Huge congratulations mini I knew it ... Awwwww soo lovely to hear.. Enjoy every min of it!!
Mini I am so excited for you :bluecheer: best news ever :D congratulations on your son!!
Give us the juicy details of how the scan went :) How did DH react?Quote:
Originally Posted by minimatron